求助：老婆和洋老头老板不时放电，咋整？

CanChn · 2010-06-27

lvmaozi 说:
村长，是我捅还是她捅阿，捅破了这日子我估计更没法过了

不管是谁的桶，桶破了，电就放了。

蓝离阵列 · 2010-06-27

能把这事放上来就说明对LP也没什么感情了。
孩子不是傻瓜，有时候比大人更洞若观火， LZ这么挂念孩子就想想怎么做对他们最好。

concordyy · 2010-06-27

你去和洋老头的女儿放电！

eggplant · 2010-06-27

iluwz 说:
武松弑嫂了，石秀也弑嫂了，
楼主也可以认个小弟，让他弑嫂。

做宋江不成吗?

wjg18 · 2010-06-27

挑明整

colonel · 2010-06-27

先辞去工作，转移了存款。
再搞离婚。

以前有个网上搞上海女人的帖子。

lvmaozi · 2010-06-27

一夜无眠，醒来一看，谢谢大伙的厚爱，给了这么多建议。82楼的我看这是我几个选择里比较可行的了。可是几年的名牌公司的工作经验丢掉，对我这已过不惑年龄的人来说是否也是一个很难得抉择呢？
“先辞去工作，转移了存款。
再搞离婚。以前有个网上搞上海女人的帖子。”

anna1988 · 2010-06-27

先辞去工作，转移了存款。
再搞离婚。

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主意虽好,说不准LZ的老婆这会儿也在CFC挂着.......

飞来客 · 2010-06-27

lvmaozi 说:
一夜无眠，醒来一看，谢谢大伙的厚爱，给了这么多建议。82楼的我看这是我几个选择里比较可行的了。可是几年的名牌公司的工作经验丢掉，对我这已过不惑年龄的人来说是否也是一个很难得抉择呢？
“先辞去工作，转移了存款。
再搞离婚。以前有个网上搞上海女人的帖子。”

男子汉，拿得起放得下，该做啥就做啥，没什么大不了的，虽然她对不起你，但毕竟夫妇一场，你也得公平待她。自己吃点小亏，也会换回金钱买不到的人格与厚道。

lvmaozi · 2010-06-27

飞来客：”金钱买不到的人格与厚道“我倒是想，可问题是现在过不去的是自己心理的这一关阿。否则睁一只眼闭一只眼，生活就这么过下去了。

ck4love6 · 2010-06-27

这年头海外华男很少不带绿帽的，您老没大本事，就将就着吧

lvmaozi · 2010-06-27

ck4love6 说:
这年头海外华男很少不带绿帽的，您老没大本事，就将就着吧

如果真这样，那就是我自己意志有问题？别的海外华男都能忍？就这么将就下去？实在不甘不愿！！！

青远号 · 2010-06-27

lvmaozi 说:
飞来客：”金钱买不到的人格与厚道“我倒是想，可问题是现在过不去的是自己心理的这一关阿。否则睁一只眼闭一只眼，生活就这么过下去了。

别永远委屈自己，江山易改，本性难移。很多事永远都改变不了。

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hulaha · 2010-06-27

lvmaozi 说:
现在我该怎么办，继续忍下去，70岁洋老头丈人丈母不归西，我还得有多少苦日子熬，想都不敢想，和LP离婚，可离婚的代价也太大了。也没法想。后半辈子可怎么活啊？

唉，窝囊！

如果不敢豁出去了，那么你就被人吃一辈子了。

其实，做好豁出去的准备，结果很可能是明天会更好。

merryfish · 2010-06-27

碰到这种事情，早分开早好，男人带着个绿帽子啥滋味谁多知道，既然你lb做了这种事情，就应该承担后果。给她充分的自由，让她和那个老头子过好了，自己抚养大孩子就是，如果在加拿大抚养小孩困难，就把小孩带回到你老家去。

求助：老婆和洋老头老板不时放电，咋整？

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