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他倒在他心爱的排球场上，再没有起来。。。
夜深了，起来看看孩子，有没有把被子踢开。端详着老三熟睡的脸，今天白天的活动是否令她疲惫，还是让她兴奋得连睡觉的小脸上都挂着笑容。给她把被子掖好，再恋恋不舍地躺回自己的被窝。
明天一早，还要给老二准备早餐，最近她有点不喜欢中式的早餐，换换口味吧。明天送她去上学的路上，她可能还会问到选举的问题，孩子大了，有自己的见解了。
老大呢，正在准备期末考试，有一个星期没有电话联系了，算了，先不打扰她，等她考完试放了假，再给她做她最爱吃的火烧补偿补偿吧。
对于三个女儿，他是一个慈爱的父亲。而对于我，他是一个温和的兄长，语速向来不疾不徐，和他谈话，像听说书似的，带一点儿京腔，是我喜欢的韵味儿。
初识是在草坪，儿童游乐园旁边的草坪，孩子们夏天在这里嬉戏，秋千滑梯，天热了还有戏水莲蓬。有人带了排球就一起垫几个。他从前在大学里排球打得很好，我们就让他作教练。他教得很用心，遇上没有基础的，就耐心地教，结合练习让我们慢慢体会正确击球部位和控球感。我们的团队水平不一，但是每一个人都很痴迷排球，一如这位兄长。后来在冬天，我们组织了定期的室内练习，他也带老二老三妻子来。偶尔出去打比赛，他的妻子是我们任劳任怨的后勤，队医兼孩子的保姆。
为准备这次早春杯排球赛，前两周画了阵型图送到每个队员的手里，图上六个位置，有每个队员的名字。星期六(April 30)那场慈善排球赛，在他二传的有力组织下，我们20 比11 遥遥领先，还差一个球就完美收场，他却倒下了没有再起来。
孩子的爸爸走了，他倒在了他心爱的排球场上。毫无预兆的心肌梗塞，顷刻就被死神召去了。救护车呼啸而来，但是还是没有能挽回脆弱的生命。
生活琐碎，凡事没有完美，但生命的意义和美丽，就在体验这些琐碎和不完美的过程中，在努力提升自己的过程中，在关怀家人，关心朋友的过程中。今天，他再也没有这样的机会了。
这样一个慈爱的父亲，昨天还是家里每个人都可以依靠的港湾，今天竟然成为苦涩泪水中的回忆了。
听到这个不幸的消息，我不能自持，为人父，为人子，我能体会这生命的平凡，这平凡的生命。 但我难以想象一个失去主要收入支柱和主要精神支柱家庭所面临的困难。
幸福和不幸，就隔着薄薄的一张纸。这一次，上苍这般无情，捅破了这张纸。原本生气盎然的家庭，被迫要面对即将到来的一切压力，按揭财务压力会迫使她们卖掉现在的住所，另寻一处遮蔽的空间。
现在，家里显得空荡荡的，到处都有他的痕迹，处处都是令人伤心的记忆。他曾计划要在地下室弄一弄的，把乒乓球台的灯光弄得亮堂一些。他曾计划要把草坪弄一弄的，让草儿长得更茂密一些。现在，他的家人无奈要计划的是他的葬丧。相濡以沫的妻子，悲痛得彻夜难眠，睹物思人，情何以堪，睁眼是他，闭眼也是他，他怎么舍得就这样撒手人寰。万般悲痛下，还得叮咛亲属朋友，千万别透露这个消息到媒体，担心在外地求学大女儿的期末考试受到影响。
为了一个遭受这样打击的家庭，我们能做点什么呢？朋友们，请伸出你的双手，帮助一下这个在移民道路上奋斗在移民道路上奋斗未果的朋友吧，为家庭伸开臂弯的丈夫和慈父吧。无论多少，都有帮助。
朋友们，你也是家里的顶梁柱吧，或者是和顶梁柱共创美好前程的拼搏者，奋斗者。我们坚信一分耕耘，一分收获，这是以身体健康为前提的，请珍惜身体，珍惜自己，珍爱家人，珍爱生命。
谢谢。
追悼会消息:
Kai Wang, Nepean resident and Canada Border Service Agency (CBSA) employee, passed away suddenly in Gatineau, Saturday, April 30, 2011, in his 49th year, while participating in a charity volleyball tournament for Moisson Outaouais (Food Bank Outaouais). Moisson Outaouais serves to meet the needs of economically disadvantaged children and families.
