2) thick maternity pad, diaper, moisturizing lipstick, slippers, health card, credit card. (there's another thread about this)
3) if you mean epidural, it's still virginal birth, so no cutting on the belly but your doctor might cut the skin around the virgina. there's no pain after you have epidural, but there is some pain before that, and you have to request it as soon as possible.
4) 2-3 days if you and your baby are in good condition.
You can call Birth Unit to book an tour for labouring, you'll get most of questions answered during the tour, and you'll also get a list from them telling you what to pack.
Nature delivery usually takes 2-day hospital stay; C-section will take extra 2 more days.
你可以申请健康婴儿健康儿童服务。这是省市提供的免费服务。你可拨打这个电话:580-6744, 一位值班护士会回答你的问题。你也可以申请长期服务,直到孩子1-2岁为止。如果申请成功, 护士或健康保健工作者会到你家提供免费服务。When you call 580-6744, you can either ask questions or apply for Health Baby and Health Children Program. It is not complicated, just answer the questions about your name, address, your due date, etc. Good luck!