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不觉得。重要日子不能跟家人在一起，有什么滋润的。
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Not easy for Chinese to have a more bright future.
But for now, he has no business yet, still on the pilot test stage. Risk is he may not get any business.
If you think about the long term relationship and development, one of you has to make decision to give up.
Option 1: The decision will base on your husband's business.
If he will be successful in next one year(why one year? because you can not success in the market in one year with a great product which means you can not success in next two years, three years), you can choose to back to China. It should be an easy decision to give up a job always needs to work overtime.
Option 2: The decision bases on where you want to stay.
No matter your husband has good business or not, you will stay in Canada.
Think about above options you were asking for help. It looks you already have the decision now, why do you need bother to ask?
But for now, he has no business yet, still on the pilot test stage. Risk is he may not get any business.
If you think about the long term relationship and development, one of you has to make decision to give up.
Option 1: The decision will base on your husband's business.
If he will be successful in next one year(why one year? because you can not success in the market in one year with a great product which means you can not success in next two years, three years), you can choose to back to China. It should be an easy decision to give up a job always needs to work overtime.
Option 2: The decision bases on where you want to stay.
No matter your husband has good business or not, you will stay in Canada.
Think about above options you were asking for help. It looks you already have the decision now, why do you need bother to ask?
这样的故事太多了, 无解
劝说无意义, 只讲身边的故事吧
男人嘛, 没办法, 心不死, 不愿意就这么平淡一生, 加拿大的生活, 你懂的
身边朋友很close 的朋友吧, 有2家象你现在这样的, 一个是男的回去找成功的感觉了, 感觉很不错, 男人也很爷们, 每年回加拿大2-3次, 这样的丈夫说实话很了不起了, 愿意每年飞2-3次那么累的飞行. 他们家与你不同的是孩子大了, 上美国藤校了, 女的不愿意回国, 你能懂的
另外一个朋友夫妻两都有很好很好的工作, 工资高工作稳定, 这样的日子久了, 男人又觉得生活寡淡, 受国内朋友鼓动回去创业了, 男人技术不错, 回去很卖力地工作着, 老婆不愿意一人带2孩子这边过苦日子, 栏不住男人就辞职带孩子回去了. 这一回去就是6年了, 去年夏天女人带着2孩子回来了, 因为孩子要上中学了, 不能再耽误了, 又要找工作又要买房子. 女人讲6年没赚到什么钱, 只够国内花销了, 男的目前还不能回来, 说是收尾工作没完, 搞完了也许能搞笔钱回来
再一个是自己亲友, 唉, 也是男人要回去, 女人辞职带2孩子回去了, 也是6年了, 孩子越来越大学习问题来了, 还在商讨闹别扭妥协再商讨, 纠结中
一日一月一年的困难都好解决, 不是请个帮手的事, 是要什么样的生活的事, 就是TIFF那个意思吧
劝说无意义, 只讲身边的故事吧
男人嘛, 没办法, 心不死, 不愿意就这么平淡一生, 加拿大的生活, 你懂的
身边朋友很close 的朋友吧, 有2家象你现在这样的, 一个是男的回去找成功的感觉了, 感觉很不错, 男人也很爷们, 每年回加拿大2-3次, 这样的丈夫说实话很了不起了, 愿意每年飞2-3次那么累的飞行. 他们家与你不同的是孩子大了, 上美国藤校了, 女的不愿意回国, 你能懂的
另外一个朋友夫妻两都有很好很好的工作, 工资高工作稳定, 这样的日子久了, 男人又觉得生活寡淡, 受国内朋友鼓动回去创业了, 男人技术不错, 回去很卖力地工作着, 老婆不愿意一人带2孩子这边过苦日子, 栏不住男人就辞职带孩子回去了. 这一回去就是6年了, 去年夏天女人带着2孩子回来了, 因为孩子要上中学了, 不能再耽误了, 又要找工作又要买房子. 女人讲6年没赚到什么钱, 只够国内花销了, 男的目前还不能回来, 说是收尾工作没完, 搞完了也许能搞笔钱回来
再一个是自己亲友, 唉, 也是男人要回去, 女人辞职带2孩子回去了, 也是6年了, 孩子越来越大学习问题来了, 还在商讨闹别扭妥协再商讨, 纠结中
一日一月一年的困难都好解决, 不是请个帮手的事, 是要什么样的生活的事, 就是TIFF那个意思吧
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