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Cry it out method or No tears method? You may get some ideas here:
http://www.babycenter.com/baby-sleep-problems-solutions
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Cry it out method or No tears method? You may get some ideas here:
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Do I have to use a sleep training method for my child?
No. Parents often decide to try a particular method because they're exhausted or frustrated by their child's sleep habits and nothing they've tried on their own seems to work. If you're happy with the way things are going, count your blessings and continue what you're doing.
Families have different expectations and tolerances. A 9-month-old who wakes up twice a night might have one set of parents tearing their hair out while another family wouldn't have it any other way. If sleep isn't going well for your family, you'll know it — and you might want to read up on methods devised by experts and other parents for help.
Here are a few things to consider:
• Some children are naturally good sleepers and before too long they fall into a pattern of sleep that everyone's happy with. Others are naturally fussy or wakeful and may need more structure — or more nurturing — to help them sleep well.
• Every child, even within the same family, is different. So if the sleep strategies you used with your first child aren't working with the next one, you may need some new ideas.
• You don't have to follow an entire method. You might find just one aspect of a particular method that's effective for your child. Feel free to take what you can use.
• Sometimes common sense is the best "method." Families often develop their own ways of getting their kids into good sleep habits. If it works, keep going.
Parents' voices
"My first daughter was sleeping through the night (10 p.m. to 9 a.m.) by 6 months. We had a complete bedtime routine — a bath, a book, a bottle, then to bed, a little music in the crib, and asleep in ten minutes. It was wonderful, but that scenario didn't work for my second daughter and hasn't worked for my son, so I've tried different things for each of them. Sometimes a plan doesn't work. Listen to your baby — he or she will tell you what you need to know."
— LaKisha
"My 3-month-old doesn't sleep through the night, and it's fine with me. I keep her in her crib or a bassinet until her 3 a.m. feeding, and then she joins my husband and me until we get up for work. She won't go in her crib unless she's already asleep, usually from nursing and rocking, but she'll fall asleep in her bassinet beside our bed. She's happy and we're happy, and even if it goes against the wisdom of the experts, it's working for us."
— Anonymous
"My first cried it out and all was well. My second cried it out but it took much longer until all was well. My third, if allowed to cry too long, literally freaked out. He threw himself around his crib and would rarely calm down and fall asleep. On the rare occasion that he fell asleep, he'd wake up within minutes screaming bloody murder. Letting him cry it out was clearly not working so I looked for other options. Find your child's groove. You'll be glad you did."
— L.B.'s Mama
"My 4-and-a-half-month-old will only sleep through the night if we do everything the experts say not to do. She must be nursed or slept with unless we want to see her turn purple and cry for 45 minutes or more. She's like a wind-up doll when she starts and never settles until she's comforted, and she's been that way from the beginning. It really became a matter of, do we want to sleep or do we want to do what the books say? If she's comforted and put down sleeping, she sleeps eight to ten hours. To all you parents out there who have a baby like mine, do not despair — just do what works for you."
— Amanda
No. Parents often decide to try a particular method because they're exhausted or frustrated by their child's sleep habits and nothing they've tried on their own seems to work. If you're happy with the way things are going, count your blessings and continue what you're doing.
Families have different expectations and tolerances. A 9-month-old who wakes up twice a night might have one set of parents tearing their hair out while another family wouldn't have it any other way. If sleep isn't going well for your family, you'll know it — and you might want to read up on methods devised by experts and other parents for help.
Here are a few things to consider:
• Some children are naturally good sleepers and before too long they fall into a pattern of sleep that everyone's happy with. Others are naturally fussy or wakeful and may need more structure — or more nurturing — to help them sleep well.
• Every child, even within the same family, is different. So if the sleep strategies you used with your first child aren't working with the next one, you may need some new ideas.
• You don't have to follow an entire method. You might find just one aspect of a particular method that's effective for your child. Feel free to take what you can use.
• Sometimes common sense is the best "method." Families often develop their own ways of getting their kids into good sleep habits. If it works, keep going.
Parents' voices
"My first daughter was sleeping through the night (10 p.m. to 9 a.m.) by 6 months. We had a complete bedtime routine — a bath, a book, a bottle, then to bed, a little music in the crib, and asleep in ten minutes. It was wonderful, but that scenario didn't work for my second daughter and hasn't worked for my son, so I've tried different things for each of them. Sometimes a plan doesn't work. Listen to your baby — he or she will tell you what you need to know."
— LaKisha
"My 3-month-old doesn't sleep through the night, and it's fine with me. I keep her in her crib or a bassinet until her 3 a.m. feeding, and then she joins my husband and me until we get up for work. She won't go in her crib unless she's already asleep, usually from nursing and rocking, but she'll fall asleep in her bassinet beside our bed. She's happy and we're happy, and even if it goes against the wisdom of the experts, it's working for us."
— Anonymous
"My first cried it out and all was well. My second cried it out but it took much longer until all was well. My third, if allowed to cry too long, literally freaked out. He threw himself around his crib and would rarely calm down and fall asleep. On the rare occasion that he fell asleep, he'd wake up within minutes screaming bloody murder. Letting him cry it out was clearly not working so I looked for other options. Find your child's groove. You'll be glad you did."
— L.B.'s Mama
"My 4-and-a-half-month-old will only sleep through the night if we do everything the experts say not to do. She must be nursed or slept with unless we want to see her turn purple and cry for 45 minutes or more. She's like a wind-up doll when she starts and never settles until she's comforted, and she's been that way from the beginning. It really became a matter of, do we want to sleep or do we want to do what the books say? If she's comforted and put down sleeping, she sleeps eight to ten hours. To all you parents out there who have a baby like mine, do not despair — just do what works for you."
— Amanda
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My daughter did the exactly same.
She cried for one week and looked too scared to sleep. She held my hand all the time and tried to keep awake...Poor little one! Now she sleeps with me, every night she holds my neck and says: I love you mama. She's happy, so I'm happy.
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没有什么反面不反面的，有利有弊而已， 分开睡对小的好处有：１。 小的不会被你翻身，起床上厕所等打扰，２。小的不会不停的吸你的废气，用自己小功率的肺跟你大功率的肺较劲，
３。小的不会被你压着，４。 能让小的比较独立 ５。能让小的性心理发展不出现分叉
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就这一条我觉得有道理。没有什么反面不反面的，有利有弊而已， 分开睡对小的好处有：１。 小的不会被你翻身，起床上厕所等打扰，２。小的不会不停的吸你的废气，用自己小功率的肺跟你大功率的肺较劲，
所以我和小的虽然一个床，但离得远远的，而且背对他。现在小的2岁了，主要是爸爸陪睡，也遵守这个原则。
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你还后妈？！你看你那俩千金吃的用的穿的都是名牌，哪象我家小子基本捡剩。
你要后妈，那大部分渥村妈妈都得是后后妈啦。
后妈主要是指心态：心狠手辣。
