这段话很有道理

[DanceWithWolf]

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如果中国MM们能学会对周围的路人微笑，效果会比较好，现实是，中国的MM们大部分比较严肃。不妨做个实验，你在电梯里碰到一个中国MM，当你二人眼光交错时，......

What about -
You smile and nod first without SHEMIMI.

 

[oliver2005]

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如果中国MM们能学会对周围的路人微笑，效果会比较好，现实是，中国的MM们大部分比较严肃。不妨做个实验，你在电梯里碰到一个中国MM，当你二人眼光交错时，......

这你就不懂了. 东西是越难得到的越珍贵. 所以, 如果哪个MM对你一微笑, 你一定会神魂颠倒. 要不怎么会有的刚来几天的女大学毕业生, 很快就男朋友一大堆, 不愁有困难没人帮忙. 可悲的是有人死了都不知道是怎么死的.

 

[dropinto]

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最初由 DanceWithWolf 发布


You need not care about local people's response as long as you are confident.

"We need compliment" what I said is related to a deeper topic. The brief idea is -

We, ZHONGGUOREN, got/are getting TOO much blame from other nations because ZHONGGUO was weaker, poorer and unindustrialized. Gradually, some of us perceive the opinions forced by others. Then, they(some of us) began to blame ourself people, and that makes ZHONGGUOREN lose confidence.
You know what? To compliment is the effective way to encourage people and make people confident.


P.S.
I wont mind if you compliment me because I am a reasonable, confident person. I believe I responded properly in all my posting.

I feel you like to assume others are not confident as you, which is not good to encourage people around you, or on CFC.

 

[dropinto]

最初由 visitor 发布
如果中国MM们能学会对周围的路人微笑，效果会比较好，现实是，中国的MM们大部分比较严肃。不妨做个实验，你在电梯里碰到一个中国MM，当你二人眼光交错时，......

what will happen?

 

[Beleriand]

最初由 Kent以东首帅哥 发布
"把任何别人的帮助,得到的好处视之当然;得到好处后便扬长而去,得不到好处则到处怨天尤人;为达到目的不择手段,不达目的誓不罢休;有求于人时,好话说尽,达到目的后可以翻脸不认人;斗争性奇强,敢于斗争,善于斗争,雄揆滔滔,永远有理;张牙舞爪,咄咄逼人"

同意上面观点

正好也吃饱了, 没事干, 一起来抬抬扛
还是老V会讲话, 说的大家都暖轰轰的, 不过就抬不起扛了.

这个观点不好, 还是以阶级斗争为纲, 把同胞一棒子打死, 搞的火药味有点浓.

其实就是大家走的太近了,难免对对方有些企求. 其实还是把事情分的开些好.
如果是举手之劳哪, 就别看别人给不给笑脸了, 你要尽量面带笑容, 象春天一样暖暖的, 天天看着这样的脸,把他也就烤暖和了.

如果是原则问题, 比如说还没有搞熟的MM, 就别拿她给对自己有威胁的人看, 比如象老捶这样的人; 要看也就给象我这样的人看看, 让MM从我的身上,发现你的闪光点来. 这样你就不会出现杀人的动机了.

因为咱看了白人,黑人MM,没什么冲动, 你和人家都没有那个欲望, 没有性别感, 自然就没有企求了. 但如果看见个中国MM, 就动了色心, 和老捶一样, 从下三路入手, 那MM自然要自我保护. 高手过着,最重要的是不能露出破绽.

还是心平气和的好, 笨人好, 思想简单, 抱怨就少了

 

[DanceWithWolf]

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最初由 dropinto 发布


I feel you like to assume others are not confident as you, which is not good to encourage people around you, or on CFC.

See, you blame people here. You had better have more education.

Actually, I didn't assume anyone here is not confident.
But right now, I am sure you are the one who has no confidence at all.

Why -
1. You judge ZHONGGUOREN by local peple's response, not by you own knowledge/experience.
2. You are too sensitive to other people's words although that words are not about you.

Stop talking to you because you are a person without much thoughts.

 

[dropinto]

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最初由 DanceWithWolf 发布


See, you blame people here. You had better have more education.

See, you like fighting, insulting others.

You probably think the everyone's education is lower than you.

Actually well educated people would say this kind of words to others.

 

[dropinto]

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最初由 DanceWithWolf 发布


See, you blame people here. You had better have more education.

Actually, I didn't assume anyone here is not confident.
But right now, I am sure you are the one who has no confidence at all.

Why -
1. You judge ZHONGGUOREN by local peple's response, not by you own knowledge/experience.
2. You are too sensitive to other people's words although that words are not about you.

Stop talking to you because you are a person without much thoughts.

when did you judge our people by local people's response. ridiculous!

what i said is

"Chinese people have many good characters. As woman, I really appreciate many good characters from Chinese men. I talked this to the local people. Their feeling were so complicated after my speech."

are there any words to make you think i judge our people by local people's response?

 

[dropinto]

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最初由 DanceWithWolf 发布

But right now, I am sure you are the one who has no confidence at all.

Your words would hurt me. I know myself well. and feel you are funny.

 

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[SUPER&ME]

最初由 Kent以东首帅哥 发布
"把任何别人的帮助,得到的好处视之当然;得到好处后便扬长而去,得不到好处则到处怨天尤人;为达到目的不择手段,不达目的誓不罢休;有求于人时,好话说尽,达到目的后可以翻脸不认人;斗争性奇强,敢于斗争,善于斗争,雄揆滔滔,永远有理;张牙舞爪,咄咄逼人"

同意上面观点

少数被人驯化的动物也具有这样的特征...

 

[北极光]

最初由 Kent以东首帅哥 发布
"把任何别人的帮助,得到的好处视之当然;得到好处后便扬长而去,得不到好处则到处怨天尤人;为达到目的不择手段,不达目的誓不罢休;有求于人时,好话说尽,达到目的后可以翻脸不认人;斗争性奇强,敢于斗争,善于斗争,雄揆滔滔,永远有理;张牙舞爪,咄咄逼人"

同意上面观点

其实做人是要奉行一些原则，比如能够容忍别人。尽量不挑剔别人。最好是能够记住人家的好处，长处，优点。不想或少想人家的过失，短处，缺点。只有这样做人才能够比较洒脱，活的有信心。相信别人也会这样回报你。相反，每天都看别人不顺眼，这个不行，那个也差劲儿，谁谁更不怎么样，搞来搞去只有自己最好，别人都不行，都亏欠自己那就比较麻烦。甚至会牢骚满腹。老毛不是讲过，牢骚太盛防肠断嘛？对身体不好。

人都有自私的一面，现在想来我们最对不起的是远在天边的父母。古语有云：父母在，不远游。可是我们还是远游了。扬长而去了。当他们需要我们在身边时，我们却无能为力。只是后悔能够尽一点孝心时却没有更多的去做一点什么。所以我们首先要问，我们自己对亲人够好吗？正所谓严于律己，宽以待人。

 

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