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[neverforget]

今天在城里等车，一对中国老夫妇（从装束和对话，可以判定应该是中国人）无视排队的乘客，硬是挤到门前（不是第一次看到这种情景）， 引来后边人们的侧目。是否华人老年社团或子女可以提醒一下。我想这多少影响华人社区的形象。

 

[wiiwii]

 

[ai']

我也遇到过，上次见到抢车位的也是中国人，插队的也是，很无奈的。。哎。

 

[cheerup]

我会不自覺地向侧目的人们來个苦笑:blowzy:

 

[Yangyang1999]

不排对，抢车位的多的是。

 

[ccc]

那么多年的习惯，给他们点时间。

 

[lazycatcat]

我会不自覺地向侧目的人们來个苦笑:blowzy:

This only means you are a mean person. A person without empathy. You are no different from those bystanders.

The Chinese old couple probably don't know the situation or didn't see the people in the queue. A nice way is to talk to them and politely remind them they are jumping queue. Like:

Hi, are you from China ? How do you feel about Ottawa ? Where are you going ...

Then, by the way, it seems all the people behind are queuing up for the bus etc ...

Learn manner yourself instead of being so mean !

 

[风 雨]

即然看到了这样做不对, 为何不当面指出, 让人改正.

今天在城里等车，一对中国老夫妇（从装束和对话，可以判定应该是中国人）无视排队的乘客，硬是挤到门前（不是第一次看到这种情景）， 引来后边人们的侧目。是否华人老年社团或子女可以提醒一下。我想这多少影响华人社区的形象。

 

[lazycatcat]

今天在城里等车，一对中国老夫妇（从装束和对话，可以判定应该是中国人）无视排队的乘客，硬是挤到门前（不是第一次看到这种情景）， 引来后边人们的侧目。是否华人老年社团或子女可以提醒一下。我想这多少影响华人社区的形象。

There is nothing wrong to post the reminder. A better way is to talk to them nicely and then remind them of queue jumping ...

 

[lazycatcat]

我会不自覺地向侧目的人们來个苦笑:blowzy:

Your behavior is really disgusting. It is amazing you are boasting your such mean behavior here !

Maybe you are not a Chinese. That is fine then.

 

[wiiwii]

Your behavior is really disgusting. It is amazing you are boasting your such mean behavior here !

Maybe you are not a Chinese. That is fine then.

what's wrong with u?
strange............................:blink:

 

[miaomiao2012]

那么多年的习惯，给他们点时间。

同意村长说的，时间太长了，需要给他们时间适应，而且老人容易忘事，你告诉他了，他很快又忘了，下次还是往上挤，不过老外都很nice的，目前还没发现有为这事唧唧歪歪的呢~~~

 

[wiiwii]

同意村长说的，时间太长了，需要给他们时间适应，而且老人容易忘事，你告诉他了，他很快又忘了，下次还是往上挤，不过老外都很nice的，目前还没发现有为这事唧唧歪歪的呢~~~

也看人吧,比如我父母就没有拼命去挤,抢座位的习惯.
有的人你和他说也是浪费时间,说不定还要撒泼和你吵,能离开他们多远就离开他们多远是唯一办法

 

[lazycatcat]

what's wrong with u?
strange............................:blink:

You should ask what is wrong with this Cheerup. Where is his or her empathy and social manner ?!

The old couple is probably in a strange land and doesn't know what is around. They are probably nervous...

As a compatriot, you can go ahead to help them. Instead, this Cheerup sneers at them to say to people around:

They are that type of Chinese. I am not this type of Chinese. I am well educated and am same as you to sneer at this type of behavior.

I am sure local Canadian are more empathetic. This Cheerup is one of many reasons why Chinese are cold to each other.

This person is disgusting to me !

 

[miaomiao2012]

也看人吧,比如我父母就没有拼命去挤,抢座位的习惯.
有的人你和他说也是浪费时间,说不定还要撒泼和你吵,能离开他们多远就离开他们多远是唯一办法

不是看人，是看年龄，年龄越大适应能力越慢~~~

而且我不觉得这事需要去跟他们说啊，谁先上车都OK啊，他们是老人，就算他们不挤，我们也应该让给他们先上啊，所以，没什么大不了的