好残酷的现实。。。。。。。。。。大家有这么觉得吗？？？

[allenxyw]

喜欢的人却难以接受自己。。。。。。。。。好不容易以为找到爱情了。。。。可是，还是自己想错了。
现实真的很残酷。。。。。。。。。。。

 

[1784]

suck it up ...

 

[jasie]

想开点，allen同学，给你加声望了.

 

[风天雪]

自作多情是常有的事情~你多试几次以后就知道了~

 

[飞鸟_凝]

把这段送给你。 建议仔细读一下， 你会发现里面一些很有用的Hint.

[FONT=&quot]IF A MAN WANTS YOU[/FONT]

[FONT=&quot]If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.[/FONT]
[FONT=&quot]If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.[/FONT]
[FONT=&quot] Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. [/FONT]
[FONT=&quot] Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.[/FONT]
[FONT=&quot]Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be. [/FONT]

[FONT=&quot] Slower is better. [/FONT]

[FONT=&quot] Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy. [/FONT]
[FONT=&quot] If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve [/FONT]
[FONT=&quot] then heck no, you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. [/FONT]
[FONT=&quot] Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. [/FONT]
[FONT=&quot] Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself [/FONT]
[FONT=&quot] a year later for staying when things are not better. [/FONT]
[FONT=&quot] The only person you can control in a relationship is you. [/FONT]
...

[FONT=&quot] Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr.. Right. [/FONT]
[FONT=&quot] Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and your [/FONT]
[FONT=&quot] always readily available to him- he takes it for granted. [/FONT]
[FONT=&quot] Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need. [/FONT]
[FONT=&quot] Keep him in your radar but get to know others.[/FONT]

[FONT=&quot]They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate [/FONT]
[FONT=&quot] them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them. [/FONT]
[FONT=&quot]BY THE WAY, THIS WAS WRITTEN BY A MAN, SO TAKE A HINT.............. [/FONT]

​

​

 

[nightingale]

把这段送给你。 建议仔细读一下， 你会发现里面一些很有用的Hint.

[FONT=&quot]IF A MAN WANTS YOU[/FONT]

[FONT=&quot]If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.[/FONT]
[FONT=&quot]If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.[/FONT]
[FONT=&quot] Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. [/FONT]
[FONT=&quot] Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.[/FONT]
[FONT=&quot]Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be. [/FONT]

[FONT=&quot] Slower is better. [/FONT]

[FONT=&quot] Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy. [/FONT]
[FONT=&quot] If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve [/FONT]
[FONT=&quot] then heck no, you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. [/FONT]
[FONT=&quot] Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. [/FONT]
[FONT=&quot] Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself [/FONT]
[FONT=&quot] a year later for staying when things are not better. [/FONT]
[FONT=&quot] The only person you can control in a relationship is you. [/FONT]
...

[FONT=&quot] Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr.. Right. [/FONT]
[FONT=&quot] Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and your [/FONT]
[FONT=&quot] always readily available to him- he takes it for granted. [/FONT]
[FONT=&quot] Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need. [/FONT]
[FONT=&quot] Keep him in your radar but get to know others.[/FONT]

[FONT=&quot]They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate [/FONT]
[FONT=&quot] them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them. [/FONT]
[FONT=&quot]BY THE WAY, THIS WAS WRITTEN BY A MAN, SO TAKE A HINT.............. [/FONT]

​

​

 

[allenxyw]

哎，谢谢各位的关心。

 

[老jia]

让我们共同探讨吧.

 

[退一步海阔天空]

喜欢的人却难以接受自己。。。。。。。。。好不容易以为找到爱情了。。。。可是，还是自己想错了。
现实真的很残酷。。。。。。。。。。。

很残酷。。。。。。。。。。。

最近新来的一个顶替他的职位的人，令我觉得我have been maltreated, 大概是自作多情了....

This new guy...he is always smiling at me, even dance a little in front of me(just to make me happy?) He even apologized to me after I yell at him for no good reason.

In comparison, I realized he didn't treat me well at all. There were a few times he treated me so cruelly, kind of like treating a crap. then later, he treated me pretty nice and then I started making excuses for him and forgave him.

and then, there is this Korean guy who said he will quit if I quit, if I don't find another job, he will stay here forever.... and he said will tell me the reason he is staying here despite the fact he doesn't need this job after we quit. (what else the reason could be?)

These 2 guys are so nice to me.....but sadly I don't have that kind of feeling for them.

and this guy who gives me headaches and heartaches....I used to think maybe he likes me and I like him......now, I don't think he likes me and I don't think I will like a guy who does not treat me the ways I should be treated. and now, he is been promoted to a slightly better position, but he still drop by every day, and seeing him is torturous to me.

God, I need to find another job asap...

命运真是很悲哀。。。折腾的。。。最后还是什么也没有。

 

[某某]

那就换工作吧，不要再给他机会来见你了。
他不值得你这么伤心的，真的。

 

[jasie]

命运真是很悲哀。。。折腾的。。。最后还是什么也没有。

LS别泄气，面包会有的~爱情会有的~
just keep smiling, life shall smile back at you.

 

[hellome]

You'll see this kind of colleague anywhere you go, he's just being a colleague...... some are just a flirt or bs...... Until there is a real bf gf relationship going on, nothing is about love.......... get over it.....

 

[allenxyw]

这就是为什么会有画皮啊。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。