在加拿大的中国女人太辛苦了

[Sahara snow]

最初由 GYGY 发布

always go to restaurant with friends.everyday get up around 8;30am and buy breakfast and lunch in the restaurant.every weekend watch movie with my husband.


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I guess you didn't have enough time with your boy when you were in China. That was not good to the little one. I know in China the kids are mostly looked after by their grandparents or nannies while the parents enjoy themselves outside.

I have a friend who came to visit me at Christmas when she had a short-term study in Canada last year. She was deeply moved by the stong family tie here between young kids and parents. She said they always left their son at home with nanny. They came late from work or entertainment, went out for party without son, or Da Ma Jiang overnight sometimes. She felt guity. She liked life here more. Peaceful! She wants to immigrate here!!! I told her NOT, because she is not young and she is a professor there (She thinks China academic world is not pure any more, sigh...).

 

[halfyoyo]

最初由 Sahara snow 发布

最初由 GYGY 发布

I have a friend who came to visit me at Christmas when she had a short-term study in Canada last year. She was deeply moved by the stong family tie here between young kids and parents. She said they always left their son at home with nanny. They came late from work or entertainment, went out for party without son, or Da Ma Jiang overnight sometimes. She felt guity. She liked life here more. Peaceful! She wants to immigrate here!!! I told her NOT, because she is not young and she is a professor there (She thinks China academic world is not pure any more, sigh...).

一般城市人去乡村都这么说呀

 

[halfyoyo]

最初由 comefrom 发布
加拿大的中国女人都这么辛苦，那么加拿大的中国男人呢？

女织男耕

 

[Kent以东首帅哥]

主要是许多人不愿意改变自己的生活方式.

That's why we keep hearing so many stories about the "old good days"

 

[如假包换的马甲]

最初由 Kent以东首帅哥 发布
主要是许多人不愿意改变自己的生活方式.

That's why we keep hearing so many stories about the "old good days"

ya, like u bicycling and running? that sure save a lot

 

[Isabel]

最初由 GYGY 发布

We can't afford another car. our insurance is too high. both my husband and me are not work in hi-tech just a normal office work and our sallary is not high. my husband get layoffed for a long time and just get another job.after we pay our morgage, car insurance, food, babysitter and every expensives, we don;t have much money left. we still have some savings but we won't use it up. my husband are really scared of being layoffed again.
many of my friends only have one car even both of them are working. no enough money. Oh, i cry!

别哭，别哭。很多事情都看你从什么角度看。比如你孩子上幼儿园上学不用交赞助吧。也不用担心孩子吃到什么毒东西。总吃饭馆对身体也不好。现在和孩子接触多，对他的成长有好处。家务活干顺手了会比较快。

 

[GYGY]

最初由 Isabel 发布

别哭，别哭。很多事情都看你从什么角度看。比如你孩子上幼儿园上学不用交赞助吧。也不用担心孩子吃到什么毒东西。总吃饭馆对身体也不好。现在和孩子接触多，对他的成长有好处。家务活干顺手了会比较快。

thank you. you must be a good wife and mother.

 

[一把手]

最初由 GYGY 发布

We can't afford another car. our insurance is too high. both my husband and me are not work in hi-tech just a normal office work and our sallary is not high. my husband get layoffed for a long time and just get another job.after we pay our morgage, car insurance, food, babysitter and every expensives, we don;t have much money left. we still have some savings but we won't use it up. my husband are really scared of being layoffed again.
many of my friends only have one car even both of them are working. no enough money. Oh, i cry!

I knew, it must be money.

But both of you work, whatever job, as long as legal, it should be enough to give you a decent life.

If you will feel happy only when "everything is done by nanny and we have enough money.always go to restaurant with friends.everyday get up around 8;30am and buy breakfast and lunch in the restaurant.every weekend watch movie with my husband", your understanding of happiness is quite ...

I knew, it must be money.

 

[MGXX]

I guess you didn't have enough time with your boy when you were in China. That was not good to the little one. I know in China the kids are mostly looked after by their grandparents or nannies while the parents enjoy themselves outside.


也许在国内孩子还没有出生呢. 有了孩子生活变化还是很大的.记得我刚有了孩子的时候,我的好朋友(还没有孩子)又来邀我一起去夜市玩,我拒绝了,她很不理解的说,有了孩子就真的变成家庭妇女了,真没想到你也会变成这样.我耐心的跟她说,等你有了孩子你就理解了.我认识的朋友里,都是自己带孩子的,即使白天交给爷爷奶奶或是保姆,晚上也是自己带的.

 

[MGXX]

最初由 梅子 发布
男人女人都挺辛苦的， 其实人生下来就是受苦的，只不过看你能不能苦中取乐罢了。。。。

说的不错!

 

[左岸右转]

又穷又cool是最好的。。。

 

[北极光]

中国人什么时候才能放弃不劳而获的‘光荣传统’？什么时候才能把‘劳动光荣’的口号不仅仅是挂在嘴上？

 

[乌鸦乌鸦]

客观说句话，国内男人是比较花花，不管老的还是小的。
这边，老的不说，不然你们又找外部原因。
就说小的，你们自己说，比在国内收敛多了八~

 

[光辉岁月]

最初由 北极光 发布
中国人什么时候才能放弃不劳而获的‘光荣传统’？什么时候才能把‘劳动光荣’的口号不仅仅是挂在嘴上？

此言差矣! 敝公司里, 华人最勤劳.

 

[nova]

向辛勤持家，勤劳工作的女性致敬。也有不少呆在家里和辛勤上班的先生斤斤计较家务活儿的。出来闯江
湖，谁人不辛苦？