Born in Beijing on December 16, 1962, Kai received his primary and secondary education in Beijing. From 1980 to 1984, he studied in Beijing Agricultural University, majoring in Economic Management. After graduation, he worked for the Tong County Government Coordination Office and then for China Ministry of Education. In 1990, he was admitted to the Masters Program in Agricultural Economics of McGill University, and between 1992 and 1996, he studied in Ottawa University majoring in computer science. After graduation, he worked in several private companies including Nortel. In 2003, he started to work for the CBSA at first as a Software Developer/Analyst and then DBA until the time of his death.
An avid volleyball lover, he played an active role in a local volleyball team and coached many of his team members on basic volleyball skills as well as offensive and defensive tactics. He is loved and respected by all his team members.
Kai was also an active member of the Ottawa Chinese United Church for many years, having been baptized there in the late 1990’s.
Kai, the sole stable income provider of his family, is survived by his now devastated wife, Huiying Yin, who had known Kai ever since her childhood and was married to him for more than 25 five years, and by his three daughters, who love him deeply, Elizabeth, 25, Isabella, 14, and Evangeline, 6.
Visitation is scheduled from 1 to 3 p.m., Monday, May 16, 2011 at the Capital Memorial Chapel & Reception Centre, the Capital Memorial Gardens, Manotick, Ontario, K2C 3H1 (3700 Prince Wales Drive). A funeral service will be held in the same building beginning at 3 p.m., followed by a reception.
Contributions and donations in memory of Kai Wang may be made to his wife, Huiying Yin.
夜深了，起来看看孩子，有没有把被子踢开。端详着老三熟睡的脸，今天白天的活动是否令她疲惫，还是让她兴奋得连睡觉的小脸上都挂着笑容。给她把被子掖好，再恋恋不舍地躺回自己的被窝。
明天一早，还要给老二准备早餐，最近她有点不喜欢中式的早餐，换换口味吧。明天送她去上学的路上，她可能还会问到选举的问题，孩子大了，有自己的见解了。
老大呢，正在准备期末考试，有一个星期没有电话联系了，算了，先不打扰她，等她考完试放了假，再给她做她最爱吃的火烧补偿补偿吧。
对于三个女儿，他是一个慈爱的父亲。而对于我，他是一个温和的兄长，语速向来不疾不徐，和他谈话，像听说书似的，带一点儿京腔，是我喜欢的韵味儿。
初识是在草坪，儿童游乐园旁边的草坪，孩子们夏天在这里嬉戏，秋千滑梯，天热了还有戏水莲蓬。有人带了排球就一起垫几个。他从前在大学里排球打得很好，我们就让他作教练。他教得很用心，遇上没有基础的，就耐心地教，结合练习让我们慢慢体会正确击球部位和控球感。我们的团队水平不一，但是每一个人都很痴迷排球，一如这位兄长。后来在冬天，我们组织了定期的室内练习，他也带老二老三妻子来。偶尔出去打比赛，他的妻子是我们任劳任怨的后勤，队医兼孩子的保姆。
为准备这次早春杯排球赛，前两周画了阵型图送到每个队员的手里，图上六个位置，有每个队员的名字。星期六(April 30)那场慈善排球赛，在他二传的有力组织下，我们20 比11 遥遥领先，还差一个球就完美收场，他却倒下了没有再起来。
孩子的爸爸走了，他倒在了他心爱的排球场上。毫无预兆的心肌梗塞，顷刻就被死神召去了。救护车呼啸而来，但是还是没有能挽回脆弱的生命。
生活琐碎，凡事没有完美，但生命的意义和美丽，就在体验这些琐碎和不完美的过程中，在努力提升自己的过程中，在关怀家人，关心朋友的过程中。今天，他再也没有这样的机会了。
这样一个慈爱的父亲，昨天还是家里每个人都可以依靠的港湾，今天竟然成为苦涩泪水中的回忆了。
听到这个不幸的消息，我不能自持，为人父，为人子，我能体会这生命的平凡，这平凡的生命。 但我难以想象一个失去主要收入支柱和主要精神支柱家庭所面临的困难。
