引用一下甘地一段话来回答你campfortune 说:maybe they are the exceptions, rather than the rule?
ARUN GANDHI: Well he said this when he was speaking after prayer service and he mentioned this because people kept saying to him that the world has to change for us to change. He said, "No, the world will not change if we don't change." So we have to make the beginning ourselves. It has always been our human nature to blame someone else for everything that is happening. It's never us. We are never at fault. And he tried to make us realize that we are just as much in the fault as anybody else. Unless we change ourselves and help people around us change, nobody will change because then everybody will be waiting for the other person to change.
You are losing your guts to make a change.得。。。按你这么说加拿大的Employment Equity Policy 也不必存在了!
我严重怀疑双果楼主在戏弄大火, 整段英文,偏偏就这个单词缩写。才反应过来。。sb 是somebody的意思。。。
Life is so deterministic...so unfair, especially to women. if a man was born ugly he can always make it up by being successful economically, he can still get beautiful women. but a woman is doomed, no matter what! what is the chance of a ugly woman getting a handsome man even if she is successfully economically?
]敏感大多数来自自卑。。。
社会有社会的规则,用unfair来遮蔽自己对事物的看法是不应该的。。。每件事的发生都有它自身的本质和根源。。可怜人必有可恨之处。。这句话不是没有道理的。。
你说one man born ugly 你本身已经从外貌评断这个人的能力了。其实换个角度想,他能成功是因为抓住了时机和自己的能力。。。。同样的机会不是所有人都能抓住的。。
再有ugly women 没有找到 handsome guy可能本身她除去金钱本身缺乏吸引力。。。这个是个选择的问题。。。。但是我觉得no matter what这个有点太决断了。。
我们决断事情如此肤浅是因为我们对事物本身了解的太少。。。
:)
美女不理超级UGLY男。您可能不算丑男,美女缘好。那个萎萎男天天在网上混。用脚后跟都知道是萎缩大龄丑男。从他的概率逻辑推算应该不是一般的丑陋,而且属于层次比较低,难得接触素质美女ya. graduates of Qinghua and studied PHD in my U. but they were taken. and I am not keeping touch with them, so you are out of luck
maybe they are exceptions to the rule? I don't know enough people to know.