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国庆节假期我"请“这样一位女士吃了一顿饭 (转贴)
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by unisonic (wondering) at 2006.7.12 22:22
这是发生在国庆节期间的事，说我请是因为我去她家车接车送，加引号是因为这个请并不是我情愿的，但男人怎么也得有点风度吧，总不能饭罢溜走赖账吧，不过是50刀而已。。
七一加拿大国庆节前几个星期吧，我收到她的第一个email，询问我是否还在找女友，我回信说是但私下感到很奇怪，因为我用这个信箱征友是去年的事了。她又来信说希望我寄去照片，我回信说我不想寄照片给没见过的人，她若愿意打电话我可以给她号码。她回信后说行。但在我寄去电话号码后约两周也没接到她的电话和信件。我又发信去问，她说我的邮件出现乱码，号码少了一位数字。我纳闷：我们通信都是英文怎么会乱码？难道我少打个数字？我随之道歉并重新附上号码。随后我检查一下我发去的那个邮件发现我没打错，难道电邮件到她的信箱出现了乱码？英文加阿拉伯数字产生乱码的情况还是少见。
这样有过了几天，在七一公假的最后一天下午，我忽然收到她的电话，开始我还没反应过来。然后聊了一会，她着重问我的工作收入，我则没打听她的收入。但知道虽然都买了房子，但她的房子不论位置质量面积都比我的好，估计价格应该为我的一倍，但她没供车。也谈了一些来了多久和对（网上）交朋友的看法等。我所她若有时间可以一起去见面和咖啡聊天，她却说一起去餐馆，我说我刚吃过不久，还是喝咖啡消化一下好。当时约四点钟，可能她还没吃吧。又谈了什么，她说还是见面再谈吧，告诉了她家的住址，我一听就说知道那个有名的CONDO大楼。
见了面，给她拉车门上了车，我说去附近的咖啡店坐坐，她说怕喝咖啡难以入眠，还是说要去餐馆吃饭。我以前也见过一些女士，没有一个第一次见面就说要去餐馆吃饭的。我想也许那些女士没有她那么大气，经常下餐馆。我想怎么也应该是大家AA制，我就陪她好了。是她一意坚持去餐馆的。我可没想请他。
到了她指定的餐馆，她又点了该餐馆的招牌菜，边吃边谈。吃差不多了，还剩一半多，打包算账。总共是45元。我看钱包里只有25元，放在帐单上，但她并没有掏钱包的举动，就问她是否有现金。她翻了一看，说只有10元，但也没拿出来。餐馆只收现金，所以我对他们说去外面提款机取钱，她在那儿打包。我回来后付了50元，就送她回家。她也没提任何她也应该负担帐单的事。这时我已经隐隐感到这是个借谈朋友为名白吃的女人。但也不能完全肯定，也许下次见面她会提出付账吧。
回家后我给她写了邮件，问她是否还愿意和我见面。她第二天回信：
Thanks for knowing you a nice friend.
You are a good friend deserve good one.
Best wishes,
我认为这很模糊，不明白她的真正意思。又给她写道：
Thanks for your reply but pls just tell me if you want
to see me again or not.
她再也没有任何回应。过两天我又写道：
pls just kindly reply to my last mail. Thank you.
