The biggest reason couples argue may or may not surprise you

[耶书仑]

A new study by online dating website eHarmony has found the biggest reasons that couples fight.

Surveying its users, eHarmony found the top 10 causes of arguments in relationships.

It's not the reason you might think. While many would assume its to do with sex, intimacy or a lack of it, actually came tenth in eHarmony's list.

The list

1. Not listening (47%)

2. Insensitivity/ saying the wrong thing (34%)

3. Thoughtlessness (29%)

4. Money worries (27%)

5. Family concerns (22%)

6. Kids (17%)

7. Always on technology (phone, internet) 13%

8. Snoring (13%)

9. Working hours (10%)

10. Sex (a lack of) (10%)

 

[uglyducking]

不会因为讨论信仰问题而争吵吗？

 

[xuxu]

不会因为讨论信仰问题而争吵吗？

It's actually our main source of argument.

 

[2017]

从前三个因素看, 外国人吵架基本都是女方挑起来的.

男人是不会因为 Not listening, Insensitivity, Thoughtlessness 吵架的 ...

 

[冷笑十声]

唯女子与小人难养也,近之则不逊,远之则怨

 

[xuxu]

从前三个因素看, 外国人吵架基本都是女方挑起来的.

男人是不会因为 Not listening, Insensitivity, Thoughtlessness 吵架的 ...

haha

 

[耶书仑]

不会因为讨论信仰问题而争吵吗？

当然有！

 

[耶书仑]

It's actually our main source of argument.

Really? Most peole don't care about faith, at least for people at CFC.

 

[耶书仑]

从前三个因素看, 外国人吵架基本都是女方挑起来的.

男人是不会因为 Not listening, Insensitivity, Thoughtlessness 吵架的 ...

不管谁挑起来，都是吵！男人是不会因为 Not listening, Insensitivity, Thoughtlessness 吵架的，但他们可能是 Not listening, Insensitivity, Thoughtlessness的源头。

 

[xuxu]

Really? Most peole don't care about faith, at least for people at CFC.

It's more views towards Muslim/Islam for the time being, also politics, when you support different parties.

 

[耶书仑]

It's more views towards Muslim/Islam for the time being, also politics, when you support different parties.

Yes, outside the family, religion views, political views are sources of arguing, to a large exetend.