轻轻楼主，说几句话给你。
白发三千丈，缘愁似个长。我曾经跟至爱不能不分手，短短几周的时间，被镜中的白发惊倒，我去拔，拔了10几根手指开始发软，因为发现白得竟然成了片，当下更加凄凄惨惨寂寂。我时常落泪，开着车，走着路，甚至只是坐着都会哭起来。他给我电话，说我要你好好的，要你高兴。我就象沉疴梦醒。我说，是的，为我，为你，我都要好好的。
萧红，就象鲁迅说的，感情投入太深，性格又倔强。她韶华早逝，一定程度是性格使然，所以后来萧军说，你留下来可以，走也可以，他太了解她。直到最后分手，她还在说我离不开你，甚至投入他人的感情，以为能够释怀，自古红颜薄命啊。
网上的一段文字送你：
Give up the past.
I know, I know, it’s hard. Especially when the past looks so much better than the present and the future looks so frightening, but you have to take into consideration the fact that the present moments is all you have and all you will ever have. The past you are now longing for- the past that you are now dreaming about-was ignored by you when it was present. Stop deluding yourself. Be present in everything you do and enjoy life. After all life is a journey not a destination. Have a clear vision for the future, prepare yourself, but always be present in the now.
不很同意其中一句，The past you are now longing for- the past that you are now dreaming about-was ignored by you when it was present.正因为过去很好，很珍惜，很快乐，才会有今天的留恋。我把这句彻底改改，变个味道，You cannot change the past but you might ruin your present by worrying too much about the future.
好好想想，the past, the present and the future.永不要失去你自身自信的美，并因此而积极，努力，有梦就好，有梦真的很好。
The end of a relationship does not mean the end of love. We feel pain because of this breakup, not because we've lost the former person's love. We hurt because we are awakening from our dreams.
Understanding and appreciation is very important in a relationship, at least in my eyes. We have to learn to respect.
Love it not the only meaning of life. Hope is indeed one. We need to have something to look forward to.
Yesterday it was raining hard here and I had a very nice walk in the rain. Soaked but there's nothing better than that.
Be serious, you are a very nice girl. Keep up your spirit and everything will be fine.
