最初由 dongpo 发布
it is not a smart idea to talk it with the roommate. i don't want to hurt anyone.
最初由 渐渐 发布
I don't agree. I can't see how being open and assertive would hurt anybody. Your comment to the problem is very typical of a Chinese if you will (I'm expecting bricks now ). From the fact that you posted the incident in this forum, I feel that you are being passive-aggressive, and that's not a good way to handle problems. My suggestion is still open communication. Normally communication would resolve differences.