这年头诚信真的绝迹了！

[derekderek]

我上个礼拜卖车，遇到国内刚来的访问学者。几次邮件来往感觉人还很行，大家就见了面，达成了买卖的协议。本想按规矩留点定金，对方却一直托说没有必要。本想想都是自己中国人，也就没有多说什么了，总不会是自己人骗自己人。我还傻乎乎的把行车证给了他们，把网上的广告给撤了，还安排时间去帮着办事。。。一片好心和信任却换来欺骗和背叛。今天一个邮件找了种种理由，说不想买了。。。:flaming:

我想请大家讨论讨论，是不是国内来的年纪大一些的人都是这样子的啊？别人老说留学生种种的不是，可我觉的年轻的学生们反而更可信，更实在。 大家以后跟这样的人打交道要多留个心啊。害人之心不可有，防人之心不可无。。。真的是很可悲啊

 

[雍小锋]

公事公办

 

[hcloud]

顶楼上

没给钱 每合约 都是空谈。

 

[j2me_ottawa]

这事情碰到太多了。这年头诚信都要建立在money的基础上。没money同胞都不能给面子

 

[derekderek]

这事情碰到太多了。这年头诚信都要建立在money的基础上。没money同胞都不能给面子

楼上说的是啊，自己现在觉得是太天真了，请大家以后一定要小心啊！

 

[derekderek]

顶楼上

没给钱 每合约 都是空谈。

谢谢楼上的了，跟有些所谓的学者没有办法谈诚信

 

[kukululu]

都是中国人，为什么有些中国人就是喜欢骗中国人呢
学者和砖家看来是差不多的

 

[Teddy]

Understand your disappoint and frustration. But, take it easy, even we change purchase decisions all the time - that is why there is always return and exchange department in stores.

The key point is what is the cost as we think making change decisions. For large sales like cars or houses, there is always a deposit or legal liability to force us to give up the change decision. But, this does not mean nobody ever ate the bitter bullets. That is just alright for both situations.

The idea is that as you reach an agreement you always think about the possibility of deal changes, then work out an agreement condition: deposit for large sales, reservation period for popular items, or even first-come-first-serve...

Think about the case from another different angel: since the buyer already made up mind to quit, which possibly means he/she did not want the car anymore for any reasons, would it be comfortable for us to force him/her to keep it?

Happy Easter!

我上个礼拜卖车，遇到国内刚来的访问学者。几次邮件来往感觉人还很行，大家就见了面，达成了买卖的协议。本想按规矩留点定金，对方却一直托说没有必要。本想想都是自己中国人，也就没有多说什么了，总不会是自己人骗自己人。我还傻乎乎的把行车证给了他们，把网上的广告给撤了，还安排时间去帮着办事。。。一片好心和信任却换来欺骗和背叛。今天一个邮件找了种种理由，说不想买了。。。:flaming:

我想请大家讨论讨论，是不是国内来的年纪大一些的人都是这样子的啊？别人老说留学生种种的不是，可我觉的年轻的学生们反而更可信，更实在。 大家以后跟这样的人打交道要多留个心啊。害人之心不可有，防人之心不可无。。。真的是很可悲啊

 

[derekderek]

I agree with whatever you said before. You can buy and exchange the items from the store, but they will require your name and phone number for the record. As this is not the rights for people to abuse, on top of that lying is never right no matter what. Everyone knows if you going to a store and see the products have final sale tag on it that means those items are not refundable. This is the same rule for the used cars or any second hand products. Anyway, I just want my own people to have the integrity they should have and learn to have courtesy.

Understand your disappoint and frustration. But, take it easy, even we change purchase decisions all the time - that is why there is always return and exchange department in stores.

The key point is what is the cost as we think making change decisions. For large sales like cars or houses, there is always a deposit or legal liability to force us to give up the change decision. But, this does not mean nobody ever ate the bitter bullets. That is just alright for both situations.

The idea is that as you reach an agreement you always think about the possibility of deal changes, then work out an agreement condition: deposit for large sales, reservation period for popular items, or even first-come-first-serve...

Think about the case from another different angel: since the buyer already made up mind to quit, which possibly means he/she did not want the car anymore for any reasons, would it be comfortable for us to force him/her to keep it?

Happy Easter!

 

[Teddy]

The point is that the sale transaction in your case was not completed after all...

Everyone knows if you going to a store and see the products have final sale tag on it that means those items are not refundable. This is the same rule for the used cars or any second hand products.

 

[ccc]

卖二手车也一定要押金，根据车价可收$200-$500。如果对方反悔，这钱是不退的。

 

[dole]

没收定金是你的问题啊

 

[mangliu]

我想请大家讨论讨论，是不是国内来的年纪大一些的人都是这样子的啊？别人老说留学生种种的不是，可我觉的年轻的学生们反而更可信，更实在。 大家以后跟这样的人打交道要多留个心啊。害人之心不可有，防人之心不可无。。。真的是很可悲啊

别告诉我，你父亲和你一个岁数。

在没有合约和定金的情况下，双方都可以反悔。

在没有合约的情况下，如果有人出比那个买主多1000刀的价，你也会反悔不卖了。

在没有合约的情况下，在成交之前，没找到出更高价的买主，是你无能，或者卖的价太高了。

你卖的价太高了，欺负买主刚来加拿大，没有经验，所以活该你被涮。

按照你的逻辑，都是中国人，你就不能多便宜点？你为什么专门坑中国人？

我曾经碰到一个SB, 卖冬季轮胎，用了一年，一定要700，我看到他当初的发票，原价是750。

 

[第N个马甲]

别国的也有

叫我把laptop留给他/她，就消失了

 

[灿烂的人生]

现在就是有很多没有诚信,骗子太多