I heard from the news that neighbors told how the adoptive mom looked happy about having the daughter and spent time with her all the time...
b/d on Canada Day...
回答你的问题:
1)我问的时候面对的是大家,所以用了“们”
2)大家回复的时候代表是个人,同意你说“们”不起来
3)我想了解的大家的(公众)的想法,public opinion,or collective opinions made by individual's,所以没有领养孩子经验的也可以说几句的,他们的想法也是受到鼓励的:p