神圣婚姻

婚姻是相爱的男女之间神圣的结合

  • 完全认同,一生一世永不分离

    选票: 3 27.3%
  • 部分认同,离婚可以接受但要慎重;

    选票: 6 54.5%
  • 婚姻是为了方便,可以随意离婚;

    选票: 0 0.0%
  • 为什么要结婚?这也太老套了吧?

    选票: 2 18.2%

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婚姻是神圣的,不知道多少人认同?如果认同, 那么, 婚姻神圣是什么意思?为什么婚姻是神圣的?

不好意思,这个选题考虑不周。应该是这样:
1)完全认同,我的承诺是一生一世永不分离
2)部分认同,我如果必须离婚会慎重考虑;
3)婚姻是为了方便,我会随意离婚;
4)我为什么要结婚?这也太老套了吧?
 
最后编辑:
每一个离婚都是一个悲剧,因为夫妻结合,本来是为了一生一世的合一。本来也可以实现这合一。
 
婚姻神圣是什么意思?为什么婚姻是神圣的?

请两位超版手下留情,暂时不要挪贴。:)
 
这里许多是大妈大叔了。当年的生死相恋,大约也都还记忆犹新。只是,那种强烈的与对方合一的愿望,我们称之为爱情的东西,现在是否依希还在?

你是否正在因为它的逐渐褪色而焦虑困惑?
或者,它已经完全地被真实的合一所取代?
 
过去的群婚也是神圣的?
 
过去的群婚也是神圣的?

不是,那是错误的婚姻。不知道人类历史上什么时候有过群婚,如果有,那不是婚姻而是昏淫。

不介意的话,能不能讲一下你对婚姻咋看的?
 
有意思的是,现代人夫妻合一婚姻幸福的秘诀,完整地包含在一本古老的典籍之中。您猜对了,就是圣经!
那么,圣经怎样规范人类婚姻夫妻关系家庭关系的?
 
婚姻神圣是什么意思?为什么婚姻是神圣的?

神圣婚姻是一个来自基督教的概念,大至有以下的涵义:
1)婚姻是神设立的 - 婚姻的来源神圣;
2)神设立人类婚姻有神自己的目的 - 婚姻的目的神圣;
3)婚姻的维持需要顺服神的旨意并且行在神的保守中 - 婚姻的过程神圣。

(神圣的英文是holy或者godly,就是属神的意思。)
 
先看看基督徒婚礼是常用的誓词:

1)

我○○○接受你○○○作為我合法的已婚妻子(丈夫)。擁有並持有,從這天開始,是好、是壞,是富、是窮,是健康、是疾病,直到死亡將我們分開。

2) 台灣基督長老教會婚禮誓詞


問︰♂♂♂,你確信這個婚姻是上帝所配合的嗎?
問︰♂♂♂,你是否願意承認接納♀♀♀做你為的妻子?
問:上帝使你活在世上,你當常常以溫柔端正的行為照顧你的妻子,敬愛她、惟獨與她同住一起,建立基督化的家庭。並尊重她的家族為你的家族,終身盡你做丈夫的本份。你在上帝和眾人面前是否願意這樣做?
問︰♀♀♀,你確信這個婚姻是上帝所配合的嗎?
問︰♀♀♀,你是否願意承認♂♂♂做你為的丈夫?
問:上帝使你活在世上,你當常常以溫柔端莊的行為順服你的丈夫,敬愛他、幫助他,唯獨與他同住,一起建立基督化的家庭。並尊重他的家族為你的家族,盡力孝順,終身盡你做妻子的本份。你在上帝和眾人面前,是否願意這樣做?

我♂♂♂願意承認接納♀♀♀做我的妻子,誠實遵照上帝的誡命,和她生活在一起。無論處於什麼環境,都願意終身養她、愛惜她、安慰她、尊重她、保護她,以至奉召歸主。
我♀♀♀願意承認♂♂♂做我的丈夫。誠實遵照上帝的誡命,和他生活在一起,無論處於什麼環境,都願意終順服他、愛惜他、安慰他、尊重他、保護他,以至奉召歸主。

牧師大聲宣告:
現在你們兩個人在上帝和眾人面前已經締結這重要的盟約,你們當時常照約彼此相待,方能增加你們的福份,並使人得益處。現在我奉聖父聖子聖靈的名為你們二人證婚成為夫婦、上帝所配合的,人不可分開。
耶和華賜福保護你們。
願耶和華的臉光照你們。
願耶和華歡喜的臉看顧你們,賜你們平安。阿們。」​
 
最后编辑:
Dearly beloved, we are gathered together here in the sight of God, and in the face of this company of witnesses to join together this man and this woman in Holy Matrimony; which is an honorable estate, instituted of God, signifying unto us the mystical union that is between Christ and His Church; which Holy Estate Christ adorned with His presence and first miracle that He wrought in Cana of Galilee, and is commended of St. Paul to be honorable among all men; and therefore, not entered into unadvisedly or lightly, but reverently, discreetly, soberly and in the fear of God. Into this Holy Estate these two persons present come now to be joined.

If any man can show just cause, why they may not lawfully be joined together, let him speak now or forever hold his peace.
Who gives this woman to be married to this man? (Optional)

__________________will you have this woman to be your lawful wedded wife, to live together after God s ordinance in the Holy Estate of Matrimony? Will you love her, comfort her, honor and keep her in sickness and in health; and, forsaking all others keep you only unto her as long as you both shall live?

__________________will you have this man to be your lawful wedded husband, to live together after God s ordinance in the Holy Estate of Matrimony? Will you love him, comfort him, honor and keep him in sickness and in health; and, forsaking all others keep you only unto him as long as you both shall live?

The marriage ring seals the vows of marriage and represents a promise for eternal and everlasting love.

(Groom: Repeat after me) I __________________ take thee, _______________ to be my wedded wife, to have and to hold from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish forever, according to God s Holy Ordinance, and thereto I give thee my pledge.

(Bride: Repeat after Me) I ___________________ take thee, _________________ to be my wedded husband, to have and to hold from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish forever, according to God s Holy Ordinance, and thereto I give thee my pledge.

Those whom God hath joined together, let no man put asunder.

Forasmuch as ____________ and ___________ have consented together in Holy Wedlock, and have witnessed the same before God and this company of witnesses, and there to have given their pledge, each to the other, and have declared the same by giving and receiving a ring, and by joining hands; by the power vested in me by the State of Illinois, I now pronounce you husband and wife.

You many now kiss your bride.

Ladies and Gentlemen, I now present to you Mr. And Mrs. ________________
 
上面的誓词,是根据圣经认真设计的。对基督徒而言,他们的誓言不仅是向对方的的承诺,也是向上帝的承诺。
 
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