[问题] 我可以爱他吗？我应该怎么办？

[星空无际]

我现在好苦恼，所以想请教大家帮我想想办法，给点建议给我---我该怎么办？

简单的说就是我喜欢上了一个男生，但是他有女朋友了，不过不在加拿大，是在国内。
问题是我们现在总是在一起，而且我的感觉是他对我好像也不单单是朋友的想法，他给予我的关怀让我觉得已经超出了朋友的界线。可是我们在言语上好像总在提示对对方我们只是朋友，但有的时候我们之间的对话和玩笑又有别的意思。
我的表达不好，但是我希望大家可以明白我的意思，帮我想想办法，我到底应该怎么做呢？因为我好喜欢他的！

谢谢大家了~

 

[max]

最初由 星空无际 发布
我现在好苦恼，所以想请教大家帮我想想办法，给点建议给我---我该怎么办？

简单的说就是我喜欢上了一个男生，但是他有女朋友了，不过不在加拿大，是在国内。
问题是我们现在总是在一起，而且我的感觉是他对我好像也不单单是朋友的想法，他给予我的关怀让我觉得已经超出了朋友的界线。可是我们在言语上好像总在提示对对方我们只是朋友，但有的时候我们之间的对话和玩笑又有别的意思。
我的表达不好，但是我希望大家可以明白我的意思，帮我想想办法，我到底应该怎么做呢？因为我好喜欢他的！

谢谢大家了~

IT WILL NOT WORK IF HE CHEAT HIS GIRLFRIEND. RIGHT NOW, HE IS NOT IN A POSITION TO GIVE YOU A HEALTH LOVE YOU DESERVE. ENVEN YOU OPEN YOUR HEART AND HE ACCEPT YOU, WILL YOU TRUST HIM FOR THE REST OF LIFE? WON'T YOU LOSE RESEPCT OF YOURSELF? YOU MAY WIN A BATTLE BUT LOST A WAR.
SONEONE SPECIAL FOR YOU WILL ALWAYS COME LATER ON. DON'T SELL YOURSELF CHEAP TO ANYONE WHO ALREADY HAD A RELATIONSHIP. YOU MUST RESPECT OTHER'S CHOICE AND ONE DAY YOU WILL BE SO GLAD YOU DID. DO NOT WASTE TIME ON A MAN WHO IS SWING BACK AND FORTH WITH YOU AND HIS GIRLFRIEND. HE IS NOT WORTHY YOUR LOVE. LOOK FORWARD...AND YOU WILL BE SO GALD YOU DID. I GURANTEE THAT.

 

[星空无际]

你说得对 但是让我做到好难！

 

[.╉假の面╉.]

公平竞争```爱情无错

 

[lazy susan]

Re: Re: [问题] 我可以爱他吗？我应该怎么办？

最初由 max 发布


IT WILL NOT WORK IF HE CHEAT HIS GIRLFRIEND. RIGHT NOW, HE IS NOT IN A POSITION TO GIVE YOU A HEALTH LOVE YOU DESERVE. ENVEN YOU OPEN YOUR HEART AND HE ACCEPT YOU, WILL YOU TRUST HIM FOR THE REST OF LIFE? WON'T YOU LOSE RESEPCT OF YOURSELF? YOU MAY WIN A BATTLE BUT LOST A WAR.
SONEONE SPECIAL FOR YOU WILL ALWAYS COME LATER ON. DON'T SELL YOURSELF CHEAP TO ANYONE WHO ALREADY HAD A RELATIONSHIP. YOU MUST RESPECT OTHER'S CHOICE AND ONE DAY YOU WILL BE SO GLAD YOU DID. DO NOT WASTE TIME ON A MAN WHO IS SWING BACK AND FORTH WITH YOU AND HIS GIRLFRIEND. HE IS NOT WORTHY YOUR LOVE. LOOK FORWARD...AND YOU WILL BE SO GALD YOU DID. I GURANTEE THAT.

Strongly agreed! I 'BS' that man who wants to put his feet on two different boats! If he wants another relationship, end the previous one first.

 

[flywithwind]

只要他没结婚，喜欢他就去爱他。生命不能重复，爱也不能！
在爱情里，付出与的到同样能给我们快乐。等你青春的日记
发黄了以后，你会发现：年轻时留下的所有爱情历程都会是
那么的美丽！

享受你的生命与生命里的爱情！

 

[fly into the sky]

Just give up this man! If he could do this to his girlfriend, he will do the same thing to you in the future!

 

[reform]

跟着你的感觉走,但不要越线.你的那位朋友有选择权,他可以二者之中选一位
作伴侣(当然,在他结婚之前).