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什么是婚姻？
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婚姻首先是神的恩典，是神与人的事。神说男人独居不好，是真的不好。婚姻完全是上帝一手包办的，一男一女是婚姻的最基本的真正定义，而同性恋只算是个组合。婚姻不是出于人，而是出于神。
其次婚姻是责任，婚姻不仅是爱，还是责任，夫妻双方第一是对神负责，因为婚姻是神圣的。第二婚姻是对对方负责，女人再出息，丈夫还是她的头，女人只能是贤内助，另外丈夫要真爱妻子。当男人的尊严得到保障，女人才有幸福可言。千万不要伤男人的尊严，千万不要伤女人的心。
第三婚姻是试炼，试炼是我们自己担当不起的，在这场试炼中，只有紧紧依靠主。在婚姻中若有试炼，什么办法都不如你跪下来向神祷告。破碎自己，藏在主里。
第四婚姻是荣耀，不再用完美无缺来要求对方，而是用宽容的心来接纳对方。彼此接纳，彼此担当。我在爱那些不可爱的人的过程中，使自己变得更可爱，我在接纳不完美的人的过程中，使自己越来越完美。
其次婚姻是责任，婚姻不仅是爱，还是责任，夫妻双方第一是对神负责，因为婚姻是神圣的。第二婚姻是对对方负责，女人再出息，丈夫还是她的头，女人只能是贤内助，另外丈夫要真爱妻子。当男人的尊严得到保障，女人才有幸福可言。千万不要伤男人的尊严，千万不要伤女人的心。
第三婚姻是试炼，试炼是我们自己担当不起的，在这场试炼中，只有紧紧依靠主。在婚姻中若有试炼，什么办法都不如你跪下来向神祷告。破碎自己，藏在主里。
第四婚姻是荣耀，不再用完美无缺来要求对方，而是用宽容的心来接纳对方。彼此接纳，彼此担当。我在爱那些不可爱的人的过程中，使自己变得更可爱，我在接纳不完美的人的过程中，使自己越来越完美。
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Biblical Marriage Guide
A. Marriage shall consist of a union between one man and one or more women. (Gen 29:17-28; II Sam 3:2-5) Please note that NOTHING in the Old or New Testament condemns polygamy. Polyandry, though (i.e., a woman taking more than one husband) is an abomination.
婚姻应当由一个男人和一个或更多的妇女之间的联盟。 （创29:17-28; II撒上3:2-5）请注意，旧约或新约中的任何谴责一夫多妻制。一妻多夫制（即一个女人服用一种以上的丈夫），却是是可憎的。
B. Marriage shall not impede a man's right to take concubines in addition to his wife or wives. (II Sam 5:13; I Kings 11:3; II Chron 11:21)
婚姻不应妨碍一个男人的除了他的妻子或妻子们采取妾权利，
C. A marriage shall be considered valid only if the wife is a virgin. If the wife is not a virgin, she shall be executed. (Deut 22:13-21)
如果妻子是处女的婚姻应视为有效。如果妻子是不是处女，她应被处死。
D. Marriage of a believer and a non-believer shall be forbidden. (Gen 24:3; Num 25:1-9; Ezra 9:12; Neh 10:30) Also, to bolster this assertion, the New Testament plainly states that Christians ought not "yoke themselves unto unbelievers" (2 Cor. 6:14). Therefore, all mixed marriages must be declared null and void -- period, end of discussion.
应禁止信徒和非信徒的婚姻。 （创24:3;民25:1-9;以斯拉9:12;尼10:30）此外，为了支持这一说法，新约圣经清楚地指出，基督徒不应该“枷锁对不信自己”（2Cor。 ：14）。因此，所有的异族通婚必须被宣布无效 - 。
E. Since marriage is for life, neither this Constitution nor the constitution of any State, nor any state or federal law, shall be construed to permit divorce.(Deut 22:19; Mark 10:9) Exceptions MIGHT be made for husbands to "put away" their wives in case of adultery, but even that's kinda iffy. All this "Well, he beats me black and blue" crap just doesn't hold water with the word of God.
