为了赢而争论还是为了学习和开放而争论

[billwanhua]

Yale research: Highly successful people argue differently

People "arguing to win" took a hard line and only saw one right answer, Yale research from 2016 found. There's a better way to debate, says researcher Matthew Fisher.

www.cnbc.com

‘arguing to win’? or Go into arguments with ‘an openness and willingness to learn’

我看心理学家没有看过这个论坛，不知道还有 arguing to argue

 

[welcomelm]

Yale research: Highly successful people argue differently

People "arguing to win" took a hard line and only saw one right answer, Yale research from 2016 found. There's a better way to debate, says researcher Matthew Fisher.

www.cnbc.com

‘arguing to win’? or Go into arguments with ‘an openness and willingness to learn’

我看心理学家没有看过这个论坛，不知道还有 arguing to argue

到了这个坛子里大多数人的年龄，他们已经失去learn和改变的能力了，包括我自己。有时候你觉得自己学到了东西，改变了，但实际上什么都没变，你还是原来那个你。

 

[贵圈]

这不就是论事不论人吗?