网恋---能成功么?

[Eternal Flame]

搬运工？

 

[1784]

It takes a combination of responsibility, character, (social, professional, other) capability, personality, and even attitude towards things and the moral values.

It still takes time for one to get to know someone, and believe in what he know ...

Everything from the internet is just words ... and that could be totally different from what people do in real life (not saying lies, just that human in general would say one thing and do another)

 

[1784]

搬运工？

20k? 30k? 40k?

 

[1784]

干嘛在这儿问？ 直接问对方省事多了。

还有，就算成功了或失败了，跟“恋”的关系大些还是跟“网”的关系大些？

整这么复杂做啥呢

It doesn't have much to do with either of those ... it is more of how sure you know it is the right person ... and the person you think you know would be the one who he/she really is?

It is more of an objective consideration rather the emotion impact

 

[joe_xj]

困惑了。。。

你13楼里的成功是指啥啊？40，50，60年。。。？

如果是，我的回答做废，爱情没有长生不老药。

 

[1784]

A friend of mine, met his then girlfriend over the internet, a year later he went back to China and married her.

Now they live in Ottawa, and their daughter is 2 years old.

Everything is possible.

I still believe in that it takes time to get to know each other in real life ...

 

[1784]

困惑了。。。

你13楼里的成功是指啥啊？40，50，60年。。。？

如果是，我的回答做废，爱情没有长生不老药。

I am not talking about love ... I was talking about the rest of the life, that two are together ...

 

[joe_xj]

从你17，19楼的话里，我没看到任何热情，勇气，信心。。。等任何成功需要的正面的DD。

窃以为你已经偏离航向很远了，不看好你这一次的尝试了

 

[joe_xj]

那就换个角度吧，想想你又在害怕，担心什么，然后面对或撤退。。。

I am not talking about love ... I was talking about the rest of the life, that two are together ...

 

[wuwei]

I am not talking about love ... I was talking about the rest of the life, that two are together ...

首先，你为什么要谈天长地久？

 

[joe_xj]

不要吓LZ，追求天长地久没什么不对，也不需要什么理由，也完全可行。

但要注意方式方法。

首先，你为什么要谈天长地久？

 

[1784]

首先，你为什么要谈天长地久？

two shall get togther, get married, and have kids ... and spend the rest of their lives together ...

 

[1784]

那就换个角度吧，想想你又在害怕，担心什么，然后面对或撤退。。。

nothing to be afraid at ... just of concern ...

 

[1784]

从你17，19楼的话里，我没看到任何热情，勇气，信心。。。等任何成功需要的正面的DD。

窃以为你已经偏离航向很远了，不看好你这一次的尝试了

those are just very plain statements, doesn't involve much of antyhing else ...

偏离航向很远了==??? what do you mean by that?

by the way, please use quote ... it is relaly hard for me to count ...

 

[Eternal Flame]

20k? 30k? 40k?

not sure what u mean.....

I mean if she is really pretty and/or want to come to Canada and you are not good looking then she could be just using u as 搬运工