F. If a married man dies without children, his brother shall marry the widow. If he refuses to marry his brother's widow or deliberately does not give her children, he shall pay a fine of one shoe and be otherwise punished in a manner to be determined by law. (Gen. 38:6-10; Deut 25:5-10) I'm sure that Payless and Thom McAn will be happy to hear about the shoe thing.
G. In lieu of marriage, if there are no acceptable men in your town, it is required that you get your dad drunk and have sex with him (even if he had previously offered you up as a sex toy to men young and old), tag-teaming with any sisters you may have. Of course, this rule applies only if you are female. (Gen 19:31-36)
H. Now, I could go on and on here -- I mean, let's not forget Old and New Testament rules about women being subject to their husbands, or covering their heads in church, or being forbidden to teach men, or being impure during their menstrual cycles (remember: sex here means death), or some of those delightful levitical gems about when you may marry your slave girl, or how to tie the knot with someone you've just raped (after you've amply compensated her father, of course).
A. Marriage shall consist of a union between one man and one or more women. (Gen 29:17-28; II Sam 3:2-5) Please note that NOTHING in the Old or New Testament condemns polygamy. Polyandry, though (i.e., a woman taking more than one husband) is an abomination.
婚姻应当由一个男人和一个或更多的妇女之间的联盟。 （创29:17-28; II撒上3:2-5）请注意，旧约或新约中的任何谴责一夫多妻制。一妻多夫制（即一个女人服用一种以上的丈夫），却是是可憎的。
B. Marriage shall not impede a man's right to take concubines in addition to his wife or wives. (II Sam 5:13; I Kings 11:3; II Chron 11:21)
婚姻不应妨碍一个男人的除了他的妻子或妻子们采取妾权利，
C. A marriage shall be considered valid only if the wife is a virgin. If the wife is not a virgin, she shall be executed. (Deut 22:13-21)
如果妻子是处女的婚姻应视为有效。如果妻子是不是处女，她应被处死。
D. Marriage of a believer and a non-believer shall be forbidden. (Gen 24:3; Num 25:1-9; Ezra 9:12; Neh 10:30) Also, to bolster this assertion, the New Testament plainly states that Christians ought not "yoke themselves unto unbelievers" (2 Cor. 6:14). Therefore, all mixed marriages must be declared null and void -- period, end of discussion.
应禁止信徒和非信徒的婚姻。 （创24:3;民25:1-9;以斯拉9:12;尼10:30）此外，为了支持这一说法，新约圣经清楚地指出，基督徒不应该“枷锁对不信自己”（2Cor。 ：14）。因此，所有的异族通婚必须被宣布无效 - 。
E. Since marriage is for life, neither this Constitution nor the constitution of any State, nor any state or federal law, shall be construed to permit divorce.(Deut 22:19; Mark 10:9) Exceptions MIGHT be made for husbands to "put away" their wives in case of adultery, but even that's kinda iffy. All this "Well, he beats me black and blue" crap just doesn't hold water with the word of God.
F. If a married man dies without children, his brother shall marry the widow. If he refuses to marry his brother's widow or deliberately does not give her children, he shall pay a fine of one shoe and be otherwise punished in a manner to be determined by law. (Gen. 38:6-10; Deut 25:5-10) I'm sure that Payless and Thom McAn will be happy to hear about the shoe thing.
G. In lieu of marriage, if there are no acceptable men in your town, it is required that you get your dad drunk and have sex with him (even if he had previously offered you up as a sex toy to men young and old), tag-teaming with any sisters you may have. Of course, this rule applies only if you are female. (Gen 19:31-36)
H. Now, I could go on and on here -- I mean, let's not forget Old and New Testament rules about women being subject to their husbands, or covering their heads in church, or being forbidden to teach men, or being impure during their menstrual cycles (remember: sex here means death), or some of those delightful levitical gems about when you may marry your slave girl, or how to tie the knot with someone you've just raped (after you've amply compensated her father, of course).