她也没回应。这种与完全证实了她的骗吃嘴脸。实际吃饭前我已经跟她说过，我以前见女友，第一次从来不吃饭，都是到咖啡厅坐坐，她只是一笑。
试想：若是见面后觉得不想再和对方下次见面，一般女子/男子都不会再和对方去餐馆了。即使去也不会让对方付账的。好嘛，头一次遇到这类女子，让我长见识了。若说喝杯咖啡不算什么，那么50元一顿饭对大部分人即使是专业工也不是可忽略的小数目吧。
过两天我又给她写了：
You haven't replied so I guess what I think is right. You are kind of lady who just wants to take advantage over a guy like me and have a meal free by meeting me. I will let you know it is not such a easy thing to pass it over. Exactly 7 days ago,during the phone talk before we meet, you suggested we would go to restaurant and I said I had just has meals and I was full. After we met at your building, I suggested we went to have a coffee and you said you never drink coffee and proposed again going to restaurant. OK, then I drove you there. But after the meal, I thought at least we would share the bill, but you said you just had $10 in purse. So my $25 was not enough,even plus your $10 (you still didn't take it out). I had to go to the nearby bank to withdraw cash. After the meal, you never mentioned of the expense of the bill (I paid $50). Then you just replied to me the next day and said I was a good man (good at paying you a meal) and disappear. How can you do this and have you ever done this before? I want to summarize the facts like this: 1-Normally a guy and a lady won't go to restaurant the first time they meet. Even if they go, they should share the bill, especially in the case that it is the lady who suggests they go to a restaurant. In our case, I just had a meal at home and just want to go out for a coffee talk; And you hadn't had a meal so you wanted to go out to have a meal free, I guess, which is true. 2- When you saw me and decided not to see me again,you wouldn't go to restaurant with me and let me pay the bill. If you did, it means you are not a good lady, but a cheap one who wants to take advantage over men. You don't care but just have a free meal and leave. 3-Even if you decided to see me again before the meal, you should sugggest we share the bill. Considering the financial situation, you had a property in a good location, much better than mine. You can't be that cheap to let me pay and then disappear, right? $50 is not a small amount. 4-Don't think you can do this kind of disgusting things over and over! I will bring the topic to the Chinese forum and let others to judge, and at the same time, reminds other guys who might meet you and buy you free meals. 5-Don't think men always are shy to talk about this and let you take advantage again and again. Tell you a truth: there is no free meal in this world. 6-I don't want others know your identity and actually I don't know your name and ph.no., just a fake email account. I just want fair comments from people and reminds other guys not to be cheated by you. 7-I will wait for your explaination. I will wait until this weekend. If you have no reply, then you can see this topic on Rolia, the so-call QingAi Youyou or KuaiLe DanShen. I will post both English and Chinese version.
a man who involuntarily bought you a meal of $50
还是没有回应，大概她以为我和以前她骗吃过的男子一样，会自认倒霉，羞于张扬，怕被别人笑话。哪知我不会那样，最起码写出来让以后有可能遇到这种情况的男子不会上当。而且她会继续骗下去的。按理她的收入不错，住着高级公寓，不会贱至此。只是她不再解释和她的行为已经让我真是头一次见识这种人。
我又给她写道：
I thought you did such cheap things before and you succeeded, so you think you can do it again and again. You think every man is shy to talk about it? No way. This time I will let you know having a free meal is not a free thing. Keep informed.
没回应，再写道:
I haven't used this email account to post ad for quite a long time. I was surprised to hear from you when I read your first email to me. I don't know where you got my ad. Why was I so unlucky to be your victim? You are just searching on the net to pick a potential victim who will pay you a meal?
还是没回应，最后我昨天（7-11）又写道:
You think this time you can still pass it over, as you did before, having some guys paying for you without any trouble? You are totally wrong. I will give you a lessson. I am not afraid someone discovers that I have involuntarily bought you a meal. I have to warn your other potential victims not to be taken advantage by a really CHEAP women like you. Wait a week or two, you cheap behavior will be criticized on rolia. I won't tell then your detailed information but just let others comment on who is wrong, who is cheap. And also let other men be cautious about sort of cheap women like you. I will write in Chinese there for sure. What the hell let me know a cheap woman like you? Damn it!
