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Just failed another job process again. The one I interviewed days ago hasn't called me and don't expected it will.

I failed numerousssssssssss time......why? Don't know what to do and what to think of myself anymore:mad:

How can one fail so many times? what's wrong with me?

Wonder how much more I can take?
 
Just failed another job process again. The one I interviewed days ago hasn't called me and don't expected it will.

I failed numerousssssssssss time......why? Don't know what to do and what to think of myself anymore:mad:

How can one fail so many times? what's wrong with me?

please do not blame yourself for what happened.

Try to think over the whole process and dissect each step to see what you could have done better and then you will improve.

Be positive and be confident and you will succeed.

God bless you,
 
提高表达能力至关重要! 不要气馁!

向你推荐一门课. 刚开学, 还来得及报名.

The Christopher Leadership Course (CLC) helps people realize their full potential as individuals both in the workplace and in social environments by enhancing their leadership and communication skills, as well as their confidence. Unlike any other courses, this course is unique for several reasons:

a.. The course is delivered in a step-by-step systematic approach; (Systematic)
b. The course is taught by a team of 4-5 dedicated (volunteer) instructors every course night for the entire duration of the course: (Variety)
c. The $250 course fees includes fees for the manual and are fully tax deductible (Affordable)
d. Class sizes are limited to ensure students have maximum chances for practice with an audience. (Practical )

Since 1951, thousands of Canadians have graduated from Christopher Leadership Courses, feeling more confident as public speakers and leaders. Many have commented on how the course has helped them discover potentials previously unknown to themselves. They also credit the course for giving them the courage and confidence to tackle challenges in their lives. (Tested)

The following are a couple of emails I received from some of our graduates:

“What a profound learning experience this was for me! The nature of the CLC model makes the application to life and leadership immediate. Participating in this course has allowed me to make significant changes in my own leadership and in the way I try to influence my organization at large. It has transformed my leadership on multiple levels, all of which has helped me be more effective, personally and professionally.” Siddharth Macwan, 2009 winter course graduate

“There were four philanthropists whom found out about government officials taking hostages. So the first philanthropist put his money into providing fresh water. The second provide money for good food and the third provide a nice bed. The fourth found the key and set them free. Now there are always people to keep you comfortable in your ignorance but the one whom gives you freedom has given you the true gift. I feel at the Christopher leadership course you gave us the freedom of our voice.” –Laurie, 2009 Spring Course graduate

“I've been told that I am an eloquent speaker, a dynamic personality on stage and an effective communicator. These are the skills that I learned in 1984. What I didn't expect is how these same tools affected my self-esteem, particularly the way I see myself. I have found my voice and it was the Christopher Leadership training that began the journey that I now live……..In George Orwell's "1984" free speech was taken away. As a Christopher, free speech is glorified” . Claude Lurette, 1984 Graduate

The next Christopher classes in Ottawa on April 20 and for the first time in Brockville on April 8. To register, please go to www.clcottawa.com or call 613-860-TALK (8255)!
 
please do not blame yourself for what happened.

Try to think over the whole process and dissect each step to see what you could have done better and then you will improve.

Be positive and be confident and you will succeed.

God bless you,

Thanks for the consolation and encouragement!
 
提高表达能力至关重要! 不要气馁!

向你推荐一门课. 刚开学, 还来得及报名.

The Christopher Leadership Course (CLC) helps people realize their full potential as individuals both in the workplace and in social environments by enhancing their leadership and communication skills, as well as their confidence. Unlike any other courses, this course is unique for several reasons:

a.. The course is delivered in a step-by-step systematic approach; (Systematic)
b. The course is taught by a team of 4-5 dedicated (volunteer) instructors every course night for the entire duration of the course: (Variety)
c. The $250 course fees includes fees for the manual and are fully tax deductible (Affordable)
d. Class sizes are limited to ensure students have maximum chances for practice with an audience. (Practical )

Since 1951, thousands of Canadians have graduated from Christopher Leadership Courses, feeling more confident as public speakers and leaders. Many have commented on how the course has helped them discover potentials previously unknown to themselves. They also credit the course for giving them the courage and confidence to tackle challenges in their lives. (Tested)

The following are a couple of emails I received from some of our graduates:

“What a profound learning experience this was for me! The nature of the CLC model makes the application to life and leadership immediate. Participating in this course has allowed me to make significant changes in my own leadership and in the way I try to influence my organization at large. It has transformed my leadership on multiple levels, all of which has helped me be more effective, personally and professionally.” Siddharth Macwan, 2009 winter course graduate

