谢绝花钱买鲜花,请把钱捐献给某慈善机构。买个花蓝的钱就可以了。$30-$50?
in lieu of flowers, donations can be made to .....
Write a check, mail it to that organization, and include the family's name and address, so that the charitable organization can notify the family about the donation. You do not need to tell the family yourself. The charitable organization normally will not tell the family how much you donated, just that you made a donation.