问一下哦～ 关于结婚戒指升级

[hcloud]

当时没有钱， 买了个挺便宜的戒指。 Band和Ring一共不到１０００块。

现在虽然说还是没有钱， 但是毕竟有工作了。 一般来说不是４－６周或者更多的工资用来买戒指比较合适么。 那时候没收入， 还算贵的了。

问题是， 现在该不该换？ 换结婚钻戒（一般压箱底的）还是平常带的Band?

我觉得这东西应该是一辈子不换的， 理论上。 但是钻小而且还质量差怎么说也寒酸了点。 毕竟老婆还是配得上更好的。

大家啥想法？

 

[ccc]

I guess, there is no such a thing as 结婚戒指升级.

婚结了. That was it. It was already all done (pass tense).

But you might want to buy your wife as many diamond rings as you could afford, I guess, on the occasions of the 5th/10th/15th/25th/30th/.../50th anniversaries.

 

[hcloud]

I guess, there is no such a thing as 结婚戒指升级.

婚结了. That was it. It was already all done (pass tense).

But you might want to buy your wife as many diamond rings as you could afford, I guess, on the occasions of the 5th/10th/15th/25th/30th/.../50th anniversaries.

Well, rings are something you don't get to change a lot. Wouldn't it be a waste to keep more than a necessary number of rings? I mean, she'd wear the wedding band anyway.

Of course, that's different if she wears multiple rings at the same time.

 

[hellome]

你先问问老婆再说吧，我觉得你老婆可能不会同意.......

 

[ccc]

Well, rings are something you don't get to change a lot. Wouldn't it be a waste to keep more than a necessary number of rings? I mean, she'd wear the wedding band anyway.

Of course, that's different if she wears multiple rings at the same time.

She could wear any extra rings, but you would not want her to change the 结婚戒指. Right?

So, 结婚戒指 shall never be 升级. The one and only! That was my point, actually.

 

[某某]

The term "wedding ring" is meant to be the band only. The diamond ring is not a wedding ring, but rather the engagement ring if you bought her one before the wedding.

If you want to buy her more diamond rings, by all means go for it. But those will be neither your wedding ring nor engagement ring. As once your wedding has happened, it happened, you don't change what had involved then.

You could buy her anniversary rings like ccc has suggested. But judging from your words that it's a 压箱底的, you probably want to ask your wife first. Maybe instead of a ring, get her a diamond pendant on a nice necklace or something like that.

 

[1784]

switching wedding ring/engagement ring is lame, buy a casual ring with big diamond is a good thing (Y)

 

[月下独酌]

可以换啊，老得拿去押箱底，买个新的anniversary戒指啊


现在很多人2次结婚，办婚礼，就是因为年轻的时候没有那个时间、钱

 

[charman]

钻戒可以换，否则钻太小戴出去也不好看

 

[nini9233]

忽然有个问题，做饭，洗澡时需要把戒指取下来么？

 

[Sean Mama]

我是非常赞同楼上的说法。不在乎贵与贱，只在乎其意义。结婚时的承诺，一切生老病死，富贵患难，将共同走过。这小小的戒子，就是见证。我从来没有把结婚戒子离开过我，（唯一一次是动手术，医生不允许带任何金属东西），现在人胖了点，有点紧，我准备拿去加宽。从来没有想过戒字太便宜，见不了人。总是很开心看见带上结婚戒子的人，觉得他们也找到人生重要的另一半，人的心就会安稳，不再漂泊。

按照传统，带钻石的，是订婚、求婚戒子.结婚时互相交换的，才叫结婚戒子，通常只是一个环的那种，上面什么都没有。结婚时把结婚戒子戴在左手无名指里面，定婚戒子戴在外面。平时都这样戴着，干家务也一样。平时定期送到MALL里面卖珠宝的店里，让他们帮着清洁一下，是免费的。

很赞成LG在一些特别的日子送上更好看的介子，我肯定是得一个，戴一个，等手指都戴得满满的，我就不能干活了，什么活都让他干好了，那个时候的日子就更美了。

 

[hcloud]

我还是把贴删了比较好，呵呵……

 

[苦逼热狗]

当事人现在看到这个帖子的话，一定很无奈地摇头了

 

[campfortune]

当事人现在看到这个帖子的话，一定很无奈地摇头了

这年头，离好像挺容易

 

[西西妈]

翻出这么老的帖子当新贴回了也不容易哈