我也懒得翻译成中文。大致情况就是这样，她也可能出来解释，也可能继续保持沉默。我也不会泄露她的个人资料。只是让大家遇到这类人是要小心。
对于第一次见面就提出去餐馆的女人又不提出付账的，估计基本都是骗吃类的。
刚把这个贴字网址给她发去，让她自己出来辩解，若她愿意。
http://www.rolia.net/forum/forum_showPost.php?pno=3075539
国庆节假期我"请“这样一位女士吃了一顿饭 (转贴)
FROM WWW.ROLIA.NET
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by unisonic (wondering) at 2006.7.12 22:22
这是发生在国庆节期间的事，说我请是因为我去她家车接车送，加引号是因为这个请并不是我情愿的，但男人怎么也得有点风度吧，总不能饭罢溜走赖账吧，不过是50刀而已。。
七一加拿大国庆节前几个星期吧，我收到她的第一个email，询问我是否还在找女友，我回信说是但私下感到很奇怪，因为我用这个信箱征友是去年的事了。她又来信说希望我寄去照片，我回信说我不想寄照片给没见过的人，她若愿意打电话我可以给她号码。她回信后说行。但在我寄去电话号码后约两周也没接到她的电话和信件。我又发信去问，她说我的邮件出现乱码，号码少了一位数字。我纳闷：我们通信都是英文怎么会乱码？难道我少打个数字？我随之道歉并重新附上号码。随后我检查一下我发去的那个邮件发现我没打错，难道电邮件到她的信箱出现了乱码？英文加阿拉伯数字产生乱码的情况还是少见。
这样有过了几天，在七一公假的最后一天下午，我忽然收到她的电话，开始我还没反应过来。然后聊了一会，她着重问我的工作收入，我则没打听她的收入。但知道虽然都买了房子，但她的房子不论位置质量面积都比我的好，估计价格应该为我的一倍，但她没供车。也谈了一些来了多久和对（网上）交朋友的看法等。我所她若有时间可以一起去见面和咖啡聊天，她却说一起去餐馆，我说我刚吃过不久，还是喝咖啡消化一下好。当时约四点钟，可能她还没吃吧。又谈了什么，她说还是见面再谈吧，告诉了她家的住址，我一听就说知道那个有名的CONDO大楼。
见了面，给她拉车门上了车，我说去附近的咖啡店坐坐，她说怕喝咖啡难以入眠，还是说要去餐馆吃饭。我以前也见过一些女士，没有一个第一次见面就说要去餐馆吃饭的。我想也许那些女士没有她那么大气，经常下餐馆。我想怎么也应该是大家AA制，我就陪她好了。是她一意坚持去餐馆的。我可没想请他。
到了她指定的餐馆，她又点了该餐馆的招牌菜，边吃边谈。吃差不多了，还剩一半多，打包算账。总共是45元。我看钱包里只有25元，放在帐单上，但她并没有掏钱包的举动，就问她是否有现金。她翻了一看，说只有10元，但也没拿出来。餐馆只收现金，所以我对他们说去外面提款机取钱，她在那儿打包。我回来后付了50元，就送她回家。她也没提任何她也应该负担帐单的事。这时我已经隐隐感到这是个借谈朋友为名白吃的女人。但也不能完全肯定，也许下次见面她会提出付账吧。
回家后我给她写了邮件，问她是否还愿意和我见面。她第二天回信：
Thanks for knowing you a nice friend.
You are a good friend deserve good one.
Best wishes,
我认为这很模糊，不明白她的真正意思。又给她写道：
Thanks for your reply but pls just tell me if you want
to see me again or not.
她再也没有任何回应。过两天我又写道：
pls just kindly reply to my last mail. Thank you.
