林俊他妈说的真好,有这样的中国人让我感到骄傲.

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建立基金会帮助受虐儿童,我觉得他妈妈也只有原谅凶手才可能活下去.
http://ca.news.yahoo.com/jun-lins-mother-sympathy-alleged-killer-004713521.html

In a written eulogy for her son, Jun Lin, Zhigui Du said she has developed sympathy for his alleged killer, Luka Rocco Magnotta, and will set up a foundation to help troubled youth.

Lin, 33, was killed and dismembered two months ago.

His mother did not attend a public funeral service held Thursday morning in Montreal and later told reporters at a news conference that she felt it would have been too hard for her to handle. But she wrote a eulogy for her only son.

"I have been waiting for this day to come, because my son can finally rest in peace in this land that he loves," she wrote.

She also writes about why she decided to establish a foundation in her son's name to help troubled youth in Montreal.

"We have received a lot of help and care from the people here and we want to return something back to this society, to help the youth in need, to help them find their way back to a loving home."

She describes thinking of her son's alleged killer as the "devil" at first, until she learned that he had a difficult childhood.

"A troubled young person may bring negative impact to the society later on when they grow up. If we can show our care for them and offer them help when it's needed, I think we will be able to sustain a better society with love and harmony."

She finished her eulogy with a message to her son.

"Jun Lin, I believe you will be happy with my decision. Mommy will stay strong. Rest in peace, my son. Goodbye."

Friends and members of the public attended the service at Montreal's Notre-Dame-des-Neiges cemetery at 9 a.m. ET. Lin's family released a statement expressing their grief and explaining their decision to bury their son's ashes in Montreal.

"We believe that Jun, carrying with him all the blessing from the society, can now rest in peace in his favourite city. The city he had chosen; Montreal."

According to the Côte-des-Neiges funeral home, Lin's body was cremated on July 11. His family was unsure whether to bring the ashes back to China, but opted to bury them in Montreal, where Lin had made a life for himself.

The funeral home and cemetery donated their services to the Lin family.

The graveside burial was held for friends and family foremost, but members of the public who wished to attend were welcome to pay their respects.

Police say Lin was killed in late May. His hands and feet were mailed to political parties in Ottawa and Vancouver schools, and his dismembered torso was found May 29 stuffed in a suitcase dumped in the trash outside a Montreal apartment building.

Lin studied computer science at Concordia University, which is helping raise funds for his family and is setting up an award in his memory.

His mother spoke about her slain son at a memorial at the Montreal Chinese Alliance Church in Hampstead last weekend.

"He was taken so fast," she said in Mandarin. "When a child dies, a parent's heart dies too."

Lin's parents recently told CBC's Mark Kelley that they want to stay in Canada for the trial of Luka Rocco Magnotta, accused of killing their son.

"What a disaster and huge pain for our family," his mother said.

In a lengthy interview, they told Kelley that they are struggling to come to terms with their son's violent death and are anxious about Magnotta's trial.

Magnotta was arrested June 4 in Berlin after an international manhunt. He was extradited to Montreal on June 18 and charged with first-degree murder the next day.

Magnotta has pleaded not guilty. His preliminary hearing is set to begin in March 2013.
 
哪位高人说说,这如何解释。
 
哪位高人说说,这如何解释。
解释就是,我弄死人了,只要跟楼主忏悔一下,然后拉对方亲人去教会悼告一下,我就没事了,对方就原谅我了。
沾满血的双手也干净了

I CALL THAT BULL SHIT. Everything has a consequence.
 
解释就是,我弄死人了,只要跟楼主忏悔一下,然后拉对方亲人去教会悼告一下,我就没事了,对方就原谅我了。
沾满血的双手也干净了

I CALL THAT BULL SHIT. Everything has a consequence.

你这次最多得个C。:p
 
Forgiveness is not a gift you give to the other person, it's a favour you do for yourself, it's actually a purely selfish act, done with the sole intent and purpose to make yourself feel better and enable yourself to be free from pain and heartach and move on....not forgiving means you carry hatred toward that person around inside you and that's just giving the other person way too much power over you and your life....she's a very smart woman, she's knows that in order to release herself from the power this monster has on her she needs to let go of hatred and move on, that doesn't mean she condones what he did, it means she's allowing herself to become indifferent to him and that a healthly place to be. She is not being kind to him by forgiving him, she's being kind to herself, and taking away his power over her. And she's making her son, and saving other young people the focus of now, not the monster.....it takes incredible inner strength, & self awareness, to be able to do that. I applaud her.
 
Forgiveness is not a gift you give to the other person, it's a favour you do for yourself, it's actually a purely selfish act, done with the sole intent and purpose to make yourself feel better and enable yourself to be free from pain and heartach and move on....not forgiving means you carry hatred toward that person around inside you and that's just giving the other person way too much power over you and your life....she's a very smart woman, she's knows that in order to release herself from the power this monster has on her she needs to let go of hatred and move on, that doesn't mean she condones what he did, it means she's allowing herself to become indifferent to him and that a healthly place to be. She is not being kind to him by forgiving him, she's being kind to herself, and taking away his power over her. And she's making her son, and saving other young people the focus of now, not the monster.....it takes incredible inner strength, & self awareness, to be able to do that. I applaud her.