幸福和不幸，就隔着薄薄的一张纸。这一次，上苍这般无情，捅破了这张纸。原本生气盎然的家庭，被迫要面对即将到来的一切压力，按揭财务压力会迫使她们卖掉现在的住所，另寻一处遮蔽的空间。
现在，家里显得空荡荡的，到处都有他的痕迹，处处都是令人伤心的记忆。他曾计划要在地下室弄一弄的，把乒乓球台的灯光弄得亮堂一些。他曾计划要把草坪弄一弄的，让草儿长得更茂密一些。现在，他的家人无奈要计划的是他的葬丧。相濡以沫的妻子，悲痛得彻夜难眠，睹物思人，情何以堪，睁眼是他，闭眼也是他，他怎么舍得就这样撒手人寰。万般悲痛下，还得叮咛亲属朋友，千万别透露这个消息到媒体，担心在外地求学大女儿的期末考试受到影响。
为了一个遭受这样打击的家庭，我们能做点什么呢？朋友们，请伸出你的双手，帮助一下这个在移民道路上奋斗在移民道路上奋斗未果的朋友吧，为家庭伸开臂弯的丈夫和慈父吧。无论多少，都有帮助。
朋友们，你也是家里的顶梁柱吧，或者是和顶梁柱共创美好前程的拼搏者，奋斗者。我们坚信一分耕耘，一分收获，这是以身体健康为前提的，请珍惜身体，珍惜自己，珍爱家人，珍爱生命。
谢谢。
追悼会消息:
Kai Wang, Nepean resident and Canada Border Service Agency (CBSA) employee, passed away suddenly in Gatineau, Saturday, April 30, 2011, in his 49th year, while participating in a charity volleyball tournament for Moisson Outaouais (Food Bank Outaouais). Moisson Outaouais serves to meet the needs of economically disadvantaged children and families.
Born in Beijing on December 16, 1962, Kai received his primary and secondary education in Beijing. From 1980 to 1984, he studied in Beijing Agricultural University, majoring in Economic Management. After graduation, he worked for the Tong County Government Coordination Office and then for China Ministry of Education. In 1990, he was admitted to the Masters Program in Agricultural Economics of McGill University, and between 1992 and 1996, he studied in Ottawa University majoring in computer science. After graduation, he worked in several private companies including Nortel. In 2003, he started to work for the CBSA at first as a Software Developer/Analyst and then DBA until the time of his death.
An avid volleyball lover, he played an active role in a local volleyball team and coached many of his team members on basic volleyball skills as well as offensive and defensive tactics. He is loved and respected by all his team members.
Kai was also an active member of the Ottawa Chinese United Church for many years, having been baptized there in the late 1990’s.
Kai, the sole stable income provider of his family, is survived by his now devastated wife, Huiying Yin, who had known Kai ever since her childhood and was married to him for more than 25 five years, and by his three daughters, who love him deeply, Elizabeth, 25, Isabella, 14, and Evangeline, 6.
Visitation is scheduled from 1 to 3 p.m., Monday, May 16, 2011 at the Capital Memorial Chapel & Reception Centre, the Capital Memorial Gardens, Manotick, Ontario, K2C 3H1 (3700 Prince Wales Drive). A funeral service will be held in the same building beginning at 3 p.m., followed by a reception.
Contributions and donations in memory of Kai Wang may be made to his wife, Huiying Yin.
