精华 儿子进了加拿大最难进的大学专业，Waterloo SE(Software Engineering)

[pido]

只要在"自然", 和“cell”有一篇，基本可以在美国或加拿大的大学里找个教授职位了。如果只是算钱的话，这个投资不算太成功，但学术上大有建树更值得受人尊敬。

他已经进入这个领域的最核心，方向，经费，平台，人脉，师门，心智都是最好的。以这性情，不太可能止步于此。如果在未来五年到十年，继续有高水平论文发表，不用太多，基本上可以更上一层楼。如果可以再带出一些好学生，十年以后的自己的势力就可以很大了，成为年轻人的平台。

 

[大不丁]

It’s ok to want your children to be successful , but don’t let success be a substitute for their value. I know so many people who has skills. Strength. Qualifications but struggle to build meaningful relationships , bonds. Or get through tough times. Comparing your kid achievement does not improve your relationship with them, it’s important for them to be academic, but it’s more important for them have empathy and compassion


It’s important for them to have I intellectual ability but today it’s even more valuable for them to have emotional intelligence

Your parenting is not validated by their test scores.


Even if people think your kids are highly accomplished , it makes no difference to your life, it may give you a minimal ego boost. Or make you confident for a moment
But truly what is going to matter is the relationship you have with them.

If money. Fame and power did not exist. Would you be happy with who your children are? Would you be grateful for how they turn out. Because of what we are doing now is covering our insecurities with their success. We are covering up our personal challenges with what they’ve achieved. ultimately you know deep down inside your heart That the only thing that truly matters is how much you love them and how much they love you

 

[头发短见识长]

爱玛，好几天没进来，介个；楼堆这么高了，俺们老中家长比俺们老中孩子累多了

 

[laurie]

It’s ok to want your children to be successful , but don’t let success be a substitute for their value. I know so many people who has skills. Strength. Qualifications but struggle to build meaningful relationships , bonds. Or get through tough times. Comparing your kid achievement does not improve your relationship with them, it’s important for them to be academic, but it’s more important for them have empathy and compassion


It’s important for them to have I intellectual ability but today it’s even more valuable for them to have emotional intelligence

Your parenting is not validated by their test scores.


Even if people think your kids are highly accomplished , it makes no difference to your life, it may give you a minimal ego boost. Or make you confident for a moment
But truly what is going to matter is the relationship you have with them.

If money. Fame and power did not exist. Would you be happy with who your children are? Would you be grateful for how they turn out. Because of what we are doing now is covering our insecurities with their success. We are covering up our personal challenges with what they’ve achieved. ultimately you know deep down inside your heart That the only thing that truly matters is how much you love them and how much they love you

说的不错。
孩子教育的帖子，这个楼算是内容丰富多彩的，其他那些楼基本看得不是很顺畅，只觉得透出一种焦虑。

 

[House wife]

It’s ok to want your children to be successful , but don’t let success be a substitute for their value. I know so many people who has skills. Strength. Qualifications but struggle to build meaningful relationships , bonds. Or get through tough times. Comparing your kid achievement does not improve your relationship with them, it’s important for them to be academic, but it’s more important for them have empathy and compassion


It’s important for them to have I intellectual ability but today it’s even more valuable for them to have emotional intelligence

Your parenting is not validated by their test scores.


Even if people think your kids are highly accomplished , it makes no difference to your life, it may give you a minimal ego boost. Or make you confident for a moment
But truly what is going to matter is the relationship you have with them.

If money. Fame and power did not exist. Would you be happy with who your children are? Would you be grateful for how they turn out. Because of what we are doing now is covering our insecurities with their success. We are covering up our personal challenges with what they’ve achieved. ultimately you know deep down inside your heart That the only thing that truly matters is how much you love them and how much they love you

You are quite right. Life is about experiences; struggles and overcomings; feeling of love and being loved; respect and being respected. As for most parents, we got all these feelings and experiences which no other roles can give us. Children do make a difference in their parents lives from their first breath and first steps. So sometimes, a little bit proud won’t hurt

 

[caap2012]