学习了。
 
说两句吧。这可怜的老人家痛失爱子,无依无靠,精神处于恍惚之中,我感觉已经被一些势力控制,身不由己了,可怜可悲,我们却无能为力。

记得在林俊父母第一封公开信中提到,林俊生前信佛,但是他的葬礼由一个白袍外神法师主持,不尽让人感到悲凉。不怪林母,在这种无依无靠六神无主的境地,中领馆和蒙城华人社区给力不够的话,基督教的势力渗入,对林俊在信仰上造成进一步伤害,这是林家老人无能为力的 :(

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要说加拿大华人和本地各界,还是很有善心的,面对这个骇人听闻的惨案,已经捐款7万多加元,足够林家二老在这里待到审判的日子,可能还有节余,现在冒出了什么 foundation的东东,看起来有人在打这点爱心捐款的主意。。。
 
真的感谢神啊,上帝是包容和接纳他的,尽管他被邪灵欺骗,不知道他信的那个是什么,使他的身体成为败坏的居所,但是相信他如果还能再活一次,现在愿意来到上帝面前悔改所行的,上帝是原谅他的。天上的那位主宰不愿意看我们人类顺着逆性的私欲放纵自己的身体,宁可肉体被毁灭,却是要人类的灵魂归于纯净。有哪一位神像主那样纯洁无瑕?有哪一位神像主那样忠贞不渝?有谁比主耶稣基督更加美丽?
 
真的感谢神啊,上帝是包容和接纳他的,尽管他被邪灵欺骗,不知道他信的那个是什么,使他的身体成为败坏的居所,但是相信他如果还能再活一次,现在愿意来到上帝面前悔改所行的,上帝是原谅他的。天上的那位主宰不愿意看我们人类顺着逆性的私欲放纵自己的身体,宁可肉体被毁灭,却是要人类的灵魂归于纯净。有哪一位神像主那样纯洁无瑕?有哪一位神像主那样忠贞不渝?有谁比主耶稣基督更加美丽?

:rolleyes::rolleyes::rolleyes::rolleyes::rolleyes::rolleyes:

神啊帮我把这段code搞定,加薪+去北京把洪水搞定吧
 
说两句吧。这可怜的老人家痛失爱子,无依无靠,精神处于恍惚之中,我感觉已经被一些势力控制,身不由己了,可怜可悲,我们却无能为力。

记得在林俊父母第一封公开信中提到,林俊生前信佛,但是他的葬礼由一个白袍外神法师主持,不尽让人感到悲凉。不怪林母,在这种无依无靠六神无主的境地,中领馆和蒙城华人社区给力不够的话,基督教的势力渗入,对林俊在信仰上造成进一步伤害,这是林家老人无能为力的 :(

193bf7d3ea1cb26477e6d4fe23304b58.jpg


要说加拿大华人和本地各界,还是很有善心的,面对这个骇人听闻的惨案,已经捐款7万多加元,足够林家二老在这里待到审判的日子,可能还有节余,现在冒出了什么 foundation的东东,看起来有人在打这点爱心捐款的主意。。。

如果真有人不管以什么为借口,不管以什么形式,如果打这比钱的主意,如果老天有眼,让他们不得好死吧!趁人之危!良心叫狗吃了!:flaming:
 
真的感谢神啊,上帝是包容和接纳他的,尽管他被邪灵欺骗,不知道他信的那个是什么,使他的身体成为败坏的居所,但是相信他如果还能再活一次,现在愿意来到上帝面前悔改所行的,上帝是原谅他的。天上的那位主宰不愿意看我们人类顺着逆性的私欲放纵自己的身体,宁可肉体被毁灭,却是要人类的灵魂归于纯净。有哪一位神像主那样纯洁无瑕?有哪一位神像主那样忠贞不渝?有谁比主耶稣基督更加美丽?

阿门!
 
我早就说了,在危机时,人会迷失而不理智。和尚庙和尼姑庵的做法是,帮助他们,但不会让他们在那种情况下入伙。而是要等到他们安静之后,再决定。

记得我以前知道的华人教会,在入伙前要上培训班,多了解前因后果后,在再下池子洗澡入伙。这次,估计林母没有这个待遇了。

可怜佛教徒林俊,在一些家伙的参乎下,和他妈是今生和来世都不可能再见了。

林母可以经历神的恩典,也是有很多主内的弟兄姐妹日夜祈祷,求神安慰她的结果,结果她受了安慰,并且接受了神的爱,不仅接受了,我们也都看到了她的生命的改变,从她开始想“报仇雪恨”到现在的充满怜悯和慈悲,这都是神在她身上的恩典,是证明她真是认识神的,因为是有行为可以表达出来的。
 
教堂,牧师,神父,都不重要,重要的是她的心中有爱。神已经在她心里了。
 
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