请教有经验的妈妈，宝宝扔玩具和拆玩具都正常吗？

[YY...]

家有混小子，差不多两岁了，玩具有一大堆可是都不见他好好玩，最热衷的就是把玩具往地上扔而且乐此不疲，另外还喜欢把玩具拆开，好好的玩具都成了零件了，这些都正常吗？应该怎么帮助他改进呢？

 

[Sean Mama]

这正常得很，不用改。

 

[0000088]

When my boy was little, I could not remember from what age, he
喜欢把玩具拆开，好好的玩具都成了零件了. Sometimes I felt I had a little time cooking or did something else, it was right time he destroyed the toys or even home items, such as, telephone or caller ID. I never know
some items were destroyed until I found some parts from my phone, I knew it is his hobby/activities. Now he growths up as an adult, he is very good at mechanic and electricity.

I told my colleagues that my boy learn anything from destroyed the world.

 

[0000088]

Here I would like add more comments.

My neighbor's boy was one and half years old, he came to my house and even made my screw off behind the door. we could not blame them. we have to have room to let them learning/developing their skill, although we felt it was mess and unusual. Some girl never did that, could you image she will be good at mechanic in the future.

Just watch them do not have this kind of activities outside or affect others.

 

[基础墙]

家有混小子，差不多两岁了，玩具有一大堆可是都不见他好好玩，最热衷的就是把玩具往地上扔而且乐此不疲，另外还喜欢把玩具拆开，好好的玩具都成了零件了，这些都正常吗？应该怎么帮助他改进呢？

改什么呀，挺好。干脆给他点东西让他拆。要是他不知道怎么拆了，大人还不妨指点一下。

据长辈们说，我从不会说话的时候就会拆东西，逮着什么都拆，为这不知挨了多少骂。到了四五岁的时候，我舅舅干脆给我买了一套能拆装的铁积木，还带一堆螺丝和一把扳子一把改锥。据说那堆玩意儿让我安静了好一阵。

等后来长大了点，因为能动手，考研和分配工作都占了便宜。

另外，动手对培养小孩子的独立性和自信心也有些好处。

孩子喜欢动手的坏处，就是容易出些“安全事故”。我小时候，单是触电就有过好几次。能活到如今，当属幸运。所以，对这类孩子，除了及早教给他一些安全常识之外，还得看紧一点。

 

[YY...]

谢谢妈妈们的鼓励~