[闲聊] 如果老公或者男朋友和你计较钱？

[我爱老公]

大家讨论一下，如果你的老公或者是男朋友很计较钱，而且你如果花他些钱他就会不高兴甚至嚷嚷，或者觉得以自己挣钱为借口对家务懒惰。。。
大家碰上这样什么反应？？:zany:

 

[colonel]

没见过，我老公也挣钱养我，可是家务也帮我干，我花钱他高兴。

 

[我爱老公]

那你是幸福的女人

 

[我爱老公]

如果他认为你为他做一切才证明你心疼他....

 

[Melody]

习惯就好了

 

[max]

最初由 我爱老公 发布
大家讨论一下，如果你的老公或者是男朋友很计较钱，而且你如果花他些钱他就会不高兴甚至嚷嚷，或者觉得以自己挣钱为借口对家务懒惰。。。
大家碰上这样什么反应？？:zany:

If he is my boyfriend and I love him dearly, I will discuss about the money issue and the financial plan before I got married to him, try to be fair.
If he is my husband and I love the family, I will try not to use his money. No way I will be financial dependent on him anyway. If he want to spend money for me, it will come from his heart, not by asking...But I will persist on him helping the house work if both of us are working. Sometimes, men are like adult children, deep down they know the right thing, but they try to get away. You just have to be firm on things like sharing house work.

 

[我爱老公]

为什么要女人习惯，男人不能习惯女人吗？

 

[我爱老公]

Re: Re: [闲聊] 如果老公或者男朋友和你计较钱？

所以你认为如果这种人是你男朋友就应该在如果改变不了他的情况下不和他结婚了。。。因为这是他的个性，而且如果他根本不认为这是个问题，他认为自己做的没什么错。。。

最初由 max 发布


If he is my boyfriend and I love him dearly, I will discuss about the money issue and the financial plan before I got married to him, try to be fair.
If he is my husband and I love the family, I will try not to use his money. No way I will be financial dependent on him anyway. If he want to spend money for me, it will come from his heart, not by asking...But I will persist on him helping the house work if both of us are working. Sometimes, men are like adult children, deep down they know the right thing, but they try to get away. You just have to be firm on things like sharing house work.

 

[amigo111]

都是一家人 钱无所谓拉 自己钱花完拉抢他的

 

[我爱老公]

他不让怎么办？或者说你别花我的钱。。

最初由 amigo111 发布
都是一家人 钱无所谓拉 自己钱花完拉抢他的

 

[笑傲江湖]

After you get married, everything is YOURS (I mean you two).

最初由 我爱老公 发布
他不让怎么办？或者说你别花我的钱。。

 

[我爱老公]

不是那么简单阿。。。哪儿能什么都是我的，我也不会要阿，我就是觉得我也不会花你的钱，只是他这样很伤人而已。。。

最初由 xyz139 发布
After you get married, everything is YOURS (I mean you two).

 

[我爱老公]

再说了，结婚以后就会变吗？我不这么想

 

[kool]

即使问花钱的问题， 这也没什么不对， 对家庭的日常开销有所了解也是应该的， 如果他不是天天和你计较钱， 偶然或定期了解是应该的。。最好是在尊重对方的基础上主动让对方了解比较合适也避免矛盾

赚钱就是为了花的， 只要花的开心就行。。但必需是在家庭计划经济基础上，你和他结婚，家也是您的， 所以我认为在日常生活计划以后的花销， 怎么花都是不违反原则的

 

[shusheng]

最初由 Melody 发布
习惯就好了

:lol: :lol: :lol: