How to forget a man

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<HTML>If you want to pull off from a relationship, how can you to escape from the past memories? I only can think of 3 ways, do you have any suggestions to overcome the "sad" period?

1. Think all the negative things about him.

2. Find a new guy to replace him.

3. Keep yourself busy, focus on studying, sports, and other activities.</HTML>
 
<HTML>Be married to him, and then try to keep yourself value.
You will find any great man is an ordinary guy, and only the man who you never learn deeply from can be the man in your dream.
Wake up, all things are forgotten.</HTML>
 
<HTML>Find another wonderful dream and chase it...</HTML>
 
<HTML>Agree with former-ABC, but finally only time could change everything.</HTML>
 
<HTML>你是四条眉毛的陆小凤??? 久仰久仰</HTML>
 
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<HTML>I want to see new idea, not just comments. I know time will ruin my memory, but I want a fast way to healing this kind painful experience. By the way, if you cann't get off from your nightmare, how can you chase a new dream??</HTML>
 
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<HTML>Are you wanna dance, little dolphin? Go dance whenever you want to, with or without partner. But I don't think you can pass away by your 3-way solution. Sometime it could be worse by your solution. Because:
1) more negative become more postive.
2) quick seeking for a new guy will dust the eyes of your heart.
3) how can you concentrate yourself during those bad bad period?
What I can say, good luck. Just do whatever you want to do, whatever you want the life to be without the old guy, comfortable yourself. Even there is no fast way for such kind of painful experience, you still need go through it by yourself.

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<HTML>At least I think if you could pass this period with your good friends, talking with them about your feeling, that would be eaiser and less suffering.
Come on, you have to face it, there is no way to escape.</HTML>
 
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<HTML>当你为你新的梦想而奋斗时,过去失意不会是你的恶梦.只要问你自己一句:你为你现在的梦想而全心投入了吗?

有句话:开车时是不能只看倒后镜的.</HTML>
 
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<HTML>Former ABC,

You sound like a philosopher! You must be a mature guy if my guess is correct :) Are you in Ottawa?? If so, can I find you as the replace guy?

Looking forward to meet from you.

Sincerely,
Dancing Dolphin</HTML>
 
Re: To My Admirer

<HTML>Dancing Dolphin,

You over-estimate me. I am just an ordinary guy and want to understand myself.

I am in Ottawa now. If you were in Friday's party, we might meet.

Do you use MSN or QQ? I can add you in contact list. Mine is alex_li@hotmail.com and 明天出发

Take it easy.</HTML>
 
Re: suggestions

<HTML>1. They are right about only time can cure everything.
2. Keep your time occupied is definitely a very good idea
3. I agree you need to talk to your friends, you need somebody to stay with you at this moment
4. Approach God if you want to try. When your heart is full of him, you will not feel lonely.
5. Tell yourself he is not the person you're gonna go along for life. There must be someone waiting for you ahead. Actually there is. When you look back later, you'll know he's just an experience, not everything. I was told so by a girl who suffered and survived and it worked for me too.

Good luck.</HTML>
 
Whoa!

<HTML>So many 情场老手 or psychologists.</HTML>
 
Re: Whoa!

<HTML>情场老手= 给人甩了>20 次?
psychologist = 从来没有成功过?

好像我都不是.


"给所有人期待是一件很痛苦的事情" - <TOUCH 安达充></HTML>
 
挖靠, 都TNND的久病成良医的模样。

<HTML>Big-tail wolf lah....... :))))

No pain, no gain. Dolphin, finding a new person will make your position better off than current. But why do you want to gorget the past. You can never get rid of the past. It's part of your wealth.

1此情只待成追忆, 只是当时已惘然,

If you dump him, you must feel relieved and move on bah....; Unfortunately, if he dumped you, you need hold on for a whole.

Whenever it comes Xmas or New year, people have time to think about their life, which result in many broken hearts.

The lesson is: dump the counterpart before he or she dump you.</HTML>
 
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