[问题] 我这种情况，该不该移民呢，请不吝指教

[lilidoo]

加一句,在国内37岁老了,在这还年青,可以拼一把.

 

[yuaile]

移民这个决定真是很伤脑筋

 

[hxp417]

37了，搞IT的，移民不是找死是什么？

 

[cvictor]

人挪活，树挪死。

 

[jayliao]

I think again and again, I should say something to you. If you want to talk to me more detailed, you can reach me at liao_jay@hotmail.com. I really hope I can help you and other chinese guys via this forum.
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if (

1,不夸张的讲,我是个编程专家.
2,心理素质好.
3,有在国外工作的经历(极苦的三年)
4,外语流利(英语流利,日语可以冒充鬼子.)

+ your other reasons you want to move here, .....

) {

come here!!!!!

}

else if ( you

1. are always thinking of your successful things in China, can not start again, as your item 2 is not true;

2. can not forget about your everything in china, && forgot about your itme 3 (极苦的三年);

3. are always thinking of how much $ you want to make( based on your current salaries)

) {

Don't come here!!!

}

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if you are:

1,不夸张的讲,我是个编程专家.
2,心理素质好.

I think you really should come. Actually, I think you have had an idea already, just not to be really sure about your these two,.....



Good luck!

Jay.

 

[HeronGate]

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[Lily_in_wind]

最初由 GYGY 发布
I don't suggest you to immigrate. My husband has the same background and same thoughts with you.he is a very honest man and likes peace life. he also has master degree and worked in a big american company in china. before he immigrated he thought he cought do anything in canada. but the fact is after he lost his prefessional job here and after failed to find another one in two years, he really had a big change.we brought enought money from china and i was so lucky because i got a not bad job in a good caompany(accounting and administration) just in very short time after our landing.we never worry about the money. now my husband works as a technician and we have a houseand a car here and the kid very happr. we are planning to have a second baby.i should say our life is good enough. but i found my husband is not as happy as the man when he stayed in china.he always feels he lost self-esteem here.he never complains something but i can feel he is not so happy.you say you can do labout work in canada but when you really do this kind of job you will change your life. yo are not so young now (the same age with my huaband), even you find a software developer job position here is still worry about your future. hi-tech belongs to the young people.after you are 45 or 50 age, the boss will kick you off. that's why my husband transfered to be a technician.
my experience is life here is not as easy as you think.canada has good social benefit system but you should work and pay the tax when you are young.and you can not save a lots of money here.
if you really want to try the life in canada, you can stay here for a while. if you want to come here just because you worry about your future in china i think it's no use.actually i think in china you have a lots of choices when you are old. you can be a manger, a sales person and any other kind job, but in canada, you don;t have many choices because your language and culture background. no promotion chance.
life is not easty in anywhere. if you really want to immigrate for your kid and peace life, you can come here and have a try. if just worry about your future in china and thinks canada has better future than in china for your career and material life, i think immigration is not a good choice in your age.
anyway, decision is hard. it's depends on you.

It's hard to imagine a person holding a permenant position in administration could make so many grammar mistakes in her short article. While looking for a job, one obvious error in the cover letter would make the candidate lose your credibility entirely. Not to mention if you're writing to your boss; or, even more important, to your customers on behalf of your boss. Did you make these mistakes purposely?

 

[winnerflying]

最初由 shou 发布

移不移民主要是心态的问题,如果你能有2-3年只能打LABOUR工的准备,没有失落感,就可以,ANOTHER THING HOW ABOUT YOUR English, can you smoothly communicate with the other people, you are Manager right now, if let work iunder the sb who is youger than you, can you adjust that, ?
And here everything ash you have North America or Canadian experience, so the frist beginning will be very very hard.And your current money is not enough to buy the house, you have to go the morgage, but it need you have job or any income, don't care you have saving or not.

Any way, here is good for your kid for sure