关于好车与猪头的问题，我想谈一下自己的看法
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coolsunshine
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等凭自己的本事买好车了再牛逼也不迟。靠父母，靠BF，GF有P用啊！反而让人看不起！
人淡如菊
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Just wondering, if you don't want people like her to make prejudiced presumptions about international students, why do you turn around and assume things yourself? Such as her boyfriend dropped out of school and works a low-paying job, her parents (as all old immigrants) ripped off internation students etc etc. Perhaps if you'd base your arguments on facts only you'd have a stronger argument.
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( 1st. excuse me of the English typing, im not fast at typing chinese, you are welcome to talk to me if you want, I can talk Chinese ok but not typing. i could spend a day to type these words in Chinese. these are my personal point of view,) i think we should stop this endless argument, there is nothing wrong of expressing our thoughts (or angry words), in this case these words are not changing anything and more importantly, helping anything. every has his or her own reason, however on this topic there is no right or wrong. there are some students whose parents have a lot of money and these students are not any shy of spending all of it. this is the trigger of whoever getting really pissed off and saying all that stuff. simply they felt the 'unfairness' between their lives and the wealthy ones by the psychological Social Comparison. think about it, it's very possible that if the person who grows up with lots of cash from parents or family, that person is unlikely to go through anything related with the hardship of money making; on the other hand, the ones grew up without these 'cash support' is more likely know a lot more of how money is made, and when these two kind of people meet (or know, see..), the ones with less money would feel these 'unfairness' thoughts, or worse, got pissed off, they mostly think that the rich ones have all that money to live on the top of the world,and not a single cent was made by them. like 亻钷??的蜂蜜 said '有一些的催是很混', i agree. think more clearly, is being pissed off and complaining about this the right solution? obviously no. i'm Chinese Canadian, i live on my OSAP through University, the other word 'a poor student', i won't lie, speaking of the truth, i do feel a bit of the discomfort comparing with the rich students. I also know that being angry and pissed off can't make me any money. what really can make me live like that, is to study hard in school and have a good career, that will make me money, a lot of it. we can't change other peoples' lives, but we can change ourself, make us better. there are also some rich students out there living large but also working their asses off in school, they know what they are doing, that's important. no matter how much money a person has, to me, it is not the money that person has, it is the person's ability to make the money. that's the key. anger doesn't make anyone any money, it only harms you. think and do what really matters.
wuts wrong with Chinese Canadian?
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I am proud to be a CHinese, but when i am really really really mad i need to type something in such a short time then i use English because i can't type Chinese as fast as other people can.
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hey, chinese canadian doesn't mean my english has to be perfect, and it doesn't mean i was born here either. did i say my english is better than anyone else? no, i didn't, chinese canadian only means i didn't go to university directly from china, im only saying that in my case that's my point of view. im not using chinese canadian to say that im better than others. is this worth it for you to put all that words on something that i didn't mean at the first place?
