my son is leaving home for university

[月下独酌]

Let go

 

[heureux]

现在开始是您需要往大洞里使劲填的时候了

Sorry, Melody what does it mean ??

好像是指大把大把地花钱吧？

 

[亚丑]

我知道有的平时家里管的严的孩子,上大学后,由于父母不在身边,没人约束,导致成绩不太好.
我对孩子的要求就是注意安全,离什么示威之类的远点,不过如果是抗议涨学费的,可以考虑去.

 

[wiiwii]

If my son is leaving home for univeristy ,i will feel emotional . maybe even sad:blowzy:

 

[某某]

If my son is leaving home for univeristy ,i will feel emotional . maybe even sad:blowzy:

啊哟，你儿子才多大啊？

 

[wiiwii]

啊哟，你儿子才多大啊？

时间过的很快的,昨天好象才刚生出来,今天已经好几岁了,明天离家上大学了....不敢想啊,挺伤感的事情:blowzy:

 

[meadow]

Hello everyone,

Thank you all for your kind responses regarding for " my son is leaving home for university "

May be that is called Empty-nest syndrome.

I know that I have to let my baby bird fly out of the nest and let him experience freedom and explore life.

I would just let him know that me and his dad are always by his side and the support is unconditional.

This morning my friend email me the message below for how to prepare kid leaving home for universtiy. just share with you :


Encourage them to take responsibility for themselves and for starting their new way of life with confidence and enthusiasm.

On a practical level, it is really helpful if they can cook a few basic meals for themselves and can manage their own financial affairs.

 

[cmah]

开个玩笑... 应该是家长精神上断奶的时候了.

 

[某某]

Encourage them to take responsibility for themselves and for starting their new way of life with confidence and enthusiasm.

On a practical level, it is really helpful if they can cook a few basic meals for themselves and can manage their own financial affairs.

Well, these should really be started much earlier in life. The last summer before leaving to university is not long enough.

Canadian banks offer kids to start their own bank account at around 12, I think. And a lot of school offer home economics classes to teach the kids a few tricks on cooking.

Parents should also start these training with kids as soon as possible. I remember starting to help washing dishes when I wasn't even able to reach the sink without a food stool.