I like to show my support to zhang lei couple. They are friends we all need..

[socialanimal]

I think the couple are good people, they just like to help others. It,s good to have friends like them. I like to show my support to them.
They are not the problem for me, for sure. They should not be blamed.. Shame should go other ones...
I am afraid The big problem is from B family ies. The way they are dealing with the incident are too far from appropriate.. Another big problem is from the bad risk management/public relationship of cfc. It is annoying people. .

 

[向问天]

我死了， 肯定不需要他们写募捐书， 但能请他们写悼词吗？

 

[lotus123]

我死了， 肯定不需要他们写募捐书， 但能请他们写悼词吗？

不带这么会用人的。

 

[socialanimal]

我死了， 肯定不需要他们写募捐书， 但能请他们写悼词吗？

Their mistake at the beginning is not the big issue.. They have learned lesson for sure. If you can have them next time, you are lucky.. Good for you..
The community and society needs people like them, Riven too, and Andy. Someone must stand out, move! Let's go! do something to help others..community.. Society..

But all need listen to other suggestions... Not block,

 

[socialanimal]

The problem are from The way B family dealt with Liu, and risk management of.
Correct the mistake ASAP if can..

 

[独而怪]

我死了， 肯定不需要他们写募捐书， 但能请他们写悼词吗？

你不会死的！

 

[dolby]

I think the couple are good people, they just like to help others. It,s good to have friends like them. I like to show my support to them.
They are not the problem for me, for sure. They should not be blamed.. Shame should go other ones...
I am afraid The big problem is from B family ies. The way they are dealing with the incident are too far from appropriate.. Another big problem is from the bad risk management/public relationship of cfc. It is annoying people. .

是啊，好人也会办坏事，虽然本意是好的，种下的是龙种收获的可能是跳蚤。

 

[玩马甲谁不会呀]

I think the couple are good people, they just like to help others. It,s good to have friends like them. I like to show my support to them.
They are not the problem for me, for sure. They should not be blamed.. Shame should go other ones...
I am afraid The big problem is from B family ies. The way they are dealing with the incident are too far from appropriate.. Another big problem is from the bad risk management/public relationship of cfc. It is annoying people. .

大姐，您这英语水平照那位“中英文俱佳”的可是差的不止十万八千里啊。
以后尽量用英文写租房广告，时间长多锻炼训练，就像小草似的，春天一到总会有所成长的。

加油！

 

[chess]

I think the couple are good people, they just like to help others. It,s good to have friends like them. I like to show my support to them.
They are not the problem for me, for sure. They should not be blamed.. Shame should go other ones...
I am afraid The big problem is from B family ies. The way they are dealing with the incident are too far from appropriate.. Another big problem is from the bad risk management/public relationship of cfc. It is annoying people. .

同意，老张夫妇是好人包括瑞文，和所有捐款者一样都是出于对遇难家庭的同情，抱着一腔热情出手相助的。可以肯定他们当初都不知道该家庭的真实经济状况。他家有房子也可能有巨额贷款呢？一时拿不出救急资金也是有可能的。他们的作为我认为是应该被肯定的。我们的社区需要这样的热心人！

问题出在于后来事情的发展。如何使用这超出预计的善款？如何让大家的善义用到真正的刀刃上是值得讨论的。正确的思考和导向有助于在未来让华人社区的爱心得到继续的发扬，否则就反之。

 

[maimai]

大姐，您这英语水平照那位“中英文俱佳”的可是差的不止十万八千里啊。
以后尽量用英文写租房广告，时间长多锻炼训练，就像小草似的，春天一到总会有所成长的。

加油！

没啥问题呀 全看懂了！这位马甲你哪没懂，我帮lz给你解释解释.......

 

[冷笑9声]

状况外啊。。。不是幼儿园，不要讨论好人坏人好伐？
要双方认识到危机，共同止血。 老大肯定是意识到了，家属看上去自己还觉得冤着呢。

 

[三维人生]

大姐，您这英语水平照那位“中英文俱佳”的可是差的不止十万八千里啊。
以后尽量用英文写租房广告，时间长多锻炼训练，就像小草似的，春天一到总会有所成长的。

加油！

你这个人除了污言秽语, 谩骂他人, 做一点正经事好吗? 你知道对亡人最不敬的就是你这样的人!
我觉socialanimal英文蛮好的. 即便有个别地方可以商榷, 也比你这样无事生非的好许多!
没有话说, 就别说!

 

[ccc]

Their mistake at the beginning is not the big issue.. They have learned lesson for sure. If you can have them next time, you are lucky.. Good for you..
The community and society needs people like them, Riven too, and Andy. Someone must stand out, move! Let's go! do something to help others..community.. Society..

But all need listen to other suggestions... Not block,

我以为，实质问题是这次该不该走向社会募捐。如果不该，谁之过？

 

[向问天]

状况外啊。。。不是幼儿园，不要讨论好人坏人好伐？
要双方认识到危机，共同止血。 老大肯定是意识到了，家属看上去自己还觉得冤着呢。

上星期四， 我大声疾呼， 要他们回头是岸， 立地成佛。 可怜我人微言轻，社区该有此劫数！
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-- 梅赫巴巴

 

[冷笑9声]

我以为，实质问题是这次该不该走向社会募捐。

CFC输在利用自己、社区资源、走向社会募捐时的审查。