她也没回应。这种与完全证实了她的骗吃嘴脸。实际吃饭前我已经跟她说过，我以前见女友，第一次从来不吃饭，都是到咖啡厅坐坐，她只是一笑。
试想：若是见面后觉得不想再和对方下次见面，一般女子/男子都不会再和对方去餐馆了。即使去也不会让对方付账的。好嘛，头一次遇到这类女子，让我长见识了。若说喝杯咖啡不算什么，那么50元一顿饭对大部分人即使是专业工也不是可忽略的小数目吧。
过两天我又给她写了：
You haven't replied so I guess what I think is right. You are kind of lady who just wants to take advantage over a guy like me and have a meal free by meeting me. I will let you know it is not such a easy thing to pass it over. Exactly 7 days ago,during the phone talk before we meet, you suggested we would go to restaurant and I said I had just has meals and I was full. After we met at your building, I suggested we went to have a coffee and you said you never drink coffee and proposed again going to restaurant. OK, then I drove you there. But after the meal, I thought at least we would share the bill, but you said you just had $10 in purse. So my $25 was not enough,even plus your $10 (you still didn't take it out). I had to go to the nearby bank to withdraw cash. After the meal, you never mentioned of the expense of the bill (I paid $50). Then you just replied to me the next day and said I was a good man (good at paying you a meal) and disappear. How can you do this and have you ever done this before? I want to summarize the facts like this: 1-Normally a guy and a lady won't go to restaurant the first time they meet. Even if they go, they should share the bill, especially in the case that it is the lady who suggests they go to a restaurant. In our case, I just had a meal at home and just want to go out for a coffee talk; And you hadn't had a meal so you wanted to go out to have a meal free, I guess, which is true. 2- When you saw me and decided not to see me again,you wouldn't go to restaurant with me and let me pay the bill. If you did, it means you are not a good lady, but a cheap one who wants to take advantage over men. You don't care but just have a free meal and leave. 3-Even if you decided to see me again before the meal, you should sugggest we share the bill. Considering the financial situation, you had a property in a good location, much better than mine. You can't be that cheap to let me pay and then disappear, right? $50 is not a small amount. 4-Don't think you can do this kind of disgusting things over and over! I will bring the topic to the Chinese forum and let others to judge, and at the same time, reminds other guys who might meet you and buy you free meals. 5-Don't think men always are shy to talk about this and let you take advantage again and again. Tell you a truth: there is no free meal in this world. 6-I don't want others know your identity and actually I don't know your name and ph.no., just a fake email account. I just want fair comments from people and reminds other guys not to be cheated by you. 7-I will wait for your explaination. I will wait until this weekend. If you have no reply, then you can see this topic on Rolia, the so-call QingAi Youyou or KuaiLe DanShen. I will post both English and Chinese version.
a man who involuntarily bought you a meal of $50
还是没有回应，大概她以为我和以前她骗吃过的男子一样，会自认倒霉，羞于张扬，怕被别人笑话。哪知我不会那样，最起码写出来让以后有可能遇到这种情况的男子不会上当。而且她会继续骗下去的。按理她的收入不错，住着高级公寓，不会贱至此。只是她不再解释和她的行为已经让我真是头一次见识这种人。
我又给她写道：
I thought you did such cheap things before and you succeeded, so you think you can do it again and again. You think every man is shy to talk about it? No way. This time I will let you know having a free meal is not a free thing. Keep informed.
没回应，再写道:
I haven't used this email account to post ad for quite a long time. I was surprised to hear from you when I read your first email to me. I don't know where you got my ad. Why was I so unlucky to be your victim? You are just searching on the net to pick a potential victim who will pay you a meal?
还是没回应，最后我昨天（7-11）又写道:
You think this time you can still pass it over, as you did before, having some guys paying for you without any trouble? You are totally wrong. I will give you a lessson. I am not afraid someone discovers that I have involuntarily bought you a meal. I have to warn your other potential victims not to be taken advantage by a really CHEAP women like you. Wait a week or two, you cheap behavior will be criticized on rolia. I won't tell then your detailed information but just let others comment on who is wrong, who is cheap. And also let other men be cautious about sort of cheap women like you. I will write in Chinese there for sure. What the hell let me know a cheap woman like you? Damn it!
我也懒得翻译成中文。大致情况就是这样，她也可能出来解释，也可能继续保持沉默。我也不会泄露她的个人资料。只是让大家遇到这类人是要小心。
对于第一次见面就提出去餐馆的女人又不提出付账的，估计基本都是骗吃类的。
刚把这个贴字网址给她发去，让她自己出来辩解，若她愿意。
