有了小宝宝, 还可能有个人时间吗?

[mustard]

本来以为一年休假, 可以提高英语和专业水平, 最好再拿几个专业证书. 可从宝宝出生到现在快2个月了, 一直都忙得团团转, 围着他转. LG已经很帮忙了,他自己还要上班.我们也没有老人帮忙. 我觉得天天比工作都累, 没心思也没精力学习了.

JM们是怎么安排时间的?

 

[Quincyyuyu]

没有私人时间。24/7 全天候。。。

 

[永歌]

您的感觉还是很准确的嘛。在家带小孩比上班要辛苦，不必想别的，宝宝睡觉你也抓紧时间睡觉。提高英语和专业水平只能是等宝宝去了DAYCARE之后才有可能，或者有人帮忙照看小孩也行。现在还不如尽情享受带宝宝的日子，等TA长大了，这种感觉就不会再有。
同时还要注重自己身体的恢复，保养好身子，终身受益。

 

[wiki]

大些能好点，趁孩子睡觉可以干些自己的事。

 

[GYGY]

嘿嘿，我休产假那会，就盼着一年快点过，好回去上班。上班多舒服，干干活，上上网，悠闲地吃午餐喝茶。
带孩子就别想什么学习提高了，能正常吃睡就不错了。我修产假时特别憔悴，上班后气色好多了。哎，没人帮自己带孩子真的很辛苦哦，我还带２个呢。:blink:

 

[jojo113226]

唉 你是上班不辛苦的。 我上班累着呢 就想着老公再多加薪几次 我可以不上班去了。

每天due day赶着 累死人了。

 

[番茄炒西红柿]

这个问题我也开始考虑了，不知道以后该怎么带孩子，一年后会去上班，那一岁的孩子能送day care 么？我看了价钱，好像很贵的样子。

 

[永歌]

该上班的还是要上班，该送DAY CARE的还是要送DAY CARE。到了那一步自然就有路，没有路你也会开辟一条适合你的路，开不了路你躺也能躺出一条路来。

 

[pesticide]

要是你一个人带小宝宝那估计是一点自己的时间也没有。宝宝一会儿要吃一会儿要拉的，事儿多着呢。我在学CGA，有婆婆帮着做饭有时还帮我哄宝宝睡觉，都觉得没时间看书做作业，等婆婆走了估计更没戏了。当妈妈的就是这样。先把宝宝带好，等宝宝大一点上day care应该就好些。

 

[JJWW]

完全没有个人时间，除了要照顾宝宝的吃喝拉撒，还要负责陪玩，累哦。整天围着小东西转，都快崩溃了。

 

[puppy888]

My baby just reached her 1 yr birthday. I am so excited.

Review the last year, I shared some of my experience with you.

It is very busy and tired within the first 3 months. I am lucky enough to have my parents-in-law with us. So I don't need cook and my mother-in-law also give me a lot of hand on taking care of her. I really appreciated them!!! BTW, I am still very tired and my wrist hurt since long time to hold my baby. She took very long time for feeding. I felt that a good and enough rest and recovering during the first 3 months is very important. I am enough lucky that my baby can have a whole night sleep since 12:00am to 6:00am

Then, my parents-in-law returned back their home town at the 2.5 months, my husband's work is too busy to return home after 8:00pm. So I have to do shopping, cooking, taking care of baby by myself. Extremly exhausted and depressed at that period. One of lucky things is my parents-in-law made a lot of frozen food for us. So I saved a lot of time and energy. Another of lucky things is my baby suddenly don't spit milk again and she can get the gas out by herself. So I saved a lot of time for burping her after feeding her. The 3rd lucky thing is my baby can sleep longer at night from 8:00pm to 6:00am. So I can have a little my own time after 10pm.

Around 3.5 months, my parents joined us and give me very strong support for cooking and taking care of baby. I feel much more relaxed and I can have my own time since 8:00pm. Now my baby can sleep from 8:00pm to 8:00am everyday. She is very healthy and enjoyful everyday. Every morning, I saw her happy face, I feel my heart full of sun shine.

At last, I had to get over my maternity leave early around 6 months since my new job,

My most deepest feeling is that you'd better enjoy your everyday with your new baby within her/his first year. It is very cherish period in your life. You will never regret to waste your own time. I am 100% sure of it!!!

Take care and enjoy there...

 

[wiki]

我休产假的一年非常愉快，尽管有时候比较累，但还是能承担下来的。我们没有老人帮忙，就是两个人。白天我管孩子，晚上LD下了班能换把手。
我生完孩子的那年每周末跟LD轮流去滑雪，一人一天，两不耽误。
认识了一大群妈妈和宝宝，真希望产假能延长到两年。

 

[mustard]

多谢大家分享, 给大家加声望, 虽然我自己的声望和声望力都不高, 呵呵.

puppy888的详细说明很有启发. 我想没有老人帮忙, 专业学习大概比较困难, 因为很难预先计划出时间. 但英语提高还是可行的, 把上网的零碎时间用到英语上,一年下来应该也有进步. 还有参加活动就多去洋人的地方,应该也有帮助.

wiki你真是太强了!可惜你住Kanata, 离我太远了, 不能登门请教.. BTW, LD是什么DD? LG吗?为什么是LD呢?出去一天,孩子吃奶怎么办? 你大概不是纯母乳喂养吧.

 

[wiki]

LD=领导=LG
我是纯母乳。早晨出门前先喂饱一顿，然后就让女儿吃泵出来的奶。下午三四点就回家了，饿不着小的。

 

[QBoy&Girl^_^]

你们都很lucky哦，LG忙，我要自己带孩子，做饭，做家务。