最初由 Die_Hard 发布
可能过激,但是我的想法:
看了这么渥太华移民的面对各种事实,硬撑说加拿大这好那好的。
即使无法自圆其说的,也会以今天不好明天会好的希望来欺骗自己和他人。
事实上,这样的人是注定要失败的,国内混得不好,想到加拿大试一试运气(有够傻的),碰壁后不肯回头(没有勇气),他们唯一的希望是--希望(自欺欺人)。
像这样又傻又没勇气又自欺欺人的人,失败烙在他们的背上,他们注定失败,在中国或在加拿大!
Let me add my two cents here:
It is really hard for all these new immigrants here under high tech bubble and recession. Some people are having hard time for losing their jobs. This bring back a question: Is it correct coming to Canada?
I used to have a high pay job in one big city in China. People can get "success" feeling easily in China if he earns more than others, if he becomes a leader in your company, or even pay less to get special service. I used to to talk to one of my collegues in China, he got rocket promotion after I left. He asked me in Email that "Can I earn more in Canada?" "What kind of car do you have now? I have BMW in China now". Two weeks later, he told me "I think it is time for me to seek other opputunities. (Background: there is fierce HR fight in this famous company), one even slamed his manager for un-authorized sales expense, one even suicided.
I do agree that in Canada that one is hard to have a feeling like suprior to other in China. One is hard to get very rich. But you have a peaceful life if you keep your credit, and being honest.
People can enjoy good air here. So many benifits are available for elder people, children. One don't need prepare himself in the fighting status to live in the sociaty.
In China, I can't get this peaceful mind. Few people would trust what other said. There is no credibility in routine life.
I helped one of my previous collegues who would like to get background information for North America. He gave me a lot of promise even if I didn't mention. After he gets what he wants, he disppears without Email reply for 3 months.
How could this knid of person win any business in North America?
I enjoy my life here. Maybe I have the pressure of laid off.
I earned and got what I deserve. I have peaceful mind here. I don't need to worry cheating anyone to get things done. That is Canada. It is not perfect, but I like it.
You can call me a loser, because I can't become a manager as I did in China. I got what I want here.