坛子里有没有家长送小孩上Catholic school 的
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这些年规矩松了，有空就让上。其实我不推荐，它们的理科讲的比较松。
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http://www.answerology.com/index.as...being-raised-in-a-religious-home-Just-me.html
Has anyone else had a bad childhood experience from being raised in a religious home? Just me?
I don't even know where to begin. This is such a loaded topic for me. The only way I can capture the gist of my childhood experience with the church is, "mentally and spiritually abusive". (Btw, this is totally irrelevant, but I know some of you will be wondering, I'm not gay. Also, my family is Baptist.)
What kind of childhood is one where a kid has to be so paranoid to think that God is examining your every thought and motive, and judging whether or not it is a "good" or "bad" feeling or thought to have. I remember thinking that God could read every thought in my brain, and I used to feel so scared and insecure about my "Salvation" (Which, let me tell you, set me up for some serious sexual complexes that will last me my entire life). I used to lie awake at night, watching the headlights of passing cars through the plastic blinds, and being afraid that one of them wasn't a headlight, but was Jesus coming back to take my family away. I used to listen for trumpets following each headlight and then listen for my family's snoring to make sure I hadn't been "left behind". Someone told me that if I were to be "left behind" monsters would be coming down the street and killing people in their homes. Have you seen The Mist? That's what I was afraid would happen.
I used to try to imagine what it would be like to feel the sensation of being burned to death, but forever. Never-ending pain. I had to question the validity of what I was being taught in order to maintain my sanity at a very young age.
And I felt all of this as a heterosexual!!! I thank MY God everyday for not throwing the homosexual trip at me because I may have not made it, and I wouldn't be sitting here typing this to you right now.
And thank GOD that I found the Hitchhiker's Guide in middle school to help me realize that the Christian perspective wasn't the only perspective, and to lighten the mood a little on the subject.
Has anyone else had a bad childhood experience from being raised in a religious home? Just me?
I don't even know where to begin. This is such a loaded topic for me. The only way I can capture the gist of my childhood experience with the church is, "mentally and spiritually abusive". (Btw, this is totally irrelevant, but I know some of you will be wondering, I'm not gay. Also, my family is Baptist.)
What kind of childhood is one where a kid has to be so paranoid to think that God is examining your every thought and motive, and judging whether or not it is a "good" or "bad" feeling or thought to have. I remember thinking that God could read every thought in my brain, and I used to feel so scared and insecure about my "Salvation" (Which, let me tell you, set me up for some serious sexual complexes that will last me my entire life). I used to lie awake at night, watching the headlights of passing cars through the plastic blinds, and being afraid that one of them wasn't a headlight, but was Jesus coming back to take my family away. I used to listen for trumpets following each headlight and then listen for my family's snoring to make sure I hadn't been "left behind". Someone told me that if I were to be "left behind" monsters would be coming down the street and killing people in their homes. Have you seen The Mist? That's what I was afraid would happen.
I used to try to imagine what it would be like to feel the sensation of being burned to death, but forever. Never-ending pain. I had to question the validity of what I was being taught in order to maintain my sanity at a very young age.
And I felt all of this as a heterosexual!!! I thank MY God everyday for not throwing the homosexual trip at me because I may have not made it, and I wouldn't be sitting here typing this to you right now.
And thank GOD that I found the Hitchhiker's Guide in middle school to help me realize that the Christian perspective wasn't the only perspective, and to lighten the mood a little on the subject.
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Peer pressure 的功力是很大的，小孩子在那个范围里信也信，不信也信，要不然很难过的。
有这么个规定，非天主教家庭的，如果学校有空位才可考虑，你家正赶上学校没招满额。话说回来，被追捧的所谓“好”学校不会有空额的，所以非天主教徒还是排不上。
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To register your child, please be prepared to provide the following:
- a record of immunization;
- a report card from the student’s previous school (if applicable);
- a birth certificate or other government document to show proof of age
(for junior and senior kindergarten only);
- and a Roman Catholic baptismal certificate for either the child OR parent *
* for junior kindergarten to grade 8 students only
* the baptismal certificate of a common-law spouse or step-parent is also acceptable
We also welcome non-Catholic students on a space availability basis in our elementary and intermediate schools (junior kindergarten to grade 8). Our high schools (grades 9 to 12) are open to ALL students.
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http://www.ottawacatholicschools.ca/board/administration/departments/admissions
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刚来加拿大的时候，有来传教的神棍给我讲信神的神迹。其中一个是说一个女孩信神，可是她的父母不信，女孩天天忧心忡忡她的父母会下地狱。有一天她祈祷说：神啊！把我收回去吧！让神迹显现使我父母信神。果然女孩儿死了，她的父母信神了。我非常惊诧，神棍一点也不觉得这个故事残忍！
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如果楼主不想将来孩子以死相逼让你信神，如果楼主不想孩子将来像这个神棍一样没人性，还是不让孩子到教会学校好
支持精灵
我家孩子中学在教会学校上的，原因就是离家最近，懒得化工夫去远的好学校上，当时这家教会学校新建第一年招学生，没要求我们信教
不用担心洗脑啥的，现在我们孩子也没信教，同学中信的也不是因为这个信的，不信的也很多
每天都有宗教课，相当于代替普通学校英文课，了解这里的宗教也没什么不好
每学期好像还有点宗教活动，我参加过几次吧，不太懂，每个班学生走一圈，举个什么先哲的旗子啥的
也别担心宗教课多了，英文课少了，孩子英文差了，事实上我孩子的英文特别优秀（厚着脸皮讲句实话吧:blowzy:）
做家长的不要过于用自己的经验代替孩子判断，要相信孩子有自己的判断能力
宝姆能当多久？:blink::blink::blink:
补充一句：教会学校照样上Science， 上进化论
我家孩子中学在教会学校上的，原因就是离家最近，懒得化工夫去远的好学校上，当时这家教会学校新建第一年招学生，没要求我们信教
不用担心洗脑啥的，现在我们孩子也没信教，同学中信的也不是因为这个信的，不信的也很多
每天都有宗教课，相当于代替普通学校英文课，了解这里的宗教也没什么不好
每学期好像还有点宗教活动，我参加过几次吧，不太懂，每个班学生走一圈，举个什么先哲的旗子啥的
也别担心宗教课多了，英文课少了，孩子英文差了，事实上我孩子的英文特别优秀（厚着脸皮讲句实话吧:blowzy:）
做家长的不要过于用自己的经验代替孩子判断，要相信孩子有自己的判断能力
宝姆能当多久？:blink::blink::blink:
补充一句：教会学校照样上Science， 上进化论
To help LZ clarify a couple of your thoughts, I would like to ask you the following questions:
1. Did you worry about coming to Canada because it is a Christian country? If yes, why did you come veventually? If not, why do you worry about sending your kid to a Christian school now?
2. Why did you think about sending your child to a Catholic school in the first place? Did you feel they are more trustworthy than public schools? If yes, why did you feel so?
3. Did anything happen in the Catholic School in consideration since then to make you change your mind?
4. Why didn't you think about sending your kid to a Muslim school?
1. Did you worry about coming to Canada because it is a Christian country? If yes, why did you come veventually? If not, why do you worry about sending your kid to a Christian school now?
2. Why did you think about sending your child to a Catholic school in the first place? Did you feel they are more trustworthy than public schools? If yes, why did you feel so?
3. Did anything happen in the Catholic School in consideration since then to make you change your mind?
4. Why didn't you think about sending your kid to a Muslim school?
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