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[LongTimeDiver]

感谢所有提供信息和帮助的朋友们，鄙视说风凉话看热闹的闲人。

 

[Ayin_Ottawa]

Calm down, think over hard and pray for the best result for your family.

Google好快，可惜就是找不到那个话题。可能给删了？

 

[ccc]

I think he has severe depression, so I wanted to help him, I kindly and carefully suggested him to see psychologist. But he denied. He thought he was normal, I was the one who's having mental problems. His words and behaviour made me feel unsafe, but I don't want to call 911. I don't want to end his future. But I do need to find a solution... Save him, save me, save my family...

这样是否看得清楚。。。。

I think he has severe depression, so I wanted to help him, I kindly and carefully suggested him to see psychologist. But he denied. He thought he was normal, I was the one who's having mental problems. His words and behaviour made me feel unsafe, but I don't want to call 911. I don't want to end his future. But I do need to find a solution... Save him, save me, save my family...

 

[Ayin_Ottawa]

我也记得是这样的。当时就觉得需要记下来，以备不时之需，想着贴子在，什么时候进来查一下就行。没想到现在要用，却search 不到。

可见Rivan要来一个渥太华妇幼儿童紧急情况处理手册了。

 

[Ayin_Ottawa]

有一个了：

http://bbs.comefromchina.com/forum8/thread594399.html

查询请致电：(613)235-4875 www.occsc.org
渥太华华人社区服务中心是渥太华唯一一家由三级政府资助的，专门为华人提供社会服务的非赢利机构。
新移民安顿服务，英语班，青年英语班，求职研习班，专业英语培训，托儿服务，华人家庭咨询服务.（抱歉，我们不查收悄悄话。）

http://bbs.comefromchina.com/members/43725.html

 

[LongTimeDiver]

估计这些机构周末都不工作的，只好熬到week days。不能跟他对话，不过很怕他沉默之后的再一次爆发。

 

[king_king]

不久前曾看到一个贴子，有个人说要离婚，怕丈夫伤害她和孩子。有回贴列出可以求助的links.本人现也需要此信息，可找不到此贴了！
恳请哪位高人帮忙找一下，或者重新把那些信息列一下！
不想打９１１，给他留条生路...

联系你当地的 Community Resource Centre
http://www.ottawa.ca/residents/efa/community_resources_en.html#P60_1884
http://www.eorc-gloucester.ca/eng/programs/3.php
http://www.communityresourcecentre.ca/programs_violence-e.html

 

[气不过]

google 了一个号码，
Domestic Abuse Helpline for Men and Women provides
a 24-hout phone line (1-888-7HELPLINE) and other services (http://
www.dahmw.org/pub)
打过去，对方给了一个OTTAWA地区的7/24号码，但不WORK。
继续找

 

[lookingfor]

http://www.immigrantwomenservices.com/about.htm
They provide interpretation or you can ask.


The National Association of Women & the Law
303 – 1066 Somerset St. West
Ottawa, ON K1Y 4T3
Tel: 613-241-7570
Website: www.nawl.ca

Legal Clinics
Community Legal Services (Ottawa)
1 Nicholas St., Suite 422
Ottawa, ON K1N 7B7
Tel: 613-241-7008
2. South Ottawa Community Legal Services
1355 Banks St., Suite 406
Ottawa, ON K1H 8K7
Tel: 613-733-0140
3. West End Legal Services of Ottawa
1301 Richmond Rd.
Ottawa, ON K2B 7Y4
Tel: 613-596-1641

Also you can do some internet search about woman protection/aid in ottawa, and find more by yourself. You can always ask for language help.

 

[ert0000]

我一直想对他说：为什么在遇到困难的时候，不能互相鼓励互相扶持，共度难关，而要选择放弃，选择逃避？我希望他能看到，能醒悟。有问题要积极去面对，有病可以求医。不要拿家人发泄。不要伤害你最亲的人。总有一天你清醒了，已来不及后悔。

家庭冲突一般是以下原因造成,
-工作,学业,事业
-经济因素, 钱, 投资成败.
-感情.
-双方家庭父母对你们的要求,双方的平衡.

不同的原因,对策也是不一样的, 绝对不能首先想到911. 如果有孩子, 也不能首先想到CAS, 这种机构只会激化矛盾.

要对症下药.

 

[气不过]

仅供参考：
Yellow Page 的首页有求助号码。这是为妇女提供紧急SHELTER的不知道有没有用：
Abused Woman's 24/7 Helpline 613-745-4818
打过去，对方说SHELTER已经没空位了。 如果要另一个电话号码需当事人亲自CALL。
另外还有一个KANATA号码：对方留言说紧急情况CALL 613-591-5901。

GOOD LUCK！

 

[气不过]

家庭冲突一般是以下原因造成,
-工作,学业,事业
-经济因素, 钱, 投资成败.
-感情.
-双方家庭父母对你们的要求,双方的平衡.

不同的原因,对策也是不一样的, 绝对不能首先想到911. 如果有孩子, 也不能首先想到CAS, 这种机构只会激化矛盾.

要对症下药.

LZ是说男方有severe depression.
Depression can kill!
既要防病人暴力侵害家人，更要防他本人采取自杀等偏激行动，切不可放弃911。

 

[liujiejie]

Thanks! I will have this number handy. I don't need to go to the Shelter at this moment. He did yell "Go away" several times, but I have my rights to stay. This is my home.

真替你担心！有孩子吗？要注意防护自己。别“招惹”他。
现在是阴雨连绵，有抑郁症的最容易有自杀念头。

 

[liujiejie]

-工作,学业,事业 - this is it. But his behavior already harmed our relationship.

生活就是这样。不要急于求成。把目标降低，就没有那么大的压力了。

 

[wiiwii]

我一直想对他说：为什么在遇到困难的时候，不能互相鼓励互相扶持，共度难关，而要选择放弃，选择逃避？我希望他能看到，能醒悟。有问题要积极去面对，有病可以求医。不要拿家人发泄。不要伤害你最亲的人。总有一天你清醒了，已来不及后悔。

劝你删贴吧,如果他真有精神上的问题,又象你说的爱在CFC上看帖,看完你和其他人的话,不出事情才怪了,如果他真有问题,躲一躲吧,那是病,你和病人讲啥道理?你是清醒的人吧?