“There were four philanthropists whom found out about government officials taking hostages. So the first philanthropist put his money into providing fresh water. The second provide money for good food and the third provide a nice bed. The fourth found the key and set them free. Now there are always people to keep you comfortable in your ignorance but the one whom gives you freedom has given you the true gift. I feel at the Christopher leadership course you gave us the freedom of our voice.” –Laurie, 2009 Spring Course graduate

“I've been told that I am an eloquent speaker, a dynamic personality on stage and an effective communicator. These are the skills that I learned in 1984. What I didn't expect is how these same tools affected my self-esteem, particularly the way I see myself. I have found my voice and it was the Christopher Leadership training that began the journey that I now live……..In George Orwell's "1984" free speech was taken away. As a Christopher, free speech is glorified” . Claude Lurette, 1984 Graduate

The next Christopher classes in Ottawa on April 20 and for the first time in Brockville on April 8. To register, please go to www.clcottawa.com or call 613-860-TALK (8255)!

This is truly an extraordinary program that everyone can benefit from. My strongest endorsement.
 
Just failed another job process again. The one I interviewed days ago hasn't called me and don't expected it will.

I failed numerousssssssssss time......why? Don't know what to do and what to think of myself anymore:mad:

How can one fail so many times? what's wrong with me?

Wonder how much more I can take?

有这么多面试,简历应该写得很好, 应该很不错了, 想想很多人都没有面试机会.
 
Just failed another job process again. The one I interviewed days ago hasn't called me and don't expected it will.

I failed numerousssssssssss time......why? Don't know what to do and what to think of myself anymore:mad:

How can one fail so many times? what's wrong with me?

Wonder how much more I can take?

找工作的确是一份苦差事。但这里只怕人人都曾failed numerous times. 只要你不放弃终究会找到合适的工作的。

另外,上面提到的Christopher Leadership是一个很好的训练表达能力、增强自信、培养人际关系能力(people skills)、和领导者素质(leadership)的课程。我本人和内人就曾亲身受益。对你找工作增强面试成功的机会肯定会帮助多多。强烈建议一试。

苦难是包裹了的祝福。多年过后回头再看,你会发现这段时间你学到了很多、也得到了很多。

愿神祝福你!
 
失败乃成功之母,再接再厉
 
你面试的时候有问他们拿名片或是联系方式吗?完了以后有给面试你的人发感谢信或是thank you card吗? 过几天有再发信follow up表示自己持续的interest吗? 他们有跟你说原因为什么不录用你吗? 如果他们不说,你也可以主动问啊,就像聊天一样,问一下人家的honest opinion,下一次再有机会就可以改进了。 不要自己一个劲的瞎想,问问他们的feedback。

我觉得练interview的技巧,最好的办法就是找job agent。别抱着他们能帮你找到工作的希望,但是可以问他们对job market的看法, 和对你面试技巧的意见反馈,他们都是一帮很有经验的人,提的意见很有帮助。

之前的failure完全没有关系,那都是为你提高技巧的练兵机会。 最重要是要善于总结经验,学会在面试的时候察言观色。 找工作就像买彩票,运气占很大因素。 千万别灰心!

天将降大任,必先苦其心志。 只要坚持下去,机会随时都会降临。
 
你面试的时候有问他们拿名片或是联系方式吗?完了以后有给面试你的人发感谢信或是thank you card吗? 过几天有再发信follow up表示自己持续的interest吗? 他们有跟你说原因为什么不录用你吗? 如果他们不说,你也可以主动问啊,就像聊天一样,问一下人家的honest opinion,下一次再有机会就可以改进了。 不要自己一个劲的瞎想,问问他们的feedback。

我觉得练interview的技巧,最好的办法就是找job agent。别抱着他们能帮你找到工作的希望,但是可以问他们对job market的看法, 和对你面试技巧的意见反馈,他们都是一帮很有经验的人,提的意见很有帮助。

之前的failure完全没有关系,那都是为你提高技巧的练兵机会。 最重要是要善于总结经验,学会在面试的时候察言观色。 找工作就像买彩票,运气占很大因素。 千万别灰心!

天将降大任,必先苦其心志。 只要坚持下去,机会随时都会降临。

没有呢。 gov. 和 Crown corporation 的也要感谢信吗?
有的只是发email给我叫我90分钟之内回答问题。今天没有收到invitation to tier 3, 肯定就是对我tier 2的回答不满意。:(

谢谢你的鼓励。
 
谢谢LS各位。
只是面对那么多失败和打击。。。感觉就是被打倒的帖在地上,不知怎么爬起来。。
给位让我感觉好多了。

考虑一下课程。。。

God bless everyone!
 
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