最初由 放风筝の~深山隐者~ 发布
Dump him as a pursuer:
hurt him not just once, but more than twice, give him a wake up call by telling simple reason, for example------ I don't like your eyes.
Break up as ex-BF:
tell him, may be we shall try something new, and tell him that you already move on.
Divorce
tell him you will appeal your right of taking a portion of your property.