很多在加拿大的中国家长,以为加拿大完全不能体罚孩子,其实本地是可以接受spank的:
The Supreme Court of Canada ruled in 2004 that parents have the right to spank their children. But the country's top court also set out "reasonable limits."
Those limits include:
用体罚管教孩子,要注意方法。孩子害怕的不是疼,而是家长的态度,打孩子不是以打伤为目的,而是要表明态度。
经验是:
The Supreme Court of Canada ruled in 2004 that parents have the right to spank their children. But the country's top court also set out "reasonable limits."
Those limits include:
- Spanking could be used against children between the ages of two and 12 years old.
- Children could not be disciplined with an object.
- Hits to the head would be unacceptable.
用体罚管教孩子,要注意方法。孩子害怕的不是疼,而是家长的态度,打孩子不是以打伤为目的,而是要表明态度。
经验是:
- 不要使用器械,而是用手,手比较有分寸,不会伤到孩子。
- 只打屁股,不打其他地方。
- 高举手,轻放下,架势要大,但力量要小。
- 面部表情要狰狞。