C cgi 知名会员 VIP 注册 2004-01-10 消息 2,618 荣誉分数 477 声望点数 193 2008-10-19 #1 link: http://bbs.comefromchina.com/forum47/thread630255.html 顺便帮忙解决点技术问题
K Kay007 资深人士 注册 2007-09-19 消息 1,769 荣誉分数 349 声望点数 243 2008-10-19 #3 Thank you for sharing! Good ideal, when your son is a teenage, you wouldn't have much trouble. You don't worry he hang out with bad kids......
Thank you for sharing! Good ideal, when your son is a teenage, you wouldn't have much trouble. You don't worry he hang out with bad kids......
C cgi 知名会员 VIP 注册 2004-01-10 消息 2,618 荣誉分数 477 声望点数 193 2008-10-19 #4 Kay007 说: Thank you for sharing! Good ideal, when your son is a teenage, you wouldn't have much trouble. You don't worry he hang out with bad kids...... 点击展开... 完全同意你的观点。 曾经和当地一些鬼佬讨论过这个问题，他们说，他们让孩子学体育的一个目的，就是让孩子在成为teenager之前，有个体育爱好，这样就可以kill多余 的时间和精力，并可以作为在同伴中show off的资本，建立威信。他们的体会是，每个孩子都有show off的欲望，没有体育爱好的teenager，为了show off，往往搞一些偏门，例如，衣服，头发，抽烟，纹身，甚至打架斗殴等等。有意思的是，学校里那些坏孩子，往往没有体育爱好。另外，没有体育爱好的老实孩子，也容易成为被欺负和嘲弄的对象。 忘了在帖子里说了，等一下补充进去，谢谢。
Kay007 说: Thank you for sharing! Good ideal, when your son is a teenage, you wouldn't have much trouble. You don't worry he hang out with bad kids...... 点击展开... 完全同意你的观点。 曾经和当地一些鬼佬讨论过这个问题，他们说，他们让孩子学体育的一个目的，就是让孩子在成为teenager之前，有个体育爱好，这样就可以kill多余 的时间和精力，并可以作为在同伴中show off的资本，建立威信。他们的体会是，每个孩子都有show off的欲望，没有体育爱好的teenager，为了show off，往往搞一些偏门，例如，衣服，头发，抽烟，纹身，甚至打架斗殴等等。有意思的是，学校里那些坏孩子，往往没有体育爱好。另外，没有体育爱好的老实孩子，也容易成为被欺负和嘲弄的对象。 忘了在帖子里说了，等一下补充进去，谢谢。
K Kay007 资深人士 注册 2007-09-19 消息 1,769 荣誉分数 349 声望点数 243 2008-10-20 #5 Now , the kids don't have motivation to be best on their works, they have too much peer pressure, they are easily fellow others. When you let him put more effort on his sports, in other word, you protect him.
Now , the kids don't have motivation to be best on their works, they have too much peer pressure, they are easily fellow others. When you let him put more effort on his sports, in other word, you protect him.
