接着讲故事。后来，我们夫妻俩在一周之内先后找到不错的工作（如我说的"运气来了挡不住"）。收入有明显变化。LD娇惯儿子。花钱如水。他13岁时一次班上三个女孩子过生日，他每人给$20刀。一次要$60刀（追女孩也不能这么追吧）。我看不过，又跟他商量。咱们假装过穷日子吧。
他问什么是穷日子（小时候的事他不记得了）。
我说咱们不喝饮料，只喝白水。不去麦当劳，不吃汉堡包了。
开始他同意了。但是两天后就不干了。
他说: 我不要过穷日子了。我从小就过穷日子。我过够了。我要喝饮料，不喝白水。我要吃汉堡包。他和妈妈住在多论多。我自己在渥村。鞭长莫及，也管不了他。不过随着年龄增长，他逐渐懂事了。而且手比我还巧。
开始他同意了。但是两天后就不干了
Do you feel that what we tried to teach them has been wasted?
I think we should see the positive side. At least he understands from heart that financia independent is a goal for any adult man, instead of depending on parents. and complete a university degree as his most friends. I told my son that if he stays in a school/university, I will support him by paying his tuition and basic living expenses. As long as he is leaving school, he should depend on himself. I only provide him shield and food if he needs to let him not being homeless, no more than that. He knows that I keep my words.
下午好~
