精华 Mary的一天

[oread]

不是很同意。我觉得很多情况下我们是有选择的，不过是个主次的问题。

 

[waterwalker]

生活就象是开汽车，开着开着忘了要去哪，只好把开车本身当目的了。

 

[挺傻]

就生活本身，目的不是最重要的，重要的在于经历。
因为这些快乐，欣喜，惆怅，痛苦的历练过程，所以珍爱生活的每一分钟，每一阶段。也因此从某种角度上，不在意是否值得，是否明智，也无所谓后悔对错。
近来常觉自己苍老，虽然不乏青春的色彩与容颜。游走在渥太华的大街小巷，触摸岁月流转的瞬息。一千多个日夜到底留下了什么在心底。
也许是一粒砂，也许是一滴水。
只希望每个人可以做自己想做的，做此时此刻认为正确的，也需要隐忍坚持，也遭受痛苦挫折，在低谷的时候保有平静豁达的心境，间或感觉到生活的亮丽。无论怎样，对于生活，总是需要热情去爱的。
无意故作玄虚，只当痴人说梦。

 

[Jingle]

最初由 渐渐 发布
不是很同意。我觉得很多情况下我们是有选择的，不过是个主次的问题。

Exactly. 关键看你看重的是什么. 有人看重将来,有人看重现在. 菲律宾毕竟不同于中国, Mary and her hubby 考虑更多的是将来.

 

[雪在烧]

将来会怎样,我从来不去想.现在该玩就玩,该乐就乐,该苦就苦.对得起自己的心就行.心不累,人不累.

 

[sourcil]

最初由 渐渐 发布
不是很同意。我觉得很多情况下我们是有选择的，不过是个主次的问题。

"And we always have a choice. If someone sticks a gun in my face and says, "Your money or your life!" I have a choice. I may not like my choice but I have one. In life we often don't like our choices because we don't know what the outcome is going to be and we are terrified of doing it 'wrong.'
Even with life events that occur in a way that we seemingly don't have a choice over (being laid off work, the car breaking down, a flood, etc.) we still have a choice over how we respond to those events. We can choose to see things that feel like, and seem to be, tragic as opportunities for growth. We can choose to focus on the half of the glass that is full and be grateful for it or to focus on the half that is empty and be the victim of it. We have a choice about where we focus our minds."

 

[sourcil]

最初由 挺傻 发布
就生活本身，目的不是最重要的，重要的在于经历。
因为这些快乐，欣喜，惆怅，痛苦的历练过程，所以珍爱生活的每一分钟，每一阶段。也因此从某种角度上，不在意是否值得，是否明智，也无所谓后悔对错。
近来常觉自己苍老，虽然不乏青春的色彩与容颜。游走在渥太华的大街小巷，触摸岁月流转的瞬息。一千多个日夜到底留下了什么在心底。
也许是一粒砂，也许是一滴水。
只希望每个人可以做自己想做的，做此时此刻认为正确的，也需要隐忍坚持，也遭受痛苦挫折，在低谷的时候保有平静豁达的心境，间或感觉到生活的亮丽。无论怎样，对于生活，总是需要热情去爱的。
无意故作玄虚，只当痴人说梦。

说得很好啊！很喜欢。
也喜欢你用作头像的图片和那句很有型的签名。

 

[雪在烧]

最初由 sourcil 发布


We have a choice about where we focus our minds."

 

[我亦有亭]

对于Mary，其实还有更多的未知因素在等着她，与老公团聚是她现在生活的全部动力，但是那会是一份值得她如此付出的真爱么？最开始想把她老公的负心写进去，后来觉得实在太阴暗了，所以打住。
美眉的例子举得很传神，有时候生活是自己选择的，但是选的时候可能每一个选项都不是自己喜欢的，如同案板上的乌龟，伸头挨一刀，缩头仍然挨一刀，躲与不躲都是痛。
生活从来就不是公平的！
所以欣赏帮主的观点:心不累，人不累，或者即使真的累的时候，也要有意假装成心不累的样子，然后装啊装啊就习惯了（大话西游的台词)

 

[oread]

最初由 sourcil 发布




"And we always have a choice. If someone sticks a gun in my face and says, "Your money or your life!" I have a choice. I may not like my choice but I have one. In life we often don't like our choices because we don't know what the outcome is going to be and we are terrified of doing it 'wrong.'
Even with life events that occur in a way that we seemingly don't have a choice over (being laid off work, the car breaking down, a flood, etc.) we still have a choice over how we respond to those events. We can choose to see things that feel like, and seem to be, tragic as opportunities for growth. We can choose to focus on the half of the glass that is full and be grateful for it or to focus on the half that is empty and be the victim of it. We have a choice about where we focus our minds."

OMG, I KNEW the glass cliche was going to come up sooner or later in this thread!































Just kidding!!! I loved what you wrote, that's exactly what I meant: YOU HAVE A CHOICE!

 

[daochuxianguang]

最初由 挺傻 发布
就生活本身，目的不是最重要的，重要的在于经历。
在低谷的时候保有平静豁达的心境，间或感觉到生活的亮丽。

说的真好。我想聪明的最高境界是大智若愚，挺傻大师看来已经修炼成了。

 

[daochuxianguang]

最初由 sourcil 发布




"And we always have a choice. If someone sticks a gun in my face and says, "Your money or your life!" I have a choice. I may not like my choice but I have one. In life we often don't like our choices because we don't know what the outcome is going to be and we are terrified of doing it 'wrong.'
Even with life events that occur in a way that we seemingly don't have a choice over (being laid off work, the car breaking down, a flood, etc.) we still have a choice over how we respond to those events. We can choose to see things that feel like, and seem to be, tragic as opportunities for growth. We can choose to focus on the half of the glass that is full and be grateful for it or to focus on the half that is empty and be the victim of it. We have a choice about where we focus our minds."

每天我们可以选择享受生命或憎恨它，我们的选择和态度是真正属于我们的，不能被控制或夺去的。

美眉，太喜欢你的头像了，精灵可爱，跟你一样

 

[开喜]

我的亲戚就是这样, 为了留下来非要办难民, 结果一波过去又一波, 一难完了又一难, 整整忙活了八年, 当年来的时候是妙龄少妇, 八年后她的美貌变了憔悴, 希望变成了麻木, 老公在国内开起了歌厅, 包了二奶, 儿子从天天想妈妈, 到了根本不理妈妈, 全家终于团聚的时候, 老公提出离婚, 孩子宣布独立, 她整个人都几乎废了. 而她八年的苦心已经根本得不到老公和孩子的认可, (当年可是都同意她这么做的). 这八年她什么苦都吃过, 什么工都打过, 毛衣厂工作$7/小时, 每天站立并行走8-12小时, 眼睛和手都要不停的跟着织机, 刚工作的时候, 晚上她回家走不动, 坐在马路边上哭. 她长的特别漂亮, 曾经有不少人追她, 她甚至都想过先离婚, 嫁人办移民, 曲线救国的办法, 但是舍不得老公, 最后还是没走那条 "容易"的路. 可是八年抗战换来的是家庭破碎. 真替她不值啊.

 

[sourcil]

最初由 渐渐 发布


OMG, I KNEW the glass cliche was going to come up sooner or later in this thread!































Just kidding!!! I loved what you wrote, that's exactly what I meant: YOU HAVE A CHOICE!

hahaa, very funny!
You mean what I quoted That's all the credit I'll take this time!

 

[sourcil]

最初由 daochuxianguang 发布


美眉，太喜欢你的头像了，精灵可爱，跟你一样

哪天我也给你画一个? :kiss: