还是请教下离婚方面的一些情况（比较紧急）
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Two things to clarify:
1) if he hides the money(cashed out or transferred out), all you need to do is asking your lawyer to get all his bank statements showing all recent transactions and the court will split the money.
2) if you use "Legal Aid" (government pays your lawyer), after you get your share of the money, you have to pay government back, you only keep the balance if there is still balance.
The judge may rule that both of you share custody ( your child stays with you for one week, and next week with him).
If you keep the child(you get the child's custody), I think you can only take her back to visit not to stay because he has his right to visit her very week or month.
You can't sponsor your parents to come here if you don't have income. Even if your parents could come, how would you pay all the bills and for how long?
If you plans to go back to China to work there, you may have to give up the child.
Keep all your emails and show the "good" ones to your lawyer.
I'm not a lawyer and I have no divorcing experience (want to "divorce" my in-laws but it's hard...). I tried but what I have said may not be true but hope it helps.
1) if he hides the money(cashed out or transferred out), all you need to do is asking your lawyer to get all his bank statements showing all recent transactions and the court will split the money.
2) if you use "Legal Aid" (government pays your lawyer), after you get your share of the money, you have to pay government back, you only keep the balance if there is still balance.
The judge may rule that both of you share custody ( your child stays with you for one week, and next week with him).
If you keep the child(you get the child's custody), I think you can only take her back to visit not to stay because he has his right to visit her very week or month.
You can't sponsor your parents to come here if you don't have income. Even if your parents could come, how would you pay all the bills and for how long?
If you plans to go back to China to work there, you may have to give up the child.
Keep all your emails and show the "good" ones to your lawyer.
I'm not a lawyer and I have no divorcing experience (want to "divorce" my in-laws but it's hard...). I tried but what I have said may not be true but hope it helps.
I guess the kid is the key in this case. Do not learn the Chinese lady in USA (I forget the name) want get both money and kid. You have to select nad make decision. If select the kid, it is not good to come back now. Anyway, hire a lawyer and hold accounts (joint accounts) and other properties to avoid more loses first.
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Re: Re: thanks, every one
ayo,calm down man,we dont give a #$%^ about whatever colour they are,but yo,this ain't a right place to talk about this issue,right?
well,and i think b4 they break up,we shudn't b!tch my friend's husband too much,what do you think dude?
how'bout respectin' a chinese sister's husband and her child(i don't care what colour they are tho~)
thanks for readin' this,and your valuable suggestion
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ok, I just read your previous post here - so, finally you know everything, hope it's not too late... and now you know why I called those white guys/sluts as white monkey... but one thing I don't understand - how can the monkeys look down Chinese - which have become human being for 5000+ yrs?
ayo,calm down man,we dont give a #$%^ about whatever colour they are,but yo,this ain't a right place to talk about this issue,right?
well,and i think b4 they break up,we shudn't b!tch my friend's husband too much,what do you think dude?
how'bout respectin' a chinese sister's husband and her child(i don't care what colour they are tho~)
thanks for readin' this,and your valuable suggestion
Don't critize my friend
Don't citize my friend, he just wants to help me. I just don't know how to deal with this thing in China. And I don't know Canadian law. And don't know which way is better for my child. I treat The Chinese group as freinds, So I don't care about losing faces to get some suggestions.
If you don't know the whole story, and I do not need to tell the story in deal ,too.I hope your guys don't fight about this, and don't critize my freinds.
Don't citize my friend, he just wants to help me. I just don't know how to deal with this thing in China. And I don't know Canadian law. And don't know which way is better for my child. I treat The Chinese group as freinds, So I don't care about losing faces to get some suggestions.
If you don't know the whole story, and I do not need to tell the story in deal ,too.I hope your guys don't fight about this, and don't critize my freinds.
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Re: Re: Re: Re: thanks, every one
你的想法很有个性，你提到说，不用把什么都拉出来讲是没错的，我在这里也劝我朋友可以就此打住了，对于那些同情的帮助我觉得实在太感谢了，至少对下一步该怎么样有点想法了。对于那些觉得我朋友在怨天尤人的，那么也谢谢你们读我们的贴，另外感谢所有发给我QQH和帮助我朋友接机提供临时住宿的有名字和没名字的朋友们。
周末外面太阳不错，也比较凉爽，好心人们都过个好周末吧~
你的想法很有个性，你提到说，不用把什么都拉出来讲是没错的，我在这里也劝我朋友可以就此打住了，对于那些同情的帮助我觉得实在太感谢了，至少对下一步该怎么样有点想法了。对于那些觉得我朋友在怨天尤人的，那么也谢谢你们读我们的贴，另外感谢所有发给我QQH和帮助我朋友接机提供临时住宿的有名字和没名字的朋友们。
周末外面太阳不错，也比较凉爽，好心人们都过个好周末吧~