You are quite right. Life is about experiences; struggles and overcomings; feeling of love and being loved; respect and being respected. As for most parents, we got all these feelings and experiences which no other roles can give us. Children do make a difference in their parents lives from their first breath and first steps. So sometimes, a little bit proud won’t hurt

大赞！

 

[gudaox]

很抱歉来晚了，有几位贴友让我分享教育孩子的经验和教训，但我一直心有忐忑，唯恐产生岐义和误导。原因一：因为说实在话，从某种意义上来说，我旳确不能算是“负责任”的家长，我的专业与理工及医学相隔甚远，打从儿子高中毕业后基本在专业方面就无法给他多少帮助了。二则有时我甚至暗自庆幸自己不是那么“负责任”的家长，因为看到如今的儿子从事着他真正喜爱的他自己称之为career 而不仅仅是job 的开心及享受，我也由衷的感到高兴和骄傲。在此我转发儿子2016年发表在《自然》上的一篇自述体文章，希望比我的转述更为清晰，如果能给有兴趣的朋友提供一些参考，那我会感到非常荣幸和欣慰。

赞!
这么优秀的孩子都不是家长“推”出来的。
但有一个好的家庭环境和成长·氛围是·必须的。

 

[woow]

哎， 都辣墨优秀

 

[文君兰]

赞!
这么优秀的孩子都不是家长“推”出来的。
但有一个好的家庭环境和成长·氛围是·必须的。

 

[House wife]

很抱歉来晚了，有几位贴友让我分享教育孩子的经验和教训，但我一直心有忐忑，唯恐产生岐义和误导。原因一：因为说实在话，从某种意义上来说，我旳确不能算是“负责任”的家长，我的专业与理工及医学相隔甚远，打从儿子高中毕业后基本在专业方面就无法给他多少帮助了。二则有时我甚至暗自庆幸自己不是那么“负责任”的家长，因为看到如今的儿子从事着他真正喜爱的他自己称之为career 而不仅仅是job 的开心及享受同时也有美满幸福的家庭生活，我也由衷的感到高兴和骄傲。在此我转发儿子2016年发表在《自然》上的一篇自述体文章，希望比我的转述更为清晰，如果能给有兴趣的朋友提供一些参考，那我会感到非常荣幸和欣慰。
又及：如果说有什么＂实用＂的经验收获：我感觉未来复合性人才越来越＂吃香”。

谢谢分享。他的文章写的很好。你家儿子的经历体现了真正的自信和选择的自在，看到他写到他和家人做好了他一辈子当trainee的准备，其实这也是他以后成功最坚实的基础吧。 祝福他取得更大的成就，能造福更多癌症患者。同时enjoy 他的生活和事业

 

[ert0000]

很抱歉来晚了，有几位贴友让我分享教育孩子的经验和教训，但我一直心有忐忑，唯恐产生岐义和误导。原因一：因为说实在话，从某种意义上来说，我旳确不能算是“负责任”的家长，我的专业与理工及医学相隔甚远，打从儿子高中毕业后基本在专业方面就无法给他多少帮助了。二则有时我甚至暗自庆幸自己不是那么“负责任”的家长，因为看到如今的儿子从事着他真正喜爱的他自己称之为career 而不仅仅是job 的开心及享受同时也有美满幸福的家庭生活，我也由衷的感到高兴和骄傲。在此我转发儿子2016年发表在《自然》上的一篇自述体文章，希望比我的转述更为清晰，如果能给有兴趣的朋友提供一些参考，那我会感到非常荣幸和欣慰。
又及：如果说有什么＂实用＂的经验收获：我感觉未来复合性人才越来越＂吃香”。

这贴如果不加入精华，是版主失职，村民的遗憾啊。

 

[informationseeker]

同意， Zhangx这个貼写的非常好。 但建议zhangx删掉attachments.

 

[caap2012]

同意， Zhangx这个貼写的非常好。 但建议zhangx删掉attachments.

支持

 

[House wife]

同意， Zhangx这个貼写的非常好。 但建议zhangx删掉attachments.

精华也在attachment 中， 又没有personal info,应该不会有问题吧

 

[informationseeker]

精华也在attachment 中， 又没有personal info,应该不会有问题吧

除非他儿子同意。 从那里可以找到所有信息，尽管是公开的，但我们是胡聊群。