那个FRACER INSTITUTION弄那个中小学校排名你们都看吗？有多大区别啊？还是都没什么区别？
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为什么搬家，那里不是挺好的吗
呵呵, 我能理解她LG
西老师, 我有2个爱好
1个是洗车, 但凡天气好,周末没事就洗车killing time
1个是剪草啦收拾巴掌大的花坛啥的
这2件事多是傍晚的时候干, 因为没大太阳不热
那个时候也是大街溜达消食的时间
你不知道, 我洗次车要被多少大爷大妈观摩和表扬:blowzy:
唉, 我也是面子下不来, 来1个我就得停1次手中活, 喊声大爷好大妈好, 谁让都是街坊呢
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小魏啊，你真是台胞可能不了解大陆人。事实是因为对某些价值观的认同，很多中国人不得不住在一起，而不是心甘情愿的。我的一个朋友住在kizell pond，说是华人比例空前的高，70%up，晚饭后溜大街的人太多，还指指点点的，搞得他都不敢站在窗口
草地也打理不好
One thing really surprises me. Some Chinese people like to tout about freedom etc in Canada. However, how can one claims freedom when one doesn't have confidence or self-esteem ?
What is wrong with pointing ? Or people standing in front of your garage but on public road side ?
Why should you have the "shame" feeling ? You are just yourself. Other Chinese neither represent you nor being represented by you.
What is the matter ?
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It is legal to stand on city property. The issue is not with old Chinese people standing where. The old Chinese are more than enough in being aware of not causing trouble here.
It is those people who feel "shame" when other Chinese make themselves conspicuous in certain ways.
Many old Chinese people like to point at houses or areas. These "feel shame" Chinese turn red as soon as they see their compatriots raise their hands.
Also, many Chinese feel locals are friendly when they come by and say hi. How come when old Chinese say hi becomes a nuisance ?
There is a difference between self derogatory and self deprecating. It is just amazing to see a significant percent of Chinese here is so "shame aware".
My intention is trying to understand where this "shame feeling" come from. That is all. So, no offense to anyone on the board.
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呵呵, 我能理解她LG
西老师, 我有2个爱好
1个是洗车, 但凡天气好,周末没事就洗车killing time
1个是剪草啦收拾巴掌大的花坛啥的
这2件事多是傍晚的时候干, 因为没大太阳不热
那个时候也是大街溜达消食的时间
你不知道, 我洗次车要被多少大爷大妈观摩和表扬:blowzy:
唉, 我也是面子下不来, 来1个我就得停1次手中活, 喊声大爷好大妈好, 谁让都是街坊呢
看来是我误解你了，你在joking啊，真有幽默感，更证明你是台胞啦
呵呵，这么多问题还真不好回答，这样说吧，privacy，可以吗
其实把爷爷奶奶往他家附近一送,折腾几天,然后满大街都知道他家早饭吃啥,晚饭吃啥,小孩睡衣是条子的还是花的..看他ENJOY不ENJOY
听我一个朋友说:最吓人的是老人们在一起东家长西家短,然后回家后开始广播,28号的媳妇不会生......127号的媳妇家里穷就知道要钱.....15号的男的没出息怕老婆BLAH BLAH BLAH
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其实把爷爷奶奶往他家附近一送,折腾几天,然后满大街都知道他家早饭吃啥,晚饭吃啥,小孩睡衣是条子的还是花的..看他ENJOY不ENJOY
听我一个朋友说:最吓人的是老人们在一起东家长西家短,然后回家后开始广播,28号的媳妇不会生......127号的媳妇家里穷就知道要钱.....15号的男的没出息怕老婆BLAH BLAH BLAH
Standing on city property to chat doesn't violate anyone's privacy unless it is against by-laws.
Gossip is a freedom.
Unless the old people start to peek into your windows and then that becomes a different issue.
All I am saying is be generous when commenting areas that have a relatively large concentration of minorities like Chinese or Indian.
It is your choice to dislike the area and it is your freedom. However, when one starts to make "mean" comments on the areas, well, that is your freedom too.
However, in case you are well intentioned, I can help pointing out to uphold virtues like being tolerant, constructive and generous if possible.
