case closed

[niceguy]

Thanks for all your opinions. It helps a lot.

 

[稻草人]

They can do it together. That's fair.

 

[南山下]

持证上岗

However, how they are going to trust each other in future? Do they have to take the test on a regular basis? Moreover, there are a lot of other things in the life, how they are going to deal with these things without some sense of trust? If the girl has no way to know his past, which sounds true unless believe what he said, how she is going to know what is exactly happening to him each day even though they are together?

Anyways, it is not my business. Just be curious.

 

[blesslola]

they can do it together. it is fair for both them

 

[jstar]

Re: HIV test? Please give your opinions!

最初由 niceguy 发布
My friend just found a girl friend. They fell in love quickly. But his girl friend insisted that he must do the HIV test before they develop any intimate relations. My friend insist that he is very cautious man and can't get HIV virus. But the girl said she don't know his past and can not believe anything what he says.

Do you think the man should go and get the test?
Welcome everybody's opinion.
Suppose you are the man, will you do it?

He should do the test. No question about it. What's the harm for him?

 

[jackrabbit]

Re: Re: Re: HIV test? Please give your opinions!

最初由 niceguy 发布


his reason is:
1. he was treated like a jerk.

i think he should be happy because his g/f is a responsible person and has respect for herself.

 

[Bleuet]

I think his gf is as responsible as she can be, yet the guy isn't at all.
he is lucky that he's got someone like her, tell him that go to the clinic and do the HIV test and BE A MAN for crying out loud!!!!

 

[terry890]

take the test

最初由 niceguy 发布
the girl suggested to take the test together, but my friend still couldn't accept it. So the girl felt more doubt on him since if he was not afraid of being tested positive, why didn't he do it? Now their ralationship reached an impass.

 

[Chinese]

他为什么那么怕呢? 难道心里有鬼?!

 

[kool]

that is a basic responsiblity for relationship

 

[绿野仙踪]

觉得那个女的有点毛病,还从没听说建立亲密关系以前叫自己男朋友去查HIV的,她不是圣女就是那个男的给人的印象太花了,不值得信任。...PS:楼主的朋友就是楼主吧....NO OFFENSE!

 

[BeingJourney]

Re: HIV test? Please give your opinions!

No doubt about it. It is a basic rule. And do it periodically.

That chick is smart, it is no point to risk her life for a uncertain relationship, I mean play safe , and play longer.

最初由 niceguy 发布
My friend just found a girl friend. They fell in love quickly. But his girl friend insisted that he must do the HIV test before they develop any intimate relations. My friend insist that he is very cautious man and can't get HIV virus. But the girl said she don't know his past and can not believe anything what he says.

Do you think the man should go and get the test?
Welcome everybody's opinion.
Suppose you are the man, will you do it?