我对自己感情的事情没有主意了，大家帮帮我，看看我应该怎么做呢？[请求]

[狮蝎子]

楼主无趣，多情应笑我，早生华发

 

[Viroy]

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没有分不开的人，只有舍不下的惯性依恋

 

[桃乐丝]

不见面说什么都没用，最好的方法就是见面，一切你自己都会清楚的

 

[HeroKiller]

嗯

 

[maybe]

First of all, I think you probably do not love him. You like the feeling of in love, and being online or phone makes you enjoy that feeling, and the "guy" you are imagining in the other side is better than the real guy. So, if it's true, you'd better find someone else. Lots people say "looking is not important". Well, I'll have to say, it's at least not "unimportant". Of course everyone perfer better things, and looking is one of them.
About that "hurt" thing. Doesn't matter how you do it, faster is better than slower. You and him all have to move on. The earlier it happens, the better to both of you. BTW, since you two are not really "together" together, I don't think this will hurt that much.
Hope that helps and good luck.