头疼阿，孩子被小朋友欺负的不想去幼儿园了，家长怎么引导好呢？

[ynnus]

孩子最近很不开心， 因为幼儿园新来了个喜欢打人的小孩，孩子和他几乎每天都发生冲突，因为经常发展到和他对打而被叫去罚站。我不觉得自己的孩子有暴力倾向，平时都挺温和的，这个小孩没来之前孩子很少对别人动手的。

问老师情况，老师也说这个孩子很让人头疼，总是欺负别的小孩，但好像也没什么举措。想想也是，人家也交了钱总不能劝退把。

孩子越来越不爱去幼儿园了(自己说原因就是那个小孩)，从每天早上说不去到现在晚上睡觉前都要说明天不去之类的，做家长的真着急啊。

请问妈妈们，我们该怎么办呢？就简单的解决办法就是换到别的班或者换个幼儿园。总觉得这样做是逃避，以后也许还会遇到这样的情况的。这是孩子第一次遇到这样的事情，我们该怎么引导呢？躲得远远的少跟他凑近（这个跟他讲了多次，没什么效果）? 狠狠打那个小孩一次吓唬住他（教孩子以暴制暴也觉得不对）？还有什么高招么？

谢谢

 

[某某]

"人家也交了钱总不能劝退把"
Not true. If the behaviour is causing big problem for other children and educators in the daycare, the daycare should first communicate with the parents of that child to see if they can work on the behaviour.
And if that doesn't improve, they should ask the child to withdraw from their daycare and refund unused daycare fee, minus some administration fee.

It is the teacher responsibility to create a safe environment for your child. And that child's parents' responsibility to work with the teacher to educate their own child. Not your responsibility.
I suggest you talk with the teachers again, stress that your child is really unhappy, and start to try to avoid coming to their daycare, and it is getting worse and worse. You can say that you are going to consider changing school if they don't take action.
I'm sure they'd rather keep a good behaving child than a difficult one.

But you don't have to point out that they should get that child to withdraw, they should be able to come up with that conclusion themselves. If they can't comprehend that, maybe it is the best thing for your child to change school.

 

[erichenry]

老师有责任解决这样的问题,我们在去DAYCARE之前,老师就跟我们讲了他们的责任,说老师会尽一切办法避免这种事发生,如果发生了一定会尽力解决
我提前想了一招,那奏是我们入园后又介绍了另外两个熟识的很听话的孩子跟我们孩一个班,占两个名额