有谁能够告诉我：婚姻出现问题，我该何去何从？

[陨石]

Re: Re: Re: 有谁能够告诉我：婚姻出现问题，我该何去何从？

最初由 Dean1 发布

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据说马克思跟恩格斯的夫人有孩子。那可是非常纯洁的产物啊。不过不知道是否恩格斯作何感想？

谁这么无知和缺德？

 

[ACai]

Re: 你比如...

最初由 aaa 发布

你比如：我觉得男人应该有个工作吧，他却不愿意去上班，说不喜欢上班、没意思。又有多少人真正喜欢上班呢？但人总得要生活，要养房子（还别说养老婆什么的）。我们不是没能力让自己活得更好，夫妻本应该同心协力来维护自己的家庭，不是吗？

I fully agree with your opnion. I wonder whether your husband has himself company. So, he is unwilling to find a job.

 

[天空]

人家说7年的婚姻一个槛。。小心啊

 

[J.J.]

希望就是失望！你不是跟他过不去，你是跟自己过不去。要善待自己，想开点儿。家人有过，不宜暴怒，不宜轻弃。此事难言，借他事隐讽之；今日不悟，宜来日再警之。如春风解冻，如何气消冰，才是家庭的型范。This is not highway, this is my way though! Think happy thoughts.

 

[liveagain4hope]

I just read your sharing. Quite a bold step.

There is always hope. A community, a couple of friends who care your family,... some basic understanding about marriage.

I often felt we mainlanders did get enough knowledge from our education. I am trying to catch up.

If the husband did not respond, he may need a wake-up call: something like, "you must listen carefully...."

There is always hope.