不想过了,该怎么办

要想幸福,婚前尽量睁大眼睛能睁多大睁多大,婚后尽量闭上眼睛装得多糊涂就尽量装的多糊涂。。

嗯,应该把这句话送给楼主 :cool::D
 
村长啊,...。
要想幸福,婚前尽量睁大眼睛能睁多大睁多大,婚后尽量闭上眼睛装得多糊涂就尽量装的多糊涂。。

:cool::cool:

这才是大智慧。其他的,都是瞎掰。
 
两代人一定有代沟,可本来就有矛盾,最可怕的事,没事挑事,到了人家他们还要当家长,要反客为主,新社会长大滴谁受的了这气?那老公一定是从小就没发言权滴,真不明白,为什么媳妇和家人有矛盾,一定迁怒媳妇呢?是自私,自恋,还是自大?觉得媳妇应该把他家人都当圣人恭敬?他们受得起吗?以为自己谁啊?

长痛的结果是更痛,不能忍,一定开始就解决这个问题,否则,结果没有最坏只有更坏!打的跟仇人似的,以后连面都没法见
 
要想幸福,婚前尽量睁大眼睛能睁多大睁多大,婚后尽量闭上眼睛装得多糊涂就尽量装的多糊涂。。


MARK!
 
另外,楼上关于房产分割的讨论,感觉好像有一些误解。查了一下,法律上对于婚内共同住房,即Matrimonial Home (which means where married spouses ordinarily reside together), 有其特殊的规定。关心的可以读一下下文。

http://www.nelligan.ca/e/thematrimonialhomelittleknownfacts.cfm

No Deduction for Equity in Matrimonial Home in Calculation of Division of Matrimonial Assets

In the normal course, when married spouses separate, in order to determine the appropriate division of assets on marriage breakdown we would calculate the net value of each parties' assets that they came into the marriage with (all assets minus all debts on the date of marriage). We would then calculate for each spouse their respective net assets owned on the date of separation (all assets minus all debts on the date of separation), in order to determine each spouse's net increase of wealth during the marriage. The spouse who has the higher net increase would have to make a payment to the other spouse of 1/2 the difference between their respective net increases in wealth accumulated over the marriage. The Ontario Family Law Act creates an exception for the matrimonial home however.

Notwithstanding that one spouse may have owned the matrimonial home on the date of marriage in sole tenancy, and brought that asset into the marriage, he or she does not get to include the value of that asset as something he or she owned on the date of marriage. The full value of the home at the time of separation is included in his or her calculation of net assets on the date of separation. Simply put, you do not get a financial credit on marriage breakdown for having brought the matrimonial home into the marriage.

It must be noted that for this exception to apply, the same home must still be the matrimonial home at the time of separation. If the original home was sold and a new home moved into and was the matrimonial home at the time of separation the spouse who brought the original home into the marriage would be allowed to include the value of the original matrimonial home in calculating his or her assets owned on the date of marriage. As a corollary to this, in the normal course, any money or money's worth that was gifted to a spouse from a third party (say parents or an inheritance from that rich uncle who lives in Europe) is excluded from the calculation of a spouse's net assets owned on the date of separation. However, if that inherited or gifted money is put into the matrimonial home, i.e to pay down the mortgage, build a pool or renovate, the exclusion is lost.

These types of issues can have a very large impact on a spouse's financial situation at the time of separation. If you are contemplating marriage and already own a home, you should consider getting some legal advice on this issue to determine whether you wish to take some steps to protect the value of that asset in the event of a marriage breakdown.

我还真的读了一遍
怎么跟上面说的完全不一样啊啊啊啊
买房的一方貌似会悲剧啊

文中好像是这么说:
1.无论在不在房产证上,对于matrimonial home,双方都有同等的权力。一方不同意另一房不能换锁也不能卖,哪怕自己是房主也不行
2.分财产的时候,higher net increase的一方要给另一方二分之一。所以收入高的果断要出血?matrimonial home哪怕是其中一方婚前买的,也不属于任何一方的asset。所以等于是平分?
3.matrimonial home的一个例外。如果婚前某人买了这matrimonial home,结婚住了几年,卖掉,换了一个matrimonial home。那么前面这个matrimonial home的value算是这个人的个人财产。--但是!根据第二点,万一这人是higher net increase的一方,那不还是要分一半身家给另一方么?

是不是我理解错了啊~~~~~谁来帮忙看一下啊
 
当初为什么不门当户对呢。:blink:

年轻的时候太幼稚,总以为“老吾老以及人之老”,总以为老人都是为子女着想的,都是善良的。。。。。等到头来真正得领教了后才明白,但太晚了
 
也往这大坑里填瓢水。人无完人,当儿媳的别先不能容公婆,当丈夫的尽量教育自己父母,别摆父母大人的架子。很多中国老人的问题是要在儿女面前扮演起“大人权威”的角色,这多半是冲突的根源。儿媳方面不好多说公婆,儿子要想这个家和睦,就得学着多和自己爹娘沟通别老“端着”,所以,儿子是关键,做不好教育父母的作用,此题无解。当然,这是在假设儿媳不是泼妇的前提下。
 
两代人一定有代沟,可本来就有矛盾,最可怕的事,没事挑事,到了人家他们还要当家长,要反客为主,新社会长大滴谁受的了这气?那老公一定是从小就没发言权滴,真不明白,为什么媳妇和家人有矛盾,一定迁怒媳妇呢?是自私,自恋,还是自大?觉得媳妇应该把他家人都当圣人恭敬?他们受得起吗?以为自己谁啊?

长痛的结果是更痛,不能忍,一定开始就解决这个问题,否则,结果没有最坏只有更坏!打的跟仇人似的,以后连面都没法见

讲什么都是多余的。

关键的关键是你老公,就看他的智慧和他那个肥屁股坐在哪个地方了。
 
汝等真的都做到“老吾老”,才能体会到吾等“老”的难处。
 
年轻的时候太幼稚,总以为“老吾老以及人之老”,总以为老人都是为子女着想的,都是善良的。。。。。等到头来真正得领教了后才明白,但太晚了

晚什么,开了他啊。
 
to 柳柳
还是建议你别看离婚分财产的了,离婚是个复杂的过程,而且加拿大这边离婚,没有个一两万加币,离不了。

作为女孩子,能做到保护自己的就是房子首付一人一半,房贷也是挂在两个人名上。谁结婚也不是奔着离婚去的,如果万一遇到个不懂事的主,至少也能保护自己。
 
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