说我呢吧 Sometimes you need someone who share the same code of thoughts to talk with you, if one cannot understand your words, it is not that your words are not intelligible or that someone is not understanding, but you think in different ways by nature.
噗嗤!谢谢大家来捧场哈,我是说共同语言的问题,有时候不怪你表达不清晰,也不怪别人不理解,而是两种不同的思维方式使沟通没有实现的可能。语言不仅仅是文字这么简单,不是语法和词汇,而是思维的碰撞,包括社会文化意识和心理构建的问题。有没有经历过狗说狗话猫说猫话的时候,并且两位还会你一言我一语说得不亦乐乎的,其实各自在说各自的事儿。呵呵。同样的语言可能会引起不同的思考过程,这个是跟individual experience有关的。
知音就在这里啊,你懂